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Thank you for sharing @Kurtis Wolfe . I knew the other performer was Armond, but I wasn't sure and did not want to contradict other posters. But that is not the point. Thank you for sharing and for confronting us. It is extremely concerning that in this place, where we are supposed to be knowledgeable and experienced adults we have participants advocating for abusive practices. From my perspective, it puts in question many of the opinions and the reviews we shared as clients. I have no interest on a professional's evaluation coming from some one who thinks it is OK to disrespect and assume consent. In a way, this thread is a revelation. Drunk or not, high or not, for pay or for free, in an orgy or in a duo, in public or in private, assuming that you can own someone else's body is inhuman and intolerable. It is so easy to obtain consent (the legal issues addressed by Kurtis are important but they are not what I deeply care about). All it takes is looking at your "target" as a respectable human been. All it takes is looking for eye contact and connection. All it takes is not being a fucking self centered monster and "feel" and acknowledge the other. I have grabbed performers' dicks and butts, I have French kissed them, I have fingered them and touched them in a thousand ways. Never, not even once, I did it without their consent. Please, no one come arguing I am making a fake equivalence between rape and touching a performer without his consent because I am not. I hope we do not have to debate whether or not rape is wrong. Unfortunately, it looks like we do need to debate this level of abuse.

It sounds like the bacterial infection I caught the last week of December, which ruined my NYE and all my vacation plans. I probably got it from eating ass. What have you been doing?

VR is the way to go. It is still in its beginning, but the way to go is not simulating or replacing, but tricking the brain. Think The Matrix.

Happy birthday!

I may be missing the joke because of language? It is "Blatino", not "Blatant".

I really doubt we are speaking the same language here. I am sure many have much more experience than I do, but I do have some from attending stripper shows for 30 years in 7 different countries. The degree of physical contact allowed varies from none to plenty, the diversity is wide. However one of the things shared by every single place I have been to is that when the touching is allowed, it is clearly regulated by the performer.

It was my second year attending and I felt more comfortable than the first time. Perhaps in 2050 I will finally feel at ease. Thanks a lot to @ArVaGuy and @nate_sf for all your hard work!

+1 It is just a few days before. For 2019, @Oliver, you should sync with this event instead of Coachella.

On. I always thought that the ones turning the lights off were women. Am I wrong?

I hope @Kurtis Wolfe gives us a first hand experience.

It is true the OP used the word assault, but if you read throughout the thread that qualification has been tempered.

Fort tech I trust cnet.com.

We should confine @stevenkesslar to the Politics forums. We do not want people in The Lounge coming from that shithole place. We should bring more people from the Arts forum instead.

The fault is always in the provider side, right? It is wise that you decided to move on. Unfortunately it looks like you learned nothing from your own mistakes, as you choose to put all the blame on the provider.

Well, you must have a very low concept of the participants in this forums if you think we would be advocating for such stupidity. Please, watch the videos or at least read carefully the descriptions of what happened. Even if you do not watch the videos, the narrative descriptions leave no doubts about the abusive nature of the incident.

Feliz cumpleaños!

Also, I do not think we should be making a big deal out of it. I am quite confident it is a regular experience for adult entertainment performers. @Kurtis Wolfe's reaction was perfect. He stopped, set the limit, and moved on with the performance. It is clearly abusive and disrespectful, but it is not raping. No one was harmed, although it could have been.

Did you watch the videos? I think there is a clear difference between touching sensually the exposed parts of the stripper body, the ones that are clearly offered by the performer on one hand, and on the other getting into his underwear, pulling his dick out without the performer consent, and jerking it carelessly. To make it worse, this did not happen during a performance that included interaction with the audience. @Kurtis Wolfe was in that moment interacting with another performer. It is clearly abusive, in my opinion. It would be nice to have Kurtis' opinion.

It is not a weird request, it is actually pretty standard. As in any other request, there is a chance the provider you chose may not be a good match. Follow the sound advise several posters share and ask. Always communicate clearly what you want.

He is arriving to DC tomorrow. http://24.media.tumblr.com/8f82b19234f23a804159851c4604a956/tumblr_mxjz5qx0NO1qg39ewo1_1280.gif

I am very sorry.

If the one you lost Is Fabian, I recommend you Isaac Powers as a replacement.

That is not a question for a cat lover, but for a zoologist. http://38.media.tumblr.com/bc34253501ff04d19a1146474698033c/tumblr_nrcg7aYsEj1uv7wz3o1_540.gif

I like to have as many regulars as possible. I wish I could afford meeting them more often. Right now I consider regulars 5 guys, and have many candidates to be promoted but I just cannot afford meeting everyone regularly.