Gilfson

The amount of flakes for me as a provider have been horrible lately. I had 8 people book me last week and 5 flaked/canceled last minute. It get old very fast so I understand your struggle.

Yepp! I have several regulars that I met from this site!

This is a pretty standard response on the site.. the same 10 questions about hiring have been asked a million times. So people tend to want you to share before asking questions.

I have a client that I see regularly. We don’t have sex it’s more of a sensual spanking experience thing.. he constantly tells me he’s in love with me and ask if I feel the same so I respond with it’s a strong like for me… he’s like oh yeah okay that’s fair. I get uncomfortable when clients tell me they are in love with me. Because they don’t know me. They know me in the context of putting a dick in my ass or my dick in theirs.. that’s not enough for love. And typically the guys who tell me they are in love with me are the same guys where I don’t text back they get very angry and upset. And honestly I just don’t have time to deal with that kind of mess. So I tend to tell my clients we can be friends but I won’t fall in love with you.

Oh my gosh your too sweet thank you❤️

Just an updated on my ad. This will be my last month with my ad posted for a while. I will still be meeting with people so if your interested feel free to message me on here😊

I've only had one experience like this and it was due to the client being so unbelievable unhygienic that i walked out very quickly into the session. He got very angry and made a huge scene. However most of my clients are great so I didn't let it get to me. but yes that one client was so gross i almost was like "yeah that's enough."

Like I said I don’t expect it we agree on a rate that’s what I value my time at. It’s always nice to receive but not necessary

Not many maybe like 10 percent. And tbh that’s typically cause we go over time. I’m not a clock watcher so it doesn’t bother me but they like to make it worth my while

I never expect tips from my clients 300 for the hour is more than enough! I have some clients that will tip me like 50 bucks if we go over time

There you go. Pic is gone. Am I now allowed to enjoy this site now that I meet your standards? Oh gosh I sure hope so😩

I agree that beauty standards change. And don’t disagree that a large majority of it is cultural. Never made the claim it wasn’t.

Damn babe who hurt you? And it’s literally my signature if you think im copy and pasting my add every single comment I’m sorry you think that. Sounds like you’re having a rough night. Hope it gets better😊 Says this and then immediately tells me to do what everyone else is doing😘

Because this is a forum about conversation and i felt like responding to your comment? What a nasty response when I just responded to you saying you don’t understand why fat people idolize fit people. Not sure what this accusation is but it’s completely unfounded and is yet another reason why you guys have ran off most of the escorting crowd from this forum. Yikes dude.

I don’t find it insane at all. Being fit is the standard of beauty for a reason. Don’t get me wrong some people find bigger people attractive. But the majority of the population would agree that being fit or average is more attract than being morbidly obese l. And a lot of people who are fat aren’t happy with their bodies. It makes total sense that’s they would find people who are more fit hot.

I ask for deposits via PayPal if the client has flaked on me before. While I agree a lot of the time it’s a scam not always. I only ask for deposits if people have flaked on me as it tends to happen over and over and for my sanity won’t schedule with people like that unless they’ve made a deposit and are serious

I had a client recently get me into ball stretching and I love it. I have naturally long balls so they are perfect for getting stretched!

I think for me it’s because I tend to talk with my clients for a while before meeting so we build a rapport and they realize I’m not a crazy person trying to ruin their life by having their face pic

I receive pics from about a 3rd of my clients usually don’t ask for them but if I ever do it’s just too see who I’m talking to. I never turn away a client based on their looks.

Can I ask genuinely what you guys are referring to when you claim we have a monopoly over the industry? The industry being our time and bodies why should we not have autonomy and full control over those things? I understand being frustrated over poor service providers but you sound jaded. And also at the end of day this is an illegal business it’s not held to the same standard as papa John’s. You’re gonna get bad eggs just like we get bad clients. But genuinely curiosity as to what ya’ll mean when referring to us having a monopoly on the industry.

Because some people are lonely.. some people physically can’t have sex but want companionship.. some people want a human connection that’s not only physical. Just. Few reasons

Also you asked a question and then said your not going to discuss anymore… make it makes sense

It’s disingenuous to say that some escorts provide sex while others don’t? No it’s just a fact there are plenty of escorts that don’t provide sex. Just because you have an idea of what an escort is doesn’t mean every escort falls into that category

Your claim was an escort isn’t an escort if they limit their services too much.. but that’s not for you to decide if I as an escort tell you what I offer that’s what I offer end of story. If it’s not what you’re looking for that’s fine move on but you don’t get to claim that person isn’t an escort. Especially when an “escort” just means to accompany another person. Aka on a date or a night out. Doesn’t inherently mean sex so you claiming that someone who limits their service isn’t what they claim to be is just wrong. You don’t get to decide what a provider offers. If what they offer isn’t for you that’s fine but that doesn’t mean they aren’t an escort.

I mean at the end of the day an escort is a person first. And it’s their body that they can do with what they seem fit. And if they tell you before you meet what they are and aren’t comfortable with and you agree then what’s the issue. There are escorts that strictly do the boyfriend experience. They don’t have sex with a client they just go to a nice date or spend the night with a client. It’s their business and they can choose which services they would and wouldn’t provide.