Socalguy

Curious if anyone has seen him recently? I was very interested in hiring him a few months back but when I finally dug up the courage to book an appointment (it still takes me awhile to book one of these), his ads disappeared. I think his photos are hot plus he seems to have a caring personality.

Took one for the team. Nice guy. Actual massage was really good. He's got skills. Table was missing a face cradle so that was not comfortable. He was flaccid the whole time. HE was mechanical. Ended at 45 min mark. Would not repeat.

Thanks so much for doing that, you just saved me some cash. I noticed he's now listing Palm Springs as home so I was very tempted to hire him for a massage next week. Oh well, I'm grateful but a bit disappointed. Back to the drawing board.

I get your point but it can also be useful for posts where a friend posts something upsetting where a sad face wouldn't fit as well to show empathy.

O sweet Jesus no! I am definitely into feet, but not those!!

I agree that it could hurt a masseur’s business if he is named here on the forum, but think it is ok to share as a PM, as we already share that info frequently as a part of describing the overall experience.

So anyone who wants to share thus info, massers included, please PM me.

Thanks!

Same here, if you are/know of a masseur with a small to average sized dick in the San Diego area, please PM me!! I can't enjoy it if I'm gagging on it. YMMV

Just ordered a copy for me and @Socalguy!

 

Rob

We're hoping we can maybe convince you to sign it for us either this year at the escort party or next, depending on when it is released?

Happy Birthday Whipped Guy! Hope you have a spanking good time!

First of all, you are the "customer" and as we know "the customer is always right". So no, you would not be wrong

 

I can't speak for everyone here, but as far as I am concerned, I prefer to know it in advance. I would give you my best but at least I would not feel that I was inadequate ... either way you would not see it on me or my actions but I prefer to leave an appointment knowing that my client truly enjoyed himself and I was at least "good enough".

 

Hope this helps!

It helps a lot, thank you! It is very reassuring to hear from true professionals that I should be able to be upfront with them and still expect their best effort

my rule of thumb about disclosure is that you disclose if you feel like that will help you have a more enjoyable time. if there's something on your mind that will be in the back of your head, taking you away (even a little) from enjoying the moment, disclosure is a great way to squash that.

 

also, if you're hiring guys who don't try as hard because you probably won't cum, you're hiring the wrong guys

You are absolutely correct on all points, which is way you are amazing at your craft. The one time I did wait until the end, I was worried about him assuming it was something he was (or wasn't) doing. Thanks!

The efforts the put into the blowjob to get me to cum is always exciting especially when they say I will get you to cum. The next 30 minutes of sucking is usually awesome. lol once in a while they prove me wrong but I love every minute.

I sort of have the reverse problem, I can get hard but orgasms can be few and far between which leads me to the dilemma: If I tell them upfront, will they not try as hard? Whether or not I orgasm is so not the point, I still enjoy every moment of the effort. But if I don't tell them, I'm afraid they'll take it personally. Would it be wrong to wait until the end to tell them?

I'm glad I didn't contact him. His pics are incredibly hot to me, although the lack of any reviews was a red flag too.

I used to play cribbage as a child but have totally forgotten how to play. The scoring was something like 15-2, 15-4, etc. You will have to teach me how to play again, @Epigonos

That's awesome, because I could really use a refresher too but I used to love playing it.

Absolutely!! If anybody knows of any good ones in San Diego, I would love to hear about them!!

Which one? The day I met @Robster online, the day I moved out here to be with him which is also our wedding day in Canada years later or the California marriage we did in the window between the time the CA Supreme Ct. struck down the ban and before Prop 8 passed.

I'm inferring from your post that you hadn't met face to face yet? How the hell can he take offense if you'd never met?? It's not like you said, "btw, you stink, take a shower before I get there". Personally, I'd be happy if a MT suggested showering first simply because it means that if he is concerned at all about my hygiene, I can assume he also worries about his own and won't be some tweaked out addict trying to get enough money for his next fix.

sounds like you played it exactly right and everything worked out for the best. And whoever he is, he sounds like a nice guy. I'm a sucker for a happy ending! Ok, I'm a 'sucker' for a lot of things.

Happy Birthday, Handsome!!!

hearing is on January 22......

If you find out the outcome after 1/22 and think of it, I would like to know the outcome. Not in a ghoulish way but to hope it turns out ok for him.

What advice/suggestions do you have for someone who is new to hiring an escort? I haven't hired an escort yet, but have been planning to. I'd love any thoughts, advice, etc... that are helpful for a newbie.

Also, something I am still trying to get better at, and alluded to above: Don't be afraid to tell them exactly what you like and what you would like them to do upfront. I'm pretty sure whatever you like, they've heard before. It will avoid a lot of awkwardness upfront and lead to a better time for both of you. Now all I have to do is take my own advice

Troy said the song was kind of the theme song for the fountains. Definitely one of the most beautifully moving songs I've ever heard. The fountains are the perfect romantic setting for the music. Whenever I'm in Vegas I always make it a point to visit the fountains, and, like you, hope to hear Time to Say Goodbye.

It must be a thing We heard it the first time we went to Vegas and I keep hoping to hear it again but never do.

Attractive isn't much of an issue to me if it allows my client to get actual, restful sleep. CPAPs save lives.

I got my CPAP two years ago because my husband couldn't get any sleep at all due to my snoring. I had NO idea the difference it would make. I was having 51 events per hour so I wasn't getting any restful sleep. The first morning after using it was amazing. I had so much more energy. So thank you Benjamin, the only thing hotter than a world class escort is my CPAP which I sleep with every night. I'm very faithful to it

Just finished watching the documentary and I have to say, I'm kinda sorry I watched it. I used to have a HUGE crush on Brodie but he did not come across looking good in this film.

Many years ago David-SF tore into mine with a vengeance that left me astounded and still smiling

And that will be the mental image to lull me to sleep this morning, thank you! David-SF is unbelievable gorgeous and such a sweet guy, I can't think of a better way to slip into REM sleep.

I have no idea what is going on with him but I hope whatever the outcome is, it will be the fairest and help Derek the most. I don't know him but his videos have brought me great joy, I hope he can find the same.

No, he talks about what it's like to have sex with straight guys who aren't into it.

Phew! Thank you, the fantasy lives on!