So I’ve given that site another try and…we’ll, nothing has changed even now that the guys are mostly vaxxed. Flaky guys who take weeks to even read an email (it says when an email has been read). Perhaps 10% of the time they reply after reading, with something lame like “hey!” Or “what’s up?”. Weeks more go by, and eventually I give up.
OR they list themselves as in your city and when you finally get them to text or WhatsApp or FaceTime you…it turns out that they recently moved back home to the Midwest and are maybe looking for a sugar daddy to possibly fund their return to the big city. Even though you’ve never met in person. Like I’ll buy a plane ticket for someone I don’t know. Not going to happen.
it’s a slog.