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To your credit, "Sex Theft Fraud Scam Extortion & Tiny Penises" looks like a title for a great mini-series I could star in. 

Give him a bad review on Rentmen. Try reporting him to Rentmen. Maybe they will ban him from the site.

So weird. I could see this on a first meet happening but not after all the times you met up with him. I'm sorry this happened!

If you feel like you trust someone, you probably wouldn’t mind paying him at the beginning of the date.

Right out of the Hooker Handbook. 
Chapter 4:  Build up trust, then go in for the kill.
 
(Handsome_btt, looks like you ran into a kid that does know what he is doing. 🙂)

Hahahaha yes most people call it grinding for sure.

Hahahaha yes most people call it grinding for sure.

I am very interested in any responses you get as I love frottage! It's hard to find providers who engage in it.

He turned me down flat. Smh...

He quoted me, that his "rent is $400.
I will assume he is not fluent in English, and that he wasn't referring to the monthly cost of his apartment. 🤣
 

That's a red flag. Too much wiggle room to decline certain services the client may want done. I would stay away.

I have heard unflattering things about him. He quoted a price I was unwilling to pay.

I have heard unflattering things about him. He quoted a price I was unwilling to pay.

That's a red flag. Too much wiggle room to decline certain services the client may want done. I would stay away.

That was one of the best asses I have ever seen!

Indeed. I still think a great deal of him and I’m grateful for what he did for me and, especially, for what he did to me. Dude was, and still is by all accounts, an outstanding lover and an outstanding provider. 

Wow that's unfortunate. Friendships take so long to build but could end in an instant!

I finish my massages with a hug and it is the one thing he needs to keep going. When his marriage turns sour, when a parent passes, and when he loses his job or his children lash out, he comes. He comes other times as well, but always when he's at his lowest. I give him a hug and sometimes he cries, sometimes uncontrollably. He says that he tries so hard and I say nothing back. I hold onto him as long as he needs someone to hold on to and when the tears have stopped, I let him go. I wipe him down with warm towels, he thanks me and he goes his way. 
The first time he said "I love you" I said "you're welcome". He wanted to express his thanks using stronger words and I gave my response to his gratitude. 
He says I love you every time afterwards and he's been saying it for for years. Recently he moved to a different coast. He has a fulfilling new position and a new house in suburbs of an exciting new city. He also has a great relationship with his children.
Whenever he visits, he comes and he's full of smiles but even still he sometimes cries, and sometimes uncontrollably. And he says I love you.
It's still just a thank you 
(Yes, this is a true story)

No, let it go. I came this close to going back as well and then I remembered the pain and said hell NO!

Believe me I understand. I fell HARD for a provider and boy could I tell you some stories! Lol. I made a fool out of myself. I still have fond feelings for him but he's long gone now.

Hahahaha and he knows how to take someone's money without giving anything in return!

Those are excellent points.

I taker responsibility as I am inexperienced and I saw that in this particular town that I was, the provider was available. I called around 11:30pm. The provider answered and asked if he would be available. He informed me that he would have to let me know in an hour if he could come. He then texted me that he would be available. He was supposed to arrive at 1am, but arrived closer to 1:30am. I was trying to be as courteous and understanding as possible. If you are a provider, and if I speak with you upfront, and you are agreeing and willing etc, I would think you would follow through. Instead it very much felt like I was taken advantage of. and what's interesting is that I just feel really stupid and I take responsibility. I should have known better but, it is what it is. I know people have lives and such, but if you are agreeing to provide the service, if you are as respectful as can be, all I can say is that lesson learned. I don't know what the future holds, but honestly I truly at the moment have no desire to hire ever again.

Those are excellent points.

I don't blame you at all. I had a similar experience once. Like you, I really enjoy frotting. I asked the escort if he was okay with that and enthusiastically he said yes but when we met and he got his money he played dumb. I was furious. It took me a long while to try again (years in fact) Even now I rarely meet providers these days. You might just need a long break. Good luck to you.