RacerXLA

Regular phone. 
I have nothing to hide and I want anyone I contact to feel comfortable.
I’ve never had a problem and if I do, I’ll deal with it 🤌🏼

I've used the "Burner" APP (I'm referring to the APP, not a Burner phone) for years with complete satisfaction. What I like best is that you can change your number every month - and can choose whatever area code you want - this is good if you're visiting somewhere and want to use the local area code (it probably doesn't matter but I'm thinking that local escorts might be more responsive to someone in their own area code?).
I pay per year which currently is $90. Yes, you must give them your current mobile phone number (they must have your phone number so that Burner can use your phone to complete calls) - but there's never been a privacy issue in the 5 or 6 years I've been using Burner.  And, obviously, you must give them your name and address to pay for their services.
When you use the Burner number to call someone you dial the number and then you receive a screen message that says "HEADS UP - We'll hide your number by calling your Burner first." Then, your Burner will call (the number you're calling)" -- you have to choose "OK" - and then Burner will call the number. The person you call ONLY sees your Burner number on his screen.
If you receive a call on your Burner number, your screen will tell you that someone is calling your Burner number - and then you have to press "OK" to receive the call. 
Hope this helps you decide. I like Burner and recommend it without reservations. 

I use my regular phone.  I have no illusions that it is secure so I try to avoid putting anything compromising in my texts.  I vet possible providers very carefully and only hire for incall, which ensures that both of us are discreet.  If I were hiring for meetups at a hotel, I would use some kind of anonymizer.

1. Convenience- hiring allows me to select a guy who can host in a convenient location at a convenient time.  No endless back and forth or messaging dozens of guys with no responses.
2. Safety- a guy with reviews on here and RM is more vetted than a stranger on an app.
3. Sexual health- providers are more likely to get tested often (and be on prep etc) as their careers depend on it.  I also have less apprehension requiring condoms since I’m the one paying and thus calling the shots.
4. Activities- I can engage in whatever (consensual) activities I like without fear of judgement or worrying about pleasing my partner (though of course I still want him to have a good time).  And their sexual prowess and experience allows them to better work with my relative inexperience.
5. Attractiveness- I can select a guy with any “look” I’m in the mood for and who would not be likely to give me time of day on an app.

Because I can.

I hire because it's easy. The apps are a pain.
Also, I like younger, muscular guys and being in my 60s and out of shape, they aren't doing it for free.

I’m a known trusted member and I’m saying don’t do it girl. He is definitely in no way shape or form worth a deposit. And I cannot emphasize enough, how terrible his hair looked, and how insistent he was that his hair looked awesome. He kept claiming that it was for auditions. Unless he was auditioning to play a meth addict, or the victim of a beauty school perm disaster, he looked horrific in terms of his hair. Nice body. Handsome face. Decent height. Ok dick.
 
But I mean you would be embarrassed and I mean EMBARRESSED  to be seen with him in public in terms of How bad he was dressed, groomed, and did I mention his hair? I mean, freakishly bad. And as I said, I made a point of telling him I want him to not look that way the next time I saw him… And he showed up looking exactly the same and insisted that he looked amazing. It was delusional.
to be clear, I’m not saying don’t hire him. He might show up and look like a runway model that day. But if you pay deposit and he looks the way he looked when he came to see me you will regret having paid that deposit.

You are crazy to even consider it.
No. 👏  Deposits.  👏  Ever.  👏

He’s LA based. Will be in Seattle next week. He’s up for traveling as well so you should ping him. He’s excellent. Very well educated. Handsome. kind and easy to coordinate with. Incredible body. Knows how to adjust to a client. A regular for me. Dm me for more details. Knows how to pleasure you.  

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Now @Jostar!!  You know better by now than to try to set up meetings during the chaos of a major event!  I don't think your 'post of shame' is a reflection  of the providers' reliability. I'll bet they each received many many dozens of inquiries. 

@Bruciej- who are the escorts here in LA that you have found to be good with older guys?

Who?

I was not abused and has a totally regular sex life but that stuff turns me on. If you want to blame someone blame Disney for having all those hunky guys in bondage. This is a kink shame generalization that isn't even accurate. It can be for SOME people but not the majority.

No.  Nobody in this business is worth that to me and having his ad up for almost two years with no reviews means Im not alone in that thinking. 

I had the pleasure of seeing Maus again this weekend in Palm Springs.   After a few other escorts opened me up, Maus came in for the big finale.  It never ceases to amaze me how great he feels.   Run, don't walk, to hire Maus now... Because if you are a bottom, you won't be able to walk much after a session with him.  But for you tops out there, he is versatile, as you can see from the great variety of porn he's been featured in.  Enjoy this man!

Don’t be ashamed…we all pay the “stupid tax” at some point.  Learn from it and move on. And thank you for making us aware - you probably saved someone else from paying the tax on this dude.

My fitness coach can spell my asshole. 

He was nice and candid in our text conversation. We’ll see if he’s Mr Hyde in person. 🤞

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He’s cute. Has anyone met him?

Did you end up meeting? 

Great meet-up. He’s up for anything and loves it all. He’s also a great conversationalist. He’s starting working out so there’s that to look forward to. One of the most responsive providers in a long time.

Anyone in LA ever met this cute young man?
https://rent.men/Beastmuffin

Where do you find them?  And where do you find the time?  

Like Archangel, I had a bad experience with him. He's often late, makes you wait too long to enter his place. Once he made me wait 45 minutes, and when he gave me a massage, he was saying things that didn't make sense almost as if he was on drugs. I still am not sure if he was on drugs but I really was so uncomfortable. I almost left crying bc it was so bad.