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Tbh, I think it really just depends on the massuer you hire and if there’s chemistry or not. I hired one provider before that provided a strictly therapeutic service with h/e and then the next time I hired him, he was horny and wanted to do a little more. On a site like rentmassuer, you might not go in expecting sex, but I feel like it’s normal to go in expecting more than what you’d get at a traditional massage place. Otherwise, why are you looking on the site to begin with? 

exactly this. thanks for articulating it. the build up is the biggest dopamine hit.

For many guys sex happens too quickly. Guys rush to penetration, and then it’s over…all too fast. This could happen easily with an escort. Massage slows all of this down. Sensual massage is like choreographed foreplay, the build up of tension (including ‘will he fuck me? or will he let me fuck him?’) is part of the journey and the journey counts just as important as the destination. Good masseurs can have you absolutely begging for it after an hour 😉

I personally don’t find on demand paid sex interesting. I’ve only done it twice and both times were unsatisfactory to me even though both guys were exactly my physical type. A massage gets us to the same room together generally unclothed, so the big logistics hurdles are over. Then if two consenting adults want to go for it, it’s more exciting than an explicit sex transaction, at least for me. 
 
If a masseur who has not committed to sex decides he actually wants to have sex with me, that’s a lot more fun in my book. 

There’s also s thread in the Deli section. But you’ve already posted there too. Just in case: 
 

Recently had a session with Mike and it was GREAT! He's a hot man. Definitely on the shy side but very passionate when you get into it. Will definitely see him again. DM me if you want more details. 

I’m sure Mike G has many fans because:
1. He is good looking and well built.
2. He has porn star status.
3. He is an outstanding kisser.
4. He is good with older clients.
5. He’s versatile. 
6. He’s dependable. Shows up and shows up on time.
7. He’s very smart but doesn’t flaunt it.
8. He can make good conversation. 
9. He travels quite a bit so even if you don’t live in his hometown there’s a good chance you can still see him.
10. His rate is reasonable.

The only ones who know are myself and the men I hire.

I recently saw Lionw while he was visiting Dallas. He came to my place and performed the massage on a bed. The massage itself was okay. He used a massage gun at times, which I didn't mind. If you find him attractive and are more interested in a sensual/erotic experience than a strong massage, I would recommend him. He was also friendly and engaged. He doesn't speak much English, which made in-person communication difficult. His texting to schedule the appointment, however, was fine. 

He fills out his briefs quite nicely. 

For those of you who have hired Rob:  is he a grower, not a shower?  😉

I wish he traveled to my city, he’s one of my dream providers—hot as hell indeed.

I wish he traveled to my city, he’s one of my dream providers—hot as hell indeed.

I've seen him a couple times, very sexy guy if you're into hairy daddies. DM for more details.

Michael clearly states "my work is theraputic" and I'd say priced as such.  I also picked this up from the vibe of one of the comments.  

Good massage. Very sensual. Incredibly kind man. One of the more interesting masseurs I’ve ever met. I recommend. 

Yes, sure.

A “side” is a person who prefers oral only to anal activities (it’s a position like top, bottom, or vers).

KIndness and respect matter..even if the provider has lurid photos and a lurid description of himself and his services. Maturity as a client matters to providers. That is my experience. Have two long standing relationships one with someone actually older than me and one much younger. They give me a break on their fee because we get along and they know I respect them and what they do and and they respect my respect. Really simple notion. Honestly, how many of us are willing to provide an intimate service to someone they have never met or seen. As my older friend/provider said once...you have no idea what horrors walk through my door...so be kind! And present yourself well!! Be as groomed and clean and polite as you expect your provider to be. And even more so as you are likely the more mature and experienced man of the two.

We already have a site. We discuss clients and share useful information about them such as dick size, body shape and whether they know how to suck a cock. They get a rating on various aspects of their ability as a client. 
There’s 8 scores that all add up to an overall rating. When you’ve seen a client you put his scores into the system and it calculates the client’s overall rating. That is then used to help us decide what to charge or indeed whether to respond atall to the client’s enquiry. 
The 8 scores are:
1) Desirability: 1 to 10 (where 10 is provider level desirability). Obviously on the site the scores 5 to 10 are greyed out since it’s not possible to award those. 
2) Interest: 1 to 10. This is an indication of whether the client is able to hold a conversation on anything other than his desire to get off. 
3) Communication: -10 to 10. An evaluation of his opening enquiry. ‘Hey’ gets a minus 10 score. Dick pics -11 which actually throws the system and deletes the client’s profile. The administrators are trying to fix that. Clients: don’t send dick pics if you want to keep your profile on the system.
4) Kindness: 1 to 3. The score used to go up to 10 but it never got used. 
5) Hygiene : 1 to 10. This score has a multiplier. It’s worth 2X the other scores when calculating the overall rating.
6) Ease of use: 1 to 10. Includes aspects like does he arch his back or just lie there like a sack of potatoes. (Yes I’m thinking of you- yesterday’s client…you score 1 on this).
7) Ability: 1 to 6. Not much is expected tbh. 
8). Defrayment: 1 to 10. Does he pay without haggling and how much is tipped. 
These 8 scores: or the D.I.C.K.H.E.A.D rating for short all add up over time to give us an indication of how suitable the client is to be seen. 
The system is hosted in the British Virgin Islands…so there’s no hassle with data protection. If any clients are wondering why they often get no reply from providers it could be they need to work on their Dickhead rating. 



 



 

 

I haven’t tried any of these providers yet but have heard only great things about them:
https://rentmasseur.com/BodyworkbyJ
 
https://rentmasseur.com/magicblond
 

I got some additional details about him from a guy who wrote a review on him on Rentmasseur. All great stuff. DM for details.

Thanks for bringing this provider to my attention.  I scheduled a session with him and it was everything you said and MORE!   While I’ve loved some of the providers I’ve used through the years, Tommy is proof the love is no substitute for experience!  If there were such a thing, I’d set him up on Auto-Schedule.  🙃

Saw eric a bunch of times before covid. very nice guy, worked out all the knots!