José Soplanucas

I really doubt we are speaking the same language here. I am sure many have much more experience than I do, but I do have some from attending stripper shows for 30 years in 7 different countries. The degree of physical contact allowed varies from none to plenty, the diversity is wide. However one of the things shared by every single place I have been to is that when the touching is allowed, it is clearly regulated by the performer.

It was my second year attending and I felt more comfortable than the first time. Perhaps in 2050 I will finally feel at ease. Thanks a lot to @ArVaGuy and @nate_sf for all your hard work!

+1 It is just a few days before. For 2019, @Oliver, you should sync with this event instead of Coachella.

On. I always thought that the ones turning the lights off were women. Am I wrong?

I hope @Kurtis Wolfe gives us a first hand experience.

It is true the OP used the word assault, but if you read throughout the thread that qualification has been tempered.

Fort tech I trust cnet.com.

We should confine @stevenkesslar to the Politics forums. We do not want people in The Lounge coming from that shithole place. We should bring more people from the Arts forum instead.

The fault is always in the provider side, right? It is wise that you decided to move on. Unfortunately it looks like you learned nothing from your own mistakes, as you choose to put all the blame on the provider.

Well, you must have a very low concept of the participants in this forums if you think we would be advocating for such stupidity. Please, watch the videos or at least read carefully the descriptions of what happened. Even if you do not watch the videos, the narrative descriptions leave no doubts about the abusive nature of the incident.

Feliz cumpleaños!

Also, I do not think we should be making a big deal out of it. I am quite confident it is a regular experience for adult entertainment performers. @Kurtis Wolfe's reaction was perfect. He stopped, set the limit, and moved on with the performance. It is clearly abusive and disrespectful, but it is not raping. No one was harmed, although it could have been.

Did you watch the videos? I think there is a clear difference between touching sensually the exposed parts of the stripper body, the ones that are clearly offered by the performer on one hand, and on the other getting into his underwear, pulling his dick out without the performer consent, and jerking it carelessly. To make it worse, this did not happen during a performance that included interaction with the audience. @Kurtis Wolfe was in that moment interacting with another performer. It is clearly abusive, in my opinion. It would be nice to have Kurtis' opinion.

It is not a weird request, it is actually pretty standard. As in any other request, there is a chance the provider you chose may not be a good match. Follow the sound advise several posters share and ask. Always communicate clearly what you want.

He is arriving to DC tomorrow. http://24.media.tumblr.com/8f82b19234f23a804159851c4604a956/tumblr_mxjz5qx0NO1qg39ewo1_1280.gif

I am very sorry.

If the one you lost Is Fabian, I recommend you Isaac Powers as a replacement.

That is not a question for a cat lover, but for a zoologist. http://38.media.tumblr.com/bc34253501ff04d19a1146474698033c/tumblr_nrcg7aYsEj1uv7wz3o1_540.gif

I like to have as many regulars as possible. I wish I could afford meeting them more often. Right now I consider regulars 5 guys, and have many candidates to be promoted but I just cannot afford meeting everyone regularly.

+1 Welcome to the forums!

What is the point of not going straight to the point. To take @escortrod analogy, when you go to Starbucks, do you discuss the weather with the barista or you tell her what you want? Of course we all have different styles and preferences. But never forget that you are not working on a hook up, you are contacting a professional. In case he is a successful provider, he is probably sorting hundred of messages and has all the right to set priorities. He was perfectly polite and friendly when communicating his priorities. If you do not like his style, cool, just move on to the next. He is also communicating in between lines that he does not need your business, so it is not a big deal for any of you two. @youngboldone , if you are actually asking for advice, I would say honor your screen name and be more bold. If you are texting, tell what you want when you make first contact. If you have a profile in the outlet you are using, let's say Rentmen or Adam, you can write a thoughtful description of your preferences and refer to it when you make first contact. I have a profile in RM and in A4A, so my first message is something like: "Hey! I like your profile. Please, check mine and if you think we are compatible hit me back". If he hits me back, I ask whether he is willing to have a videoconference to verify pics. No waste of time. When I did not have a profile or when I use rentboy.pro, where you cannot have one, my first message would be something like: "Hey! Hot pics. I am looking for a passionate French kisser who enjoys being submissive, bottoming, and oral. If you think we can click, please hit me back letting me know whether you are willing to have a videoconference to verify pictures."

You did not pay. He does not know whether or not you are going to pay because it took you four messages to get to the point.

This. .http://38.media.tumblr.com/4dcb32e3d919705576bcf2c4263a5f8c/tumblr_n9uqy2UcXD1rrx588o1_400.gif

If you think so, good luck hiring a demanded professional.