José Soplanucas

You should wait until you are higher in the ranks to take that stand.

Based on what I heard, doing that would be dangerous withot a microscope.

Well, people change. I know I do. In no way I am defendind him, I do not know wether or not he is bsing. I am just making the point that your arguments may not be valid.

I am almost a Princess. http://media.tumblr.com/2d155b98f49348ae4cf94dff9723d33a/tumblr_inline_mlowlxIlvy1qz4rgp.gif

You are right, it is not possible not to get attached when two human beens share quality time together, regularly. But the big question is not to who you get attached, but how you do it, as there is a how for everyone. If after a 48 hours silence you feel everything is falling down and start questioning what you did wrong, I do not think you are developing the right kind of attachment.

Your question shows up now and then, and one of the forum members with the Librarian gene comes up with the post where the scores are. It has to do with the number of messages you have posted, not with the number of likes you got. By the way, I think a good suggestion for @Guy Fawkes would be to post the list in the Help page.

Fuck that was a too long post. I think @stevenkesslar verbal diarrhea is contagious.

What I like of this place is that now and then actual dialogue and reflexion take place, despite some bitchiness that puts some flavor in the dish. Before continuing, let me confess I am disappointed you want me to keep my hands off you. I had the fantasy of playing with your legendary micro penis in Palm Spring, but I guess it is not going to happen. I had not perceived that nuance you are pointing out to in @Kurtis Wolfe 's post. I see it now and I cannot disagree more if that is what he means. I do have a "we" and "them" in my own outlook, but it is not "we the clients/fans/audience" and "them the escorts/Pstars/performers". I am aware of the diversity of both "sides" and make no generalizations about any. My "we" has to do with personal interests and core values, and I enroll both clients and providers in my side. Perhaps Kurtis misspoke out of frustration, still hot because of the recent incident. Perhaps he does think that we are all assholes unable to look at him as he deserves. I hope is misspeaking. About the difference between the respect escorts and strippers receive, I do not really care about that. You are bringing your American love for data and polls we know very well from the Politics forum. That is fine but not my thing. I am more concerned about the issue of mutual respect and explicit consent. Yes, of course there is an expectation when you walk into a strippers club that you are going to touch as much as you can. Kurtis mentions legal constrains but to be honest, I do not give a fuck about regulations. Whether or not it is legal, when I am in the cub I am going to try to grab, touch, kiss, and finger. I would add fuck to the list, but so far I have never done that, so let's keep the first list. I would try to do all of these things and I have done it even breaking the rules. When I was younger, and hornier, and less experienced, and more ignorant of the world, the others, and myself, and more selfish and self-centered, I was abusive many times. I am not an alfa male, but sexually I am assertive and dominant. I abused many times non-for-fee hook ups and professionals, no difference there. I did it and I regret it. I do not brag about and do not advocate for it. I am ashamed. However, I have grown and learned. When I go to the club now, I still expect all the same things I did before. The difference is now I never do it without the performer explicit consent. My issue with abuse is not that it is illegal, but that it is just wrong. There is no difference in how I treat a professional or a non fee hook up, I want both of us to have an enjoyable experience. I would never abuse a hook up, and the same is applicable to a hire. Do I have attitudes that may lead me to be abusive? Hell yes. I am still horny as hell and many times driven by my dick, I am still assertive and dominant, and an assumed control freak. I know myself now and therefore know that I have to be extra careful. The key change, I think, is that I overcame my self-centerness and now I understand it is not about me-me-me. I still need to improve on some things. For instance, many times I have been confronted for jokes making analogies between providers and "meat". I will try to stop doing that, it feds an ideology of objectifying and abuse that our sisters are right now fighting with. I mean they are now successfully fighting, they have been fighting without much success, perhaps I'd rather say suffering for a very long time. I will also try to be a better advocate for the providers' rights and respect. This forum is strongly biased towards clients, despite commendable efforts by @Guy Fawkes to protect them from abuse and libeling. Several times I have been confronted by other forum members for trying to stop the bad mouthing about a fellow escort. Sorry guys, but from now on not only I will confront you when you do not follow the procedure established to protect the providers' rights, I will also report you.

It is a legitimate and reasonable question. However, given the context I think we are discussing here, I do not think it is a healthy or convenient train of thoughts for our friend. He needs to move on and I even think that he should not hire him again in case he reappears.

If I were rich I wouldnt be investing any time on hooking up on line. Unfortunately I am as poor as a shithole country immigrant, if I want to have all the sex I need I have to get it for free.

I never met him, but I do remember he was active here. I just tried to call him using @ but I am not sure the Killian that popped up is him. If he is back I would hear what he has to say. I believe in second and third chances. I know I have made many mistakes and benefited from forgiveness.

I am sorry you are going through this. You said it, you broke the cardinal rule and got attached. Now you just have to let time do its work and heal. Move on, and learn your lesson. I would not say that ghosting a regular client is a common occurrence, but it does happen now and then. We do not know what happened, the possibilities are countless. Do not beat yourself thinking about what you did wrong. The chances are you did not do anything wrong and his decision has to do with his own life. Make sure you learn your lesson and try to figure it out why you got emotionally involved even when you knew you shouldnt. If you are not in a good place emotionally, you should not hire. Hugs.

https://www.sleepyboy.com/uk/london/escort/TysonT

So where do you disagree with me. If you took from my post that I am disqualifying everyone's opinions and reviews, that is not what I meant. Maybe my bad English confused you? Maybe your low reading skills? (because we do know you can write) I did not mean to disqualify most of the members but the group who seems to think that they can grab whatever they want to. If that is their attitude with a stripper or a logo boy, I think we can legitimately infer that when talking about an escort they may think that because they are paying they have all the power. What I meant to say is that every time I see a negative review or criticism against a professional, I will carefully research the reviewer's previous posts to evaluate whether or not his experience has any value.

Good guess! Of course, 3 is XL, a no brainer for me. You got some others also. The full right answer is 1 (Chino Blac), 3 (XL), 4 (Milk), and 7 (Diego). Diego is actually my favorite out of that picture.

That is why I have a huge crush on guys like Timarrie Baker or Osiris Blade, amazing performers and affordable escorts.

My friend, XL is coming to DC this month. Besides, if the Mountain does not go to Mahoma, Mahoma goes to the Mountain. I can travel to Atlanta, it is closer than California. I would marry 4 of the guys in this picture. You can guess which ones. http://post.aazah.com/sites/post.aazah.com/files/styles/noded/public/field/image/2017-05-02_14-12-27.png?itok=uVg_JS88

Before I got into PrEP, I would always carry a condom in my wallet.

You are correct, I mistook May for April.

Thank you for sharing @Kurtis Wolfe . I knew the other performer was Armond, but I wasn't sure and did not want to contradict other posters. But that is not the point. Thank you for sharing and for confronting us. It is extremely concerning that in this place, where we are supposed to be knowledgeable and experienced adults we have participants advocating for abusive practices. From my perspective, it puts in question many of the opinions and the reviews we shared as clients. I have no interest on a professional's evaluation coming from some one who thinks it is OK to disrespect and assume consent. In a way, this thread is a revelation. Drunk or not, high or not, for pay or for free, in an orgy or in a duo, in public or in private, assuming that you can own someone else's body is inhuman and intolerable. It is so easy to obtain consent (the legal issues addressed by Kurtis are important but they are not what I deeply care about). All it takes is looking at your "target" as a respectable human been. All it takes is looking for eye contact and connection. All it takes is not being a fucking self centered monster and "feel" and acknowledge the other. I have grabbed performers' dicks and butts, I have French kissed them, I have fingered them and touched them in a thousand ways. Never, not even once, I did it without their consent. Please, no one come arguing I am making a fake equivalence between rape and touching a performer without his consent because I am not. I hope we do not have to debate whether or not rape is wrong. Unfortunately, it looks like we do need to debate this level of abuse.

It sounds like the bacterial infection I caught the last week of December, which ruined my NYE and all my vacation plans. I probably got it from eating ass. What have you been doing?

VR is the way to go. It is still in its beginning, but the way to go is not simulating or replacing, but tricking the brain. Think The Matrix.

Happy birthday!

I may be missing the joke because of language? It is "Blatino", not "Blatant".