SomethingFun

There may be tough days ahead of you @SomethingFun but for what it’s worth, I feel you’ve made the right decision.
Now get yourself a good (aka aggressive) lawyer to handle the divorce.
In the future, you and he might be friends as @PhileasFogg suggested but give yourself plenty of time and space first. And don’t rush into a second marriage even if you suddenly meet a great-seeming man.

I'd agree... it's majorly fucked up, and I don't know how you can salvage things from there.
Escorting is not necessarily incompatible with being married or being in a relationship. It might be surprising how many working guys are in long-term relationships while carrying on with their escort work. In my instance, I run everything past my husband... is it OK for me to go to Palm Springs? Do you mind if I take an appointment tonight? No secrets, I tell him everything. Of course, once upon a time he was also an escort, so he gets it. We've also been together a very long time, so there's trust that's built up over time.
The fact that your guy hides everything from you (friends, Facebook) is bad enough, and doesn't make good prospects for a relationship. But hiding his escort work is a real whopper.

for us there are more issues that are best not be put here,
would be nice if we could part as friends. but when we finnaly part ways, it will be forever I do feel.

he had been doing it since he moved in with me. I knew something was off from the lack of sex, and other ques, there is no slavaging it at this point. The gaslighting, was out of this world. And he got to the point where he knew what buttons to push, to piss me off, that would cause an argument so that he could use that not to have sex.

I would like to thank those that replied, and gave insight. There were deeper conserns than what I had asked, and am taking the proper steps.

I would like to thank those that replied, and gave insight. There were deeper conserns than what I had asked, and am taking the proper steps.

I would like to thank those that replied, and gave insight. There were deeper conserns than what I had asked, and am taking the proper steps.

we are legally married as of January. There are no joint accounts. every thing is separate.

I would like to thank those that replied, and gave insight. There were deeper conserns than what I had asked, and am taking the proper steps.

I would like to thank those that replied, and gave insight. There were deeper conserns than what I had asked, and am taking the proper steps.

I would like to thank those that replied, and gave insight. There were deeper conserns than what I had asked, and am taking the proper steps.

I would like to thank those that replied, and gave insight. There were deeper conserns than what I had asked, and am taking the proper steps.

Has any one been brave enough to ask your neighbours 22 years old sports student son NOT TO SHOWER !! to see what action you would get????http://tubecrush.net/wp-content/uploads/2017/01/img_5772.jpg

we are legally married as of January. There are no joint accounts. every thing is separate.

we are legally married as of January. There are no joint accounts. every thing is separate.

To quote B. Dylan Hollis--
"Making whoopie is an art in some parts. And depending on whose parts you're in, a cream filling may be inevitable."