José Soplanucas

An additional piece of advise is do not sleep with the boys. Most of the bad experiences I know are clients waking up to find the boy gone with some of their goods. I enjoy hanging out and playing during the day, and sleeping alone.

I always rented airbnbs in Rio and never had a problem bringing guys. Rather the opposite, several doormen were very cooperative and would have fun with the number of visitors. Most of the places I rented did not have security staff and check in desk. Instead, just janitors taking care of the place. Only once I rented in a building with a full desk and guards, just a few blocks away from the famous Hotel Atlantico (steps from Point). Zero issues. I already rented the airbnb for my next trip. A small penthouse with a big terrace with a grill and a jacuzzi, in the boundary between Copa and Ipanema. Much, much better than an hotel, much more comfort and options to play with my friends.

Sure. I am the one who does not get it.

He is undetectable. Whether or not you are in PreP is irrelevant.

Is this an issue for you?

Do not worry about applying common sense to this crime particularities. The fear mongers will always find ways to accommodate to their narrative ANY crime taking place in Rio.

Empathy naturally springs forth in response to the distressing account shared by the OP. Amidst the wealth of valuable advice, I feel compelled to raise a different perspective. It's worth noting that the OP is a newcomer to our community, and while his story may indeed be genuine, we lack the necessary context to ascertain its veracity. Importantly, the accused party is absent from this dialogue, unable to present his side of the narrative. In light of this, I advocate for caution before divulging the identity of the alleged harasser. Consider the approach Daddy would have taken in such a situation – thorough investigation before reaching conclusions. @ANotAMouse please know that my intent is not to undermine your experience or sincerity in seeking support. Should your account be genuine, I encourage you to heed the valuable advice shared above. However, we must exercise prudence when navigating such sensitive allegations within the confines of an anonymous online forum.

I recommend Sean Xavier.

It's understandable that you might have reservations when it comes to intimacy with straight guys. The dynamic between someone who identifies as gay and someone who identifies as straight can be complex. However, sexual orientation doesn't necessarily dictate someone's ability to connect emotionally or physically. Sometimes, we may have preconceived notions that can affect our experiences. It's possible that you may have had encounters with straight men who genuinely cared about your pleasure and satisfaction but you assumed they were gay. At the same time, not every gay man will provide the same level of intimacy or authenticity. It's all about finding someone who truly connects with you on multiple levels, regardless of their sexual orientation. Furthermore, when we talk about men who belong to a different culture, perhaps categories like gay and straight become less relevant. PS> Editing just to make my point extra clear. A straight guy may deliver a horrible experience because he is a horrible provider, not because he is straight. At the same time, hiring a gay guy does not guarantee you will have a quality experience.

Be glad Argentina is far away.

Now I have a serious FOMO attack. I did not see them.

About haggling, I do not think it is necessary insulting. Those who believe so may be talking from their privilege or from their cultural limited literacy. It could be insulting, but not necessarily. HAGGLING OR NOT HAGGLING: THAT IS THE QUESTION - ILikePinga ILIKEPINGA.COM Haggling has always been an unspoken reality in the gay escorts market. Of course, that is because so far the privileged tier of the market has had the monopoly...

Absolutely, my friend. I was wrong. I suffered an episode of Argentine-centeredness. And yet, the expression sounds so wrong to me that gives me the creeps.

He did not need any. He was right, I was wrong.

You taught me something. It sounds horrible to me.

You did not make it any better. I have to be interpreting to understand what you mean. Was my guess accurate? You seem to be translating literally something like "walk the talk" (I am unsure), but literal translations often do not work. PS: if my guess is correct, better translations would be: "hay que predicar con el ejemplo", "hay que hacer lo que se dice". Or, "una acción vale más que mil palabras". Or a little bit more bitchy: "hablar es fácil".

Uh? This is an example of Google Translate delivering nonsense. What did you feed it with? Walk the Talk?

Well, my suggestion may not be the best one for these particular guys, but I do not understand your concerns about exploitation. You are not asking for a discount in their escorts fee, you are offering a fair trade: I tutor you for one hour, and then you tutor me for the same time. Of course any unfair deal is out of the table. By the way, "morbid" is how Google Translate understands "morbo". You cannot feed a translator with slang, the chances are you will get nonsense.

https://ilikepinga.com/2023/12/28/interview-with-sonny-boy/

I do not think there is any significative difference between documented or undocumented escorts regarding quality and safety. You will have the same chances to get good or poor service, you will have to take the same safety precautions you take with escorts who are US citizens. You point to the most significant difference and challenge, the language barriere. You are already working through that challenge quite successfully, it seems to me. I would only suggest you to see this difficulty as an opportunity. These guys are probably enthusiastic about learning English, and that opens the gate for you to develop rapport. Consider offering trades like weekly meetings where you chat one hour in Spanish and one hour in English. Not only would you foster rapport from delivering to their need, but also from the natural empathy we feel when a foreigner wants to learn our language. Of course, this is in addition to any non educative deals you may want to make. The other significant difference I see is, as pointed in this thread, that these boys are relatively more exposed to all kind of risks (traffic, exploitation, health, poverty, etc) than US citizens. I am glad they are meeting a decent man like you, who genuinely appreciates them and is not trying to take advantage of their situation.

I guess we all know Robert Graves' Greek Myths? It is an easy read and a great catalogue of all Ancient Greece myths and mythology. The best parts are when he traces the myths to their origins in different cultural and social practices. Accepted and condemned homosexual acts are common places.

There are other posters much more knowledgeable on Colombia than I am. I am sharing only from my relatively little experience, one visit to Bogota and two to Medellin. For unpaid sex Grindr works great, and also to find escorts. Mileroticos has never failed me so far. Chaturbate was the last trip experiment and it worked well, but demanded a lot of my time. I would follow boys I like with not a lot of viewers, so he would have time to chat with me. I would skip the first pages of Chaturbate, filtered for South America, and explore the guys page 3 and behind. You have to be very tactful because they have monitors. I was suspended once, for soliciting. As it was my first time they reinstated me as soon as I acknowledge the rules. Usually we would exchange IG or Twitter, and on those platforms keep chatting freely and directly. If you loved Brazil, you will love Colombia.

Obviously, you just do not know enough people.

@pubic_assistanceis correct on that point, but we have to be careful to mistake contemporaneous homophobia and concept of homosexuality, by the homosexual practices in other cultures and times. It is a common occurrence in many primitive and ancient human cultures (certainly in the Eurasian region where our Western Civilization recognizes its birth) that men (sometimes in group, sometimes solo) will go hunting and during these expeditions would train the younger hunters and warriors. Although anal penetration was usually condemned (which mean that it was happening), the trainer and the trainee would often interact homoertically, and even develop romantic ties. Greeks are famous for that.