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Still fairly new to this hobby and need some advice. I really love to worship, serve, and please a guy. So, when I hire a provider, I do it to suck his cock, worship his feet, eat his ass, watch him jerk off, and have him cum on me. I communicate my desires pretty clearly, and every provider I’ve been with has been down to accommodate that. Here’s my question: how much am I expected to direct the action? Am I supposed to dictate things play-by-play? When I have been with guys I have hooked up with, when I am sucking their dick, they pretty much dictate whether they are standing up, or lying down, or face fucking me etc. I am pretty orally talented, so I always make them cum, but they are in charge and I am more or less submissive. But with the providers I have been with, they tend to stay in the same position unless I say, “let’s try it with you lying down on the bed “or “do you want to fuck my face”? It feels like they are waiting for my direction. I’d like them to tell me if they want me to change position, go slower or faster, or lick their balls, etc. I might be answering my own question here, but should I just say at the beginning of the appointment “by the end of the hour I want to have had, X, Y, and Z, but I’d like you to be the dominant one and decide how and when we get there. What turns me on is making you cum, so tell me what you need me what you want or need me to do to make that happen.

I have posted a review for every guy I have been with. Only one was a bad review, and the escort contested it, but I had texts and RM allowed the review to stay up

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I was really tempted, but he told me he stays masked even in sessions with clients. I need a face, so I passed.

Does anyone have recommendations for escorts that have nice feet and themselves really get turned on by having their feet worshiped? Would love to find some guys like that in Los Angeles. Lots of escorts will let you worship their feet, but it’s so much hotter when you can tell that it really turns them on.

Looks like he is in LA semi-permanently, and in. a relationship with fellow escort Persian_XL, according to his IG

Any other reviews of this guy? Looks hot as hell.

You should see the movie Love. There is a hot scene with a close up of actor Karl Glusman cumming right at the camera — like a facial POV.

Well, in my case, I’m into feet and getting a cum shot in the face, and before I agree to shell out $300-400, I want to be sure that’s on the menu. So at some point before the encounter, I need to get some clarity.

Thank you everyone for the feedback. Much appreciated.

Thanks for your perspective. Really appreciate it.

Thanks. Very helpful.

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Hi there - I am still pretty new at this, having hired two different guys. One was a phenomenal experience, and one not so great experience. This may seem naive, but I am curious about the type of language to use when contacting a provider thru RM or through text. Is it better to say something like "I want to give oral and receive anally" or is it okay to say "I really want to suck your cock, have you fuck me hard and blow a load on my face." Does the more explicit way sound to skanky? Or does it even matter?

Thanks. I got back to LA and hired someone here, so I now have my first experiences -- and I am ready for more:)

I don't remember at this point. It was over a month ago. But he is coming to my city soon, so we will be getting together here:)

I have hired two and both of them looked better than their pics. (One guy photoshopped his pics a lot, but as I told him, he looked better without the photoshopping.)

I just spent an hour with Chase, and it was phenomenal. He is sexy and fun. He has an incredible body, a beautiful cock, a winning smile, and a tremendous personality. He is sexy as fuck. Chase helped me act out a long-desired fantasy, and it exceeded my expectations. The sex with Chase was great. He is very affectionate, and he made it clear that his focus was on me and on giving me pleasure. He absolutely delivered. And Chase is a really nice guy -- fun, and easy to have a conversation and joke with. He put me to ease the moment he opened the door. I am definitely going to be a repeat customer.

How is he hung? Cut or uncut?

I reached out to Scotty last month when I was in Chicago. He was very slow to respond via text, but we eventually arranged something. He was supposed to come to my hotel at 9pm one night, and I confirmed with him that morning. 9:15 arrives and no Scotty, so I text him to check on his ETA. His reply. "Oh sorry. Can't make it after all." I was so bummed out. He looks adorable in his pics, and I was dying to get my hands and lips on that incredible looking cock.

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@Justhere and @Pensant - Did either of you meet up with him? How was the experience? I was thinking of contacting him. thanks

Oh, I did, and he couldn’t.

Thanks. I didn’t feel comfortable going to his place, as some of the locals I knew said it wasn’t a great neighborhood after dark, so I canceled, with plenty of notice, more than 36 hours. He was cool with it and I even offered to send him a $50 Cancellation fee. I wound up scheduling an appointment with another guy to come to my hotel. We texted back-and-forth, discussed what I wanted, and confirmed a few hours ahead of time. 15 minutes after our scheduled meeting time, he did not show so I texted him asking for an update on when he is arriving. He said “oh, sorry I can’t make it after all.” That was really annoying, especially since he had such great reviews. (And I was really horned up and excited.) I messaged or texted three or four other guys to try to set something up, but none of them replied. Is that kind of non-response typical? Is it an indication that they’re not interested in providing specific service I requested? I’m definitely gonna try to set something up again, when I’m back home.