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As always, when people talk about someone, misinformation can easily circulate. I’d like to take a moment to clarify a few things.
 
First, I have never asked for $400, certainly not in 2024. When I first started, my rate was $200, and over time it increased to $350, which is a recent adjustment. On a few occasions, I have charged more than $400, but only in very specific and unconventional situations.
 
My rate is set by me alone and reflects much more than physical appearance. It encompasses the nature of the work itself, including emotional labor, personal boundaries, and situations that can be challenging or uncomfortable. Sharing intimacy with someone you don’t know — and may not even like — requires care, professionalism, and mutual respect, which is why a fair and mutually satisfying exchange is essential.
 
Everyone has different tastes, and that’s completely fine. If someone feels my rate isn’t for them, I respect that. What isn’t fair is deciding the value of my work without truly knowing me. Photos and cameras rarely reflect the full experience, and I’m confident in the fact that people consistently find me more pleasant and engaging in person than in images.
 
For anyone who has doubts, I’m happy to invite you to a video call so you can better understand the value and reasoning behind my fee.

While there are valid arguments for/against, I think putting the city in the subject line is a good idea. The OP can always change the title of the thread if it becomes irrelevant or out-of-date. Moderators can do the same if made aware of it.
One thing that does NOT work in the subject title is to enter a URL link to the provider’s ad/site. Looks messy, and the link won’t work.

This also helps members asking for "411" to attract helpful comments.  I, too, skip over reading titles without a city in the subject line.  I only look at subjects with the cities I regularly visit or plan to visit within the upcoming year.
If someone wants to take the time to create a new topic without giving it a better chance for helpful replies, then so be it.  There's always the ever-so-successful "Bump" comment to help attract useful comments. 😊 

No, it’s not meaningless. Every rentmen ad lists “location,” right at the top. Use that. 

Yes. If the provider travels mostly without a permanent home base, just add "Traveler" in front of the name rather than a city locale after. For clients who never host, this detail of location is crucial for consideration. 
The ad sites allow the provider great leeway as to where they actually are vs words in the profile, and clarification here really makes a diff.

Very very curious about this guy as well and also find this a bit sus lol. I might eventually take the plunge for us if no one else does soon. But there's a couple other guys ahead of this guy in my RM queue 😆

quoted me 450/hr. he's hot, but that's a bit high.

he is in los angeles now. dare i take the plunge. 🧐

300-450 rates are wild… sexy pics but that’s just absurd. 

I'm not sure where I should post this - but thought others might want to know.
I could not access Pornhub or XVideos or anything like those on the web, due to my location in the USA - unless I either paid to have access or gave them information about me.   I didn't want to do either one.   
I've been looking at VPNs lately - and I found one - the free version of Proton VPN.  I have it - it works great, as it doesn't interfere with what I'm doing.  And, I can now have access to Pornhub, XVideos, XNXX, etc.  Sometimes I have to tell them I'm over 18, but that's all I have to do.
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Some background first which some have read before. I was a virgin until I was 41-and I mean a total virgin.  The most I had done was give a short swift kiss on a cheek or the lips to probably less than 10 women in my life. And I don't think I had ever kissed a man. 
 
Why you say? Because I didn't want to be gay.  But finally I felt like I had to have sex. But I still didn't want to be gay. So I finally nerved myself up to hire an escort. I was lucky. He was very kind and took the time to teach me things like how to kiss. 
 
After that because I still didn't want to be gay, and because also I didn't feel I was attractive enough that anyone would really want me, I continued to hire for around 15 years. And because I was solitary I often hired for overnights and weekends. I had a lot of not-so-great or mediocre experiences. But on the other hand I did have a lot of nice times and met some incredibly handsome friendly guys. I probably remember more of the overnights and weekends than I do of the one and two hour meets and not just because of the sex as I am not now and never was a sexual dynamo. 
 
But the point I want to make is that for me -and maybe not every time -but definitely either during a large proportion of the meeting time or afterwards when I had time to reflect, I had some degree of melancholy or wistfulness because I knew it was a paid encounter. 
 
That doesn't mean I didn't have a good time or fun during a lot of  my escort encounters **(see below). But the wistfulness  was often there at the back of my mind. Now the feeling wasn't severe enough to make me stop meeting escorts. In fact two of the best Christmases I ever had as adult (I'm Jewish so Christmas isn't a family time for me-but the season can still feel a little hollow if you're nowhere near your own family and you know most people around you are celebrating) were two consecutive Christmas weekends (I think back in 2015 and 2016) I spent with an escort at his house. 
So if your feelings are anything like mine were, you're going to have figure out if you're having a good enough time to be able to deal with (what is for me)  the omnipresent downside  of hiring. If you can't, then maybe hiring isn't right for you. 
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**I was in a gay club once-possibly The Cuff in Seattle. They had some posters of porn stars on the wall. I had been with 4 or 5 of them -that definitely gave me some silent satisfaction. And it never would have  occurred if I had never started hiring. 

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If I had the money I’d see him every week

What is the size of his penis? I'm thinking about meeting him after read reviews here, but those photos on RM look very outdated.

The people this thread is resonating with are basically doing the equivalent of saying they have a specific type of hair and are looking for stylists who can work with that hair type, and your response is basically "stop complaining and shave your head". You sound like an absolute buffoon.

cant remember, but another therapist that I was inquiring with sent me a screenshot of my phone # with reviews on it

Appreciate you sharing but the point of the post was to share any great spots that we can still enjoy. Need to enjoy things while they are around. 

I met him last week. One of the best ever.  Totally sexy with a huge **** Vers, stayed extra time. Nice personality. 100% recommend. 

Cool! Yeah, it’s pretty straightforward. If you need more info, just let me know. It was my first time getting a massage in Tijuana, so I didn’t know what to expect. Overall, it was a good experience, and you really can’t beat the prices—around $80 for a sensual / erotic massage. And if Latin guys are your thing, even better!

Idiotic response..

Thank you! I couldn't have said it better myself. Once I saw an escort and he had a look of disgust when he saw me. I wasn't even grotesquely overweight but I had an awful time because he wasn't into it. I just feel it helps if the escort is turn on by a big man or at least any repulsed by one.

The massage itself was mediocre at best, maybe a C+. He was friendly enough, but the deal breaker, something I wasn’t warned about, was that he wears gloves the entire time. The sensation was so unpleasant I nearly stopped the session on the spot. I only let it continue out of curiosity to see how bad it could get.
Then came the real shocker: midway through, he offered a “happy ending” or mutual touch for an extra fee. I declined, of course. To top it off, he added that even if I wanted to touch him, I’d have to wear gloves. Boy, talk about someone who can’t stand the heat but insists on working in the kitchen.
This isn’t just disappointing, it’s absurd. He is in the wrong business entirely. Avoid at all costs. Unless, of course, you’ve always dreamed of paying good money to feel like you’re being massaged by a hazmat crew.

I am escort and I can tell his is asking to much…

Can you just create the actual masseur himself via AI for us to hire and enjoy??

Dad bod huh?  Sounds pretty hot to me! 😘