BenjaminNicholas

But what some of us are discussing isn't 'being attractive' or 'attracted to,' but the nuts and bolts of having sex with or as a larger person. Depending on someone's size, it can be problematic and if that's the case, I think it's wise for a client to disclose that up front. I fully agree that escorts are here to fulfill a variety of specific needs, but so that we're able to successfully, we need to know what we're walking into. I think a quick, frank email or discussion is never a bad thing.

If you're looking for a very small, very functional room with a gigantic bed (bigger than a king), check out the CitizenM in Times Square.

HRH Chicago has been closed for a couple of years. It's been redone and is now the Hotel St Jane. It's now got a great Deco design.

Your suggestions here would be appreciated then

It's Manhattan in brand-new rooms that average 500 sq ft. That's pretty normal. And intro rates are lower at the moment. I've seen $420/night on bulk sites.

Not entirely sure about parking now, as it's been years since I've been. I hear they added more. I also remember them having a security guard patrolling the lot.

Yes, that's a classic move and one that's been useful in certain situations. However... A simple shower cannot properly douche someone out.

NYC Crosby St Hotel and The Whitby are two of my favorites. They're both Firmdale properties and super accommodating. The new Equinox hotel in Hudson Yards is also beautiful... And very, very sexy.

HPV can be transmitted through simple touch. This is why things like Gardisil-9 exist. https://www.gardasil9.com/adults/

Just be upfront and honest, about yourself and your expectations. Many fellow escorts I've talked with about having larger clients don't have problems with the weight, but how that size can prevent a guy from properly preparing for play. There comes a point in which it's simply impossible for a big guy to get himself squeaky clean. My advice is akin to what other guys have already suggested: Just start a dialogue with someone you find interesting. See where it goes. As I've said before around here, no guts-no glory

Something tells me it involved a direct quote from The Art of the Deal

They do tend to go hand-in-hand. While he's got multiple options for travel outside of the States, he did cut off a sizable chunk of income by getting flagged.

Just ask. A lot of guys swallow.

No. Most US-based gay bars, even leather bars, have been fully, brutally sanitized. I just had another awesome visit to CDMX (and Tom's Leather Bar), which made me think about what old-school gay bars must have been like. You have to go through a dark room to get to the bathrooms. It was a lot of fun. In fact, all of gay Mexico City was great.

From what I understand, he's not currently the best travel companion due to having ongoing issues with US CBP.

Someone saying they publically 'won't discuss politics' is really doing themselves a disservice. It's inviting the conversation. This is simple: Say nothing at all. Remove any mention from your copy. If it comes up, nod and smile. Change the subject.

It's almost time to put this thread into Politics

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Old school, traditional swimmer's jock FTW They're sexy, streamlined and are functional for those of us who wear (or wore) them playing sports. Slut nostalgia

There's no excuse for years-outdated photos. Most people have great cameras on their cell phones and a quick snapshot is simple. I get it... You looked amazing in 2017, but damn if you're not in an image-based biz: Do the legwork, keep yourself in the best possible condition and don't abuse the handsome out of you.

Read reviews. Hire accordingly. Build up as much rapport before the visit as you can. Fly someone in if you feel they're THE guy. Most important: Find someone who (relatively) shares your same objectives.

This is the key word: Evolve. If things don't evolve, they die. Support money is only a piece of this and Daddy's Reviews needs to be a clearinghouse for not just male escorts, but gay travel as well. I actually think it would complement the legacy of Hooboy quite well. HB never stayed in one place for too long and absolutely loved the ins and outs of LGBT travel. At several points, he had mentioned implementing more 'gay-centric' travel reviews into the mix, but never really got around to it. I believe Daddy asking for a wider variety of reviews is a very good thing. Let's get him some new content, stat!

Accusation and being found guilty are two very separate things. This is old news being used to sell books. Wake me when they go to trial.

I'm still pissed I can't get the Shamrock Shake in Dallas. As a ginger and an Irishman, I call bullshit

It's good, but it's also got so many overdone hallmarks of Ryan Murphy that it's a little off-putting (for me). That his character randomly sings feels shoehorned in. It almost feels like Murphy is attempting a pastiche of a Wes Anderson film. It's not bad... It's just not anywhere near as good or creative as what Anderson does.