BenjaminNicholas

Which is why most Americans stick out like sore thumbs on foreign soil. The stereotype is unfortunately true: From the way we dress, the volume of our voices, to our mundane food tastes. Going to a RL in Hawaii is criminal.

Unless you're in a very, very remote place, finding care is not difficult. Escorts with their own injectables? Perhaps, but not likely. You'd eventually be stopped by customs and asked a whole slew of questions. No bueno. A smart escort has access to a doc on demand (through an app or website) and can find access to hospitals or clinics in the areas they're traveling if the shit hits the fan. I always travel with a slew of medications (zpack, doxy, etc... No syringes). For me, it's more about general sickness or avoiding infections. When it comes to a perceived STD, I'd video chat with my doc, get a recommendation on local clinic and then figure out the best plan of attack. Bottom line, if you want to find medical care, you probably will.

Or, if you have a chat beforehand, a strong hand around someone's neck.

I can't imagine any intelligent escort thinking this way. That entirely too much trust in someone you likely don't know well. Bottom line, you protect YOURSELF first and then make judgement calls from there. We always have to think about consequence: It's weighing how much risk you're willing to put yourself in with how easy/accessible it is to treat what issue might crop up.

If you're happy, I'm happy

I'm assuming you're being hyperbolic here.

Florida has plenty of options for the wealthy. I can link a dozen properties in Orlando, Jupiter, the Keys, Palm Beach and Miami that are $8+ million and ready to move into. Middle-class homes, a little less so, but they're still there. $500k-$2m. All depends on where you want to live in FL. The further north you go, the bigger and better the deals. The real problem is for those who bought into the condo life with the HOA issues to match.

People will discriminate based on anything and everything. This isn't new. It's why I always suggest clients put any hot-button issues out there, up-front. If it's something that might adversely affect the time you spend with a guy, it's easier to just lay it out and save yourself from wasting time.

I've never been good at math, but these are ratios I understand. Fuck, I'd have pulled a solid 1500 on my SATs if this was part of the math section.

Reference letters. SSN. Tax returns and IRS liens. Family medical history. Letter from service department at car dealership. Grocery store memberships (double or triple couponing preferred). List of online streaming subscriptions. Brief phone interview asking the tough questions: 'corn or flour tortillas with your breakfast tacos?'

I'm a top who very selectively rims, but has zero issue with oral. Bottom line, rimming is far riskier than sucking dick, especially if either party hasn't had their hep vaxes. Also, a lot of guys can keep their cock clean, but don't have a clue when it comes to hole maintenance.

SDT? But yeah, this topic has been well-worn here and realistically, legalization isn't happening anytime soon. I know people who have gotten HIV from Grindr trade. Getting a disease takes no talent... Just the idiocy of not protecting yourself. It takes two to tango. If you're going to fuck raw, know what PrEP is and use it. Otherwise, either don't fuck raw in the first place or don't complain when things turn out badly for you. Take responsibility for your own health at all times.

But why? They've always looked up to you.

In my travels, there are people who hire me who love the attention of having me around and then there are those who don't understand what reaction a tall, built, ginger/blond is going to bring. I've learned to 'make myself smaller' when it suits the situation. It doesn't always work, but it's part of the job. Age has allowed me to quickly realize when to blend into the crowd, especially when it's at an event where unwelcome attention is a detriment to my client.

Gotta say, his cum shot is pretty fucking dope. And hot.

People will discriminate on everything. That's just life. It's even worse when you're in a looks-based business. I've gotten shit for a number of things, including being a ginger, being too tall and pulling too much focus when I walk into a room. You learn to ignore what you can't change and learn from it, always being specific in your email/text exchanges about any issues you think might arise.

But now you're psychoanalyzing someone you don't even know. A sickness? That's presumptuous as fuck. You're judging someone else for having sex on an escort message board dedicated to these very discussions? Are you, really?

I don't think that's really pertinent to the story. Their relationship is none of our business, no?

I really wish Judith Martin would have offered this kind of advice

Right, cheers, thanks a lot.

You're not allowed to bitch about it if you can't spell it correctly.

This is why you don't vacation in small, developing places like Punta Cana without knowing what you're getting yourself into. You stick to Santo Domingo. The options there are a-plenty. As for traveling with people who have Korbel wishes and bean dip dreams, you stiff upper lip through it and never travel with them again. When I travel for me, I have a very specific group of friends I travel with- people I know who won't embarrass me or themselves. People who can easily handle travel-related issues and not let it kill the vibe. Those people can be tough to find, but they're out there. I feel really fortunate to have found my 'crew.' And then there's just traveling solo, which I also enjoy. Try to enjoy the remainder of your time in the DR. I have been to Punta Cana multiple times, almost always at the Zilara/Ziva. It's enjoyable for what it is.

In addition to dick size, a lot of guys are bullshitting their height. 5'8" is the new 6'

I just don't think Sutton doesn't have the gravitas for the role. As she ages, she's hitting a wall of not being believably castable in brassy, comedic roles that fit her so well a decade ago. Didn't see that one, but what a fucking cast: Marian Seldes (Vera Charles), Michael Berresse (Ralph Devine), Sarah Uriarte Berry (Gloria Upson) Charles Kimbrough (Mr. Upson) Beth Howland (Mrs. Upson), Swoosie Kurtz (Agnes Gooch), Alison Fraser (Nora Muldoon), Charles Shaughnessy (Brian O'Bannion), Douglas Sills (M. Lindsay Woolsey), B.D. Wong (Ito), Dylan Baker (Mr. Babcock) and T.J. Larke (Young Patrick Dennis) I did see Busch play Mame at the Ogunquit Playhouse the next year.

But why? Seriously. What makes you think she's a Mame Dennis?