whatsinaname

I'm sure this opinion will be unpopular here but you're asking someone to do something illegal so what is "fair" isn't decided by you, the client, but rather the therapist. "What is it worth to risk my license/business/etc" and they set their prices accordingly. 
Also, there are plenty of people who get massages that are strictly therapeutic, just maybe not on this forum. 

I'm sure this opinion will be unpopular here but you're asking someone to do something illegal so what is "fair" isn't decided by you, the client, but rather the therapist. "What is it worth to risk my license/business/etc" and they set their prices accordingly. 
Also, there are plenty of people who get massages that are strictly therapeutic, just maybe not on this forum. 

I'm sure this opinion will be unpopular here but you're asking someone to do something illegal so what is "fair" isn't decided by you, the client, but rather the therapist. "What is it worth to risk my license/business/etc" and they set their prices accordingly. 
Also, there are plenty of people who get massages that are strictly therapeutic, just maybe not on this forum. 

I'm sure this opinion will be unpopular here but you're asking someone to do something illegal so what is "fair" isn't decided by you, the client, but rather the therapist. "What is it worth to risk my license/business/etc" and they set their prices accordingly. 
Also, there are plenty of people who get massages that are strictly therapeutic, just maybe not on this forum. 

I just use my regular phone i really dgaf

I just use my regular phone i really dgaf

I don't. If they happen that's great, but if not that's fine too. I always prioritize getting a good massage

I just use my regular phone i really dgaf

I recently saw a provider for a massage that evolved into more than that. I don't know if he was just being nice but he said he'd give me a free session next time. Would you as a provider ever suggest that or is it just to get someone to rebook? I would rebook regardless and pay him anyway but maybe it was just flattery

Photos with an AI filter are so fucking corny I typically skip the profile. Also it's pretty easy to tell when a bio is written with AI assistance too which is somehow even worse.

Wouldn't it be more awkward if you did that and then later on revealed you were asking without him knowing it was you? I would honestly just text him and say "hey it's x from the spa, I saw your ad online." Even if it is just therapeutic, I'm sure he would appreciate pocketing all the money instead of having the spa take a large amount of it. 

Photos with an AI filter are so fucking corny I typically skip the profile. Also it's pretty easy to tell when a bio is written with AI assistance too which is somehow even worse.

Wouldn't it be more awkward if you did that and then later on revealed you were asking without him knowing it was you? I would honestly just text him and say "hey it's x from the spa, I saw your ad online." Even if it is just therapeutic, I'm sure he would appreciate pocketing all the money instead of having the spa take a large amount of it. 

While I disagree with this I did make myself laugh by imagining someone going to a barbershop and requesting a circumcision 

While I disagree with this I did make myself laugh by imagining someone going to a barbershop and requesting a circumcision 

While I disagree with this I did make myself laugh by imagining someone going to a barbershop and requesting a circumcision 

I only go for massages (and even then, those that lean more therapeutic) so maybe it's less... risky? I'll pretty much answer any question they have for me. I'm not really talkative during sessions though so I doubt I'd just say stuff out of the blue. 

If you want a strictly therapeutic massage there are plenty of places and practitioners where you can receive it. It sounds like this person made you very uncomfortable during your session by disrespecting your boundaries that you already made clear. I would honestly look elsewhere at this point. If you go back it is possible the provider will take it as they did nothing wrong and keep doing it. 

If you want a strictly therapeutic massage there are plenty of places and practitioners where you can receive it. It sounds like this person made you very uncomfortable during your session by disrespecting your boundaries that you already made clear. I would honestly look elsewhere at this point. If you go back it is possible the provider will take it as they did nothing wrong and keep doing it. 

I tend to read reviews to find repeated patterns. Providers are people too and have off days and sometimes don't connect with clients. If someone has the same (what I would consider to be, because everyone is different) negative feedback from many experiences then I'd probably look elsewhere. 

I tend to read reviews to find repeated patterns. Providers are people too and have off days and sometimes don't connect with clients. If someone has the same (what I would consider to be, because everyone is different) negative feedback from many experiences then I'd probably look elsewhere. 

I tend to read reviews to find repeated patterns. Providers are people too and have off days and sometimes don't connect with clients. If someone has the same (what I would consider to be, because everyone is different) negative feedback from many experiences then I'd probably look elsewhere. 

I tend to read reviews to find repeated patterns. Providers are people too and have off days and sometimes don't connect with clients. If someone has the same (what I would consider to be, because everyone is different) negative feedback from many experiences then I'd probably look elsewhere. 

Honestly I'm more inclined to do it for Grindr hookups than stuff like this. I'll usually just text my best friend with something like "i'm going to this address for this long, if you don't hear back by this time.... avenge me" 

Honestly I'm more inclined to do it for Grindr hookups than stuff like this. I'll usually just text my best friend with something like "i'm going to this address for this long, if you don't hear back by this time.... avenge me"