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Ditto for me. I try to treat the dancer boys at the club with respect as well as the escorts I meet.

When I was very very new to hiring, and agencies were the thing, the guy at the agency was listing out their guys and mentioned one of them was a trainer at a gym. I always thought it'd be titillating to see the guy at the gym, and know what else he was available for. Youthful fantasies...

I think it's more that the only four-hand options both include Wallace (Wallace & Chase, or Wallace & Caleb). There's no listed option for four-hand with Chase & Caleb. Is that what you meant?

Agreed, plenty of guys both escort and do porn. His ad shows pictures that don't look like they're lifted from porn sites, so no guarantees, but it's probably him.

I second the notion of starting with something innocuous, in case the number's wrong. "I'm poolboy, I saw you'd be in Detroit for a few days, would love to meet up. Do you have any time open?"

One masseur that have seen a few times (and am overdue to see again) went pretty quickly into prostate massage the first time we met.

That's a great definition of the difference between sensual and erotic. If only there was a real standard for that.

Methinks you would like the Armpit Appreciation thread :-)

Friends invited us over to watch "Running with Scissors", she'd also invited her parents. Watching the scenes of the young author having the fling with the older guy made her uncomfortable.

There are a couple threads in the forum about this that you might enjoy reading. I acknowledge them by eye contact and let them take the lead on talking further. I can't remember it ever happening while I was with someone else, and depending on who I was with, I might send my own signals that eye contact was enough You never know, as BN points out above, if the guy is going to be discreet. I did see a dancer from the go-go bar in the gym locker room, and smiled hello at him. he said hi back, but said something like "My worlds are colliding". I saw him another time there with two almost-toddler age girls that I assume were his daughters.

I read it years ago, so I might not be remembering this correctly....John Douglas, the FBI agent on whom both Holden Ford (Jonathon Groff's character in Mindhunter) and Jack Crawford (Jodie Foster's boss in Silence of the Lambs) was based. worked on set with Scott Glenn, who played Jack Crawford. After talking with Douglas, and hearing some of his tapes of the serial killers he'd interviewed, Scott Glenn reversed his stance against the death penalty.

Another vote for Mindhunter, I binged this after my sister recommended it. I read the book years ago. The main character also is the basis for Jodie Foster's boss in "Silence of the Lambs".

Then I must amend. Never with a woman, and 30 with a guy. And (of course) this brings up a movie memory. I watched "Kingsman" over the weekend on TNT or TBS or some other semi-basic channel, when the Swedish princess offers to let Eggsy do her "in the ass", it was edited to "in the cell" (in which she was locked).

Now I feel old. Being asked "Did you know Paul McCartney was in a band before Wings?" old. Hell, these days it's probably just "Who's Paul McCartney?"

about 23 with a girl. Not until 27 with a guy.

@Cooper not yet, a bit leery that this could exceed my Spider Solitaire obsession :-?

Maybe he has other things, not escort-related, planned? One of my favorites is from out of town, he comes in to visit family, and I'm fairly confident I'm among the first to know, but scheduling around his family events can be difficult.

It was. Lots of stuff that was funny back in the day has bad connotations today. Every time I watch Blazing Saddles, I enjoy it, but think they could NEVER make that movie today.

I do love these shirts (and this guy). I think there was a thread about them months ago.

Reminds me of a couple of computer acronyms PEBCAK - Problem exists between chair and keyboard and the I-D-ten-T error (ID10T)

True. But it's not for everybody (and full disclosure, it's definitely for me :-) ) I know guys who prefer a more traditional dating approach and won't sleep with a guy until several dates in, at least. I'd be more leery of this guy because of his going off on "you're rejecting me because you won't sleep with me tonight". Reminds me of a guy I used to know who would jump straight to "So you hate me now" when he did something that annoyed me.

When my paternal grandmother died, my father's sister said to him "She can't hurt anyone any more". I never saw her obituary.

I've tried coconut oil but my dog is insane about it and goes crazy trying to lick it off me. And no, I'm not going there. I just use it on my hands, or places she's not likely to find.

Do you play, @Cooper ? I'm unreasonably good at trivia, a skill which has not really benefited me in the past.

I gave Archie a "wow" :-)