MikeBiDude

Similar to the two days of surfing lessons I arranged in San Diego for a Midwestern young man I’ve recently met on Seeking. He too is about the travel, new experiences, etc. It’s not a transactional arrangement, he’s a student…we meet when we can and enjoy our time together. Don’t sweat it, go with the flow! It’s working…. There are some on this forum who bash these Seeking posts on occasion. I’m a big fan of Seeking, but as I’ve said before it takes time and patience. Sometimes a lot. I messaged with the young man mentioned above almost 18 months before we met…bit of an outside exception due to Covid restrictions, but makes my “be patient” point.

I think I’ll stop on my way home tomorrow 😉 I like their chipotle tri-tip too.

He’s never mentioned a daddy to me?

He’s fine, voluntarily choosing not to post at the moment.

No, FloMax is not the latest RM provider posting fake pics 🤣 Rather it’s a prescription drug for helping urination. Prostate cancer is not an issue right now with a recent PSA test and finger probing tests. Slightly enlarged, but soft. But my balder isn’t voiding 100% of its urine, ultrasound revealed about 15-20% urine remains for a later attempt. This morning the doc prescribed it for me, I have not started it. Just curious if anyone is on it, has tried it? I have one close friend say “once you start it you can never stop it“? I’ve also heard one side effect is stronger erections 😈 , even priapism? Chime in!

Reading this topic I’m curious….isn’t paying up front something that should be handled and discussed in the pre-meet discussions? Or are we talking about two issues: deposit paid before meet? being surprise on arrival when provider asks for payment on arrival? I’m opposed to both. I will often leave the allowance in plain sight on provider’s arrival, as others have mentioned before.

Stephen King’s “The Stand”. Multiple times.

Well I can’t speak to his massage skills….somehow we always bypassed that 😈 buts he’s an A-1 all class full service provider. We’ve met 4-5 times now.

If you browse his one-star review via a VPN/proxy like https://hide.me/en/proxy you will see the text note where the client claims he was robbed.

For my visit, that is not an accurate assumption.

Even back when we had Daddy’s review to count on….Daddy didn’t like to publish “no show” reviews. From the FAQ: “IIn general we look at these on a case-by-case basis. In general we "Hold" these type of reviews because it is very difficult to verify this type of situation.” I’ve had no-show RentMen reviews rejected for the same reasoning,

Re: pics…I have pics in my profile but no clear/unblurred face pic, my profile says I’ll send face on request. And I do, often in my first hello message. But, since I’m a paying user I can use the 10 second single view option for my photo, a’la Snapchat. Satisfies 99.99% of pic requests, if they - complain I’m usually suspicious and block ‘em.

Both comments ring so true with me, dovetail my experiences. I’ve found that taking things slow and showing patience (something not popular on Grindr) yield good results for me. Re:numbers game, it’s like a batting average…but if you don’t swing the bat you don’t get a chance at a home run. Both for gen and just for fun I still have sporadic luck on Grindr.

It does seem to be requested a bit more often than before. That said, 99% of the forum readers here would NOT pay up front.

What a nicely timed post, I’m reading it as I’m visiting North San Diego County and enjoying a k-cup of Peet’s. And, the previously mentioned friend is flying in tonight for the holiday weekend! Also thanks to @tassojuniorwho turned me onto Illy coffee in another thread. I use their coffee at home when not roasting/brewing my own beans. AND, they also have k-cups which are pretty good and in my travel repertoire with the Peet’s.

Right now Wednesday 11:20PDT his outcall says $500!

Agree his “tool” is impressive and ready to go. I’ve no clue if he tops with it…I had other (fully satisfied) interests 😉😈

Moderator note: this duplicate topic from The Deli was merged into existing thread here in The Lounge.

He quoted that rate to me on RM a month or two ago. He’s quoting 350 on Grindr in San Diego now….I did not partake.

Not sure why you say this, there is not a single mention of OF in his RM ad, nor did a single text message (I had over a dozen with him) ever mention or steer me to OF. Zero. And as mentioned above after tonight I can now vouch that he’s real.

Well, I can now chime in…he IS the real deal! We got past our communication faux pas I mentioned above and scheduled for tonight. Met me in NoSD County, right on time, looks just like his pics (whew!), physique was impressive. The real deal 👍🏻👍🏻

Me too! This is new for me. So far they seem to be fake “client” profiles, and yes alll spam. 3 today.

I’ve had good experiences with https://www.masseurfinder.com/massage-therapists/32521/

@SilverDollarisn’t missing….he’s here

Didn’t happen. First he rescheduled the original time (that he’d suggested), then he rescheduled the reschedule. Then he rescheduled one more time. At the arranged time for the (3rd ?) rescheduled appointment he ghosted me. No further texts or replies to my texts.