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Why not? The whole point of hiring is to get people who would normally not sleep with you.

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I think the western world seems to have been dragged deeper and deeper into materialism. Tech does not help at all. We have lost meaning. Before you had family, had to struggle for money and to feed your family, were tied to community and had a shared purpose.
 
Nowadays you can do what you want. I as a single gay man had children without ever having sex with a woman. We can fly around the globe , do anything we want and those of us in America are blessed with a lot of money-when compared to the rest of the world. But what does it all mean when there is no common shared belief anymore? If anyone is free to do anything-well what is life then? Is everything an illusion ? We are here and then we die -it maybe today or it maybe 6 decades from now.
 
In the old days religion explained it for us. But now with the advancement of technology -those old religious concepts-simply don't hold up. So what else is there to explain life and why we live the way we do? Nothing makes sense . You can self medicate-drugs, sex, food, alcohol, work-in a way a busy family/work life is somewhat similar. But what exactly is life-what is good/bad-what difference does anything you do make in the grand scheme of things -if we are going to end up dead anyways?
 
I think this void where nothing makes sense pushes us into despair as we can't function from an idea/belief anymore.

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It depends on where someone is at that time in their life. I was always feminine and still am more comfortable with women. I grew up in a place where no one even talked about being gay-though I was mocked and asked to act like men often. At that time we didn't have the net or cable, so not like I knew much other than what others around me believed.
 
I kept my gayness hidden and moved to a more liberal area and came out. It was quite a shock-yeah I am gay and so what-nobody cared. I did go to the gay center which was a help. But being feminine, I just embraced it and became exaggerated or learned as you say and gained a lot of weight and just adopted a drag queen persona. I did get laid a lot, after a lot of rejections, mocked -but my persona acted like a shield. But after a while that was not enough a sit wasn't the real me and I started pulling away and nothing made me happy. That is when I first started hiring, massage for a while and then finally escorts.
 
I finally ended up having my own kids through scientific means and moved back to a smaller town close to family who help out and it feels like have lived multiple lifetimes.
 
It is every easy to judge someone by their behavior or actions. but there is no book to follow on how to be the perfect gay or the perfect man. Who knows what that overly feminized person went through in his life to get to that point? What hells he crossed to come to what he thought was a safe haven only to see his fellow gays sneer and say he is not a real man.
 
I myself prefer studly, handsome, muscular men . That is a preference. I am not going to mock people for actions and behaviors that may be natural or learned to cope with their lives. Being gay or different is not the easiest thing. Straight people marry-it is a celebration, straight people have kids-it is great joy, straight people have sex-great. Us, everything is met with judgement. I have been judged , called selfish, ungodly for having kids on my own-ya know because no mother. Gay marriage is still controversial. Till 15 years or so ago gay sex could get you arrested-thanks to the Supreme court. Even today being gay in many countries can get you punished by death or other forms of punishment.
 
If it does not affect you-why bother? Men are men some of us maybe more feminine, others more masculine-if you are confident and secure in your manhood -it really shouldn't bother you should it???
 
I may be feminine in my "feeling" but I love my dick and so do other men. There is somebody for everybody.

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