BenjaminNicholas

You win a gold medal for the most skin-crawling comment of the day. Congrats. Side note: I'd say that it's much less here than the other site that toes the line of sexual exploitation.

There's a lot to be said for genuine confidence. The right swagger on a guy can make him the most interesting and desirable person in a room, even if he's not the most traditionally 'hot'

It honestly all depends on the tour group: You've got Abercrombie & Kent, Apple Vacations and everything in-between. Small, under-the-radar group travel is a fine way to go. Just do your research, read reviews and figure out what suits you best. Successful vacationing is a lot like choosing the right escort

Part of being a fully functional adult is knowing the right time and place. This story was cringe-worthy.

By the time Chris Hansen has you on the kitchen stool with a plate of cookies on the counter, you're fucked. I'd say this guy is toast.

What good is the circus without a group of clowns?

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The whole thing felt (and looked) like a circus. Just find a nicely-tailored suit and wear it with confidence. You don't need to scream to be the quiet center of attention.

Blacks is fun. Was there a few months ago and had no problems getting naked and staying that way for a few hours. Just be aware that climbing down (and back up) can be steep and quite a hike if you're not in fighting shape.

Don't do it. Sure, it's an ego stroke and you might initially think it's a positive thing, but trust me... It's the kind of exposure you don't need or want. I've turned down multiple offers for tell-all books, interviews and reality shows, all because I know it would compromise a major part of my life. Unless you get final edit approval (which is highly unlikely), this is a bad idea. Never let anyone own your image or your story. PS: Clearly, you've already made the right decision

Whoever told you I was well-rounded is a dirty liar. I much prefer the more slimming term 'cylindrical'

https://www.companyofmen.org/threads/dwindling-supply-of-likable-escorts-lately.154829/#post-1841350

Oddly enough- and his ad copy aside- I wasn't the one who was getting pounded when we met. However, playing sub every now and then is a fun change of pace

Screw age. As Max Bialystock once said, That's it baby, when ya got it, flaunt it. FLAUNT IT.

Here's the deal... BFE only really works when it's a longer appointment. An overnight, weekend or more. An hour or two? I mean, you can chat a bit, but it's mainly hitting the sheets. Not a lot of time to discuss china patterns.

Funny how these things change as we change ourselves. When I was in my 20s, I loved blowing a guy to completion. It always got me hard giving the other guy pleasure. When guys would blow me, sure it felt good, but there was a missing piece that almost always kept me from getting off. Now, as I've developed my body and sexually matured, I find more guys want to service me. The mentality of that is a huge turn-on and has allowed me to more easily let a guy blow me until I nut.

He's real (at least the guy in the OPs link is). We hooked up off Grindr when I was in DC last week. He looks like his pics.

This is not the definition of BFE. This is, however, the definition of bullshit. I'm really sorry you dealt with this.

You should see what you get these days for one of Zulu's coconuts https://www.wdsu.com/article/zulu-coconuts-have-quite-the-storied-history/3369297

If he's making it tough to get paid, he's doing it entirely wrong. Sorry you're dealing with that. You could speak plainly and say 'without first settling on a rate, I don't feel comfortable moving forward.'

Inexperience is understandable. A lot of guys see an ad and think only about the look, but not about a guy's entire ability to offer him what he really wants/needs. That's where this is the learning experience: Use it when you consider your next hire. Find a guy you like, but also an escort who's got a solid track record.

I wouldn't visit Charlotte for the simple fact that CLT has some of the worst Admiral's Clubs in the system

Considering you're going to get a wide variety of answers here from non-escorts, why not just discuss this with the guy you're considering seeing? Skip the middleman and have a conversation with the escort. It's the best way to start things off.

The appointment went South, yet you still paid his rent and bought him gifts. At any point in all of this, didn't a little voice in your head say You cannot bribe your way into a great session from an escort: Learn this with future hires. Also, do your homework, find a guy with a string of good reviews and attempt to get a better feel for who you're going to see. I'm sorry this ended up badly, but consider it a learning experience and not the final nail in the coffin.

The appointment went South, yet you still paid his rent and bought him gifts. At any point in all of this, didn't a little voice in your head say You cannot bribe your way into a great session from an escort: Learn this with future hires. Also, do your homework, find a guy with a string of good reviews and attempt to get a better feel for who you're going to see. I'm sorry this ended up badly, but consider it a learning experience and not the final nail in the coffin.