desertguy1954

Well here is my two cents worth and most likely that's exactly what it's worth. Your three boys are very bright. To know that one only has to look at the institutions of higher education they are attending or will be attending. I assume you have NOT been dating women since your wife died. My guess is that your boys already know or at least suspect. Some of our more militant members here probably won't agree with me regarding what I'm about to say. Were I you I would do exactly what you have already stated "by joining DC's gay basketball league or some such thing". I really don't see the need for some dramatic declaration. When THEY are ready to ask they will ask and then again I would do what you have said you will NOT LIE. I sincerely believe a low key approach here is probably best.

Hospital? I hope all is well!
 
Thanks for asking, it was pretty great. We were waiting with his girlfriend when he called and the first words out of his mouth were that he had 30 minutes instead of 20. We'd discussed some questions, but hardly had to ask them since he talked a lot. We had him on speaker phone and he told us, again, that the food was better than he'd expected (that seems to have been a very significant thing), he's learning to sail, he sees his cousin at the chapel on Sundays but they can't talk to each other (upperclass who aren't part of the training cadre are off-limits), and the non-stop physical training is hard. He likes his two roommates, but one of them is so homesick he's not sure he'll stay. Neither of them has ever experienced the heat and humidity of a Maryland summer, and it's hard on them. He chattered away, and sounded happy for the most part. We gave him some time with his girlfriend (not on speaker phone, and we left the room) and as I thought, his twin asked to talk to him alone for a bit. I didn't eavesdrop, but it sounded as if twin brother turned the tables and did most of the talking. Then, because we had longer than we'd expected, we all came back, put him back on speaker, and finished up that way. We could hear the upperclass warning that time was almost up, and he sighed and I think choked up a little, said not to worry about him, and made sure we would all come to parents weekend at the end of the summer. We each said good-bye, older brother with a joke, girlfriend quietly, twin seriously, dad trying to be reassuring. He blurted out, "Miss you!" to us and hung up.
 
He sounded good, and it was very good to hear his voice. Girlfriend thanked us for including her and left. Twin seemed a little down, but without a beat older brother suggested a bike ride, and the two of them went off and were gone a long time. At dinner both brothers talked about the call, rehashing everything he'd said.
 
On the Facebook USNA parents page quite a few posted about tearful or unhappy calls, but ours was a good one. Two more to come.

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I certainly appreciate nice looking and well groomed feet on a man, but don't consider myself to have a foot fetish. I do find them very sexy. Same with nice hands.
 
However, a few years ago I met this guy on Grindr who had a major foot fetish and talked me into letting him worship my feet. I was totally uninformed and leery of doing it, but had just enough curiosity to go through with it. I was afraid I'd be ticklish, but that was not the case. He knew how to handle that.
 
I was heavy into volleyball at the time playing both league and on a traveling team and have very nice legs and also got regular pedicures and he sensed he'd be very interested in my feet. He gave me explicit instructions on what I should be wearing when he arrived (shorts, ankle sox and tennis shoes).
 
He arrived and was more than pleased with my legs and feet. He removed my shoes and very slowly and methodically went to "work" one foot at a time first removing the sock with his mouth and giving the most incredible service to each foot I could have imagined. He eventually worked his way pretty much all over my body and I eventually had an incredible release. The encounter lasted at least two hours (I'd never guessed I'd be able to last that long quite honestly).
 
This guy was not really my type at all and I was not attracted to him very much although he was really ok, but not someone I'd pursue. I had just turned 50 and it was one of THE most incredible sexual experiences I've ever had.
 
He really knew his stuff and I asked him afterwards how in the world he learned to do that as I was completely blown away by it. He said he visited foot Fetish clubs in NYC and learned a lot there. I'll say!
 
Anyway as reluctant as I was to go through with it, I did not regret a most incredible sexual experience. I never dreamed I'd be a part of something like that, mostly because I never thought about it. I'd jump at the chance to be with someone as gifted as this guy again.

I don't know if I'm a foot fetishist, but I know beautiful feet when I see them. And I love hairy toes.

I disagree. Not to toot my own horn but I've been told I'm a great bottom and never top.

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I think mindset helps. Find a way to completely fall in love with his dick. Find that zone in your head and then let it guide you. Remain connected to the guy, remain connected to your love for his cock and you'll blow his mind.