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I just use my regular phone i really dgaf

I don't. If they happen that's great, but if not that's fine too. I always prioritize getting a good massage

I recently saw a provider for a massage that evolved into more than that. I don't know if he was just being nice but he said he'd give me a free session next time. Would you as a provider ever suggest that or is it just to get someone to rebook? I would rebook regardless and pay him anyway but maybe it was just flattery

Photos with an AI filter are so fucking corny I typically skip the profile. Also it's pretty easy to tell when a bio is written with AI assistance too which is somehow even worse.

Wouldn't it be more awkward if you did that and then later on revealed you were asking without him knowing it was you? I would honestly just text him and say "hey it's x from the spa, I saw your ad online." Even if it is just therapeutic, I'm sure he would appreciate pocketing all the money instead of having the spa take a large amount of it.

While I disagree with this I did make myself laugh by imagining someone going to a barbershop and requesting a circumcision

I only go for massages (and even then, those that lean more therapeutic) so maybe it's less... risky? I'll pretty much answer any question they have for me. I'm not really talkative during sessions though so I doubt I'd just say stuff out of the blue.

If you want a strictly therapeutic massage there are plenty of places and practitioners where you can receive it. It sounds like this person made you very uncomfortable during your session by disrespecting your boundaries that you already made clear. I would honestly look elsewhere at this point. If you go back it is possible the provider will take it as they did nothing wrong and keep doing it.

I'm curious as to what "I specialize in straight curious and DL men" means

I tend to read reviews to find repeated patterns. Providers are people too and have off days and sometimes don't connect with clients. If someone has the same (what I would consider to be, because everyone is different) negative feedback from many experiences then I'd probably look elsewhere.

Honestly I'm more inclined to do it for Grindr hookups than stuff like this. I'll usually just text my best friend with something like "i'm going to this address for this long, if you don't hear back by this time.... avenge me"

Well for one, a lot of the employees at H&S (and other chain spas) are probably fresh out of massage school and the people you find online typically have more experience to justify a price increase. Next, people in those chains rely on tips more than independent workers do (which makes it appear to be cheaper at first). Lastly, you're right, you shouldn't pay extra for an unlicensed/inexperienced massage, but some of these pages are just really hot guys trying to get money from being that and I guess people go in for it. You could argue that assuming the risk of doing less than legal things is worthy of a premium but I'm not too knowledgeable on that side of things.

Honestly for me it's when they're massaging my inner thigh and their hand brushes up against my balls. by the time i flip over i'm chubbed already

Personally, I just like to confirm details of the appointment, didn't realize it was annoying to the provider. I'll stop!

The whole time? Or does it depend on what they're doing to you?