SecretProvider

Amazing! I am sure he looks after you and enjoys your time too. is this a question or a statement? I think when it's a big gift like this, it is best to reach out and speak to them about the offer. they may hav things planned, jobs lined up, other personal family or friend events, when in doubt - ask the source! Never. With these two caveats - 1. As long as its within your budget, and 2 - its given as a gift without expectations - if it passes these two hurdles, it's never too generous.

I send holiday messages, and I have bought some special regulars special small gifts. In my corporate job we would give token gifts to people as well, the postman for eg. It's good business practice. It's really appreciated and I can guarantee it will make your relationship with a provider even better, he will be more flexible, maybe even more effort into your appointments, all if you give a gift. For example I don't just put $100 bill in a card for my buildings super, I buy him a case of his favorite beer too. Small tokens go far. It's not the amount, but the thought that counts. I have received small gifts, and what I would consider large gifts - all not expected but all very much appreciated. AS @Simon Suraci, who always has wise words to say - "Your repeat business is all we want and need."

I think you'll find lots of products that come with immediate delivery are actually a higher rate on platforms like amazon and uber eats than if you go in store. Regardless, for me and I imagine the provider in this scenario as well, the uber request is more about authenticating the client is genuine before I travel out there- because if they provide an Uber my rate remains the same as incall.

even better to just throw on some ruby slippers and click his heels three times!

yes but when you have things delivered they do charge you a shipping fee. not many things come with free post.

I was trained by the agency I started working with first to ask for money upfront, I would say "hey this is the first time we have met, is it ok if we get the money stuff out of the way and then we can both relax and enjoy the fun stuff" when they gave me the money I would leave it wherever they gave it to me, like on the coffee table or on top of my bag. and it was true, it did make me relax. I wasn't stressed in the back of my mind that something was going to happen when it come to payment and could focus on being my best, but I noticed, that a lot of people felt uncomfortable with it. no one ever refused but instead of making us both relax it seemed to put clients off. When I worked for myself I started just having to trust them and do it at the end. I have about one person a year try and stiff me with the money, its always guys that have cum super quick and then they don't want to stay the hour and think they can give half the rate, start a negotiation, or 'forgot cash in my wallet, can I go to ATM and come back?' I have had to walk people to an ATM I don't trust them to come back. It's a super violating feeling when you still have their cum inside you and they are trying to fuck you again. The other one, and I forget how many times this has happened, but they 'forget' to pay and go to walk out and just not pay. 'oh sorry I completely forgot I hadn't paid yet! I was so relaxed and it all felt so natural!' yeah right! that happens I would say maybe one a month where I have to stand in front of the door. I'm sure it could happen accidentally like @Nue2thegame but it happens way too often for it to always be. When it's a regular you know for sure it's an accident. The best middle ground is to put the money somewhere the provider can see it. I don't even count it until they are gone.

I've had to cut clients off when they behave this way and cross the line and they cannot separate reality from fantasy. big difference from being friendly and being friends. I have genuine affection for my clients but there is not one that I would engage in outside of a work/client experience.

For me - the service begins when I have confirmation that you are real client and not a scammer or time waster. That is that you have sent a deposit, or a premium member of rentmen, or I have met you before. If we have booked in advance and I may send messages touching base, to keep engagement and ensure the booking goes ahead. If we have already met - some times I message my regulars for the same reason - keeping that relationship engaged and staying in their mind. I also maintain a friendly relationship with them.

I started to do part time straight job to balance the sex work but it was too frustrating when I had to turn down bookings because of my day job. full time sex work was better for me.

I am cringing at the behavior of this provider. I would never behave this way and I don't know any of my friends that would either. Disgraceful. Sorry that happened to you dude - 100% kick this loser to the curb. We are supposed to be there to make you feel good, not treat you like this. Makes me mad and gives those of us who take this seriously a bad name.

if I am traveling and staying with friends or family and can't host, I use dayuse.com to hire a hotel room for a few hours. most of my clients are in calls by a big margin.

best course of action is to behave in a way that does not result in negative reviews.

incorrect. The Da prosecute the John, not the sex worker, just in case you are thinking of pulling the same stunt

I love it when they reply back 'can you do 100?' 🫠 100% this. I've had a client explain that they work as consultants/freelancers and are often negotiating rates. Some cultures see negotiating as part of it. I take your approach, and I have only accepted a reduced rate when they offer it for a longer booking (which I do anyway)

they don't know this - they search for eg. Baltimore and if you have it as your listed travel it will show as if you are there, except for a very small text at the bottom of your profile pic say (date123-date123) They reach out because the website gives the impression that you are available in that location, at that time. To avoid this as it gets so annoying I only put the city I am going to a week or two in advance. If you want those cities always listed - maybe have some text indicating that you only travel to those places with advance notice? (not that clients bother to read anyway!) yeah its annoying when you waste time on messages like 'hey do you ever come to Nebraska?' I keep a catalog of the cities and the profile name/number, and a week or two before I arrive I send a message 'hey, just letting you know I will be in town these dates, if you would like to schedule something, let me know'. I have made a lot of bookings this way. SMART.