Similar to the two days of surfing lessons I arranged in San Diego for a Midwestern young man I’ve recently met on Seeking. He too is about the travel, new experiences, etc. It’s not a transactional arrangement, he’s a student…we meet when we can and enjoy our time together.
Don’t sweat it, go with the flow! It’s working….
There are some on this forum who bash these Seeking posts on occasion. I’m a big fan of Seeking, but as I’ve said before it takes time and patience. Sometimes a lot. I messaged with the young man mentioned above almost 18 months before we met…bit of an outside exception due to Covid restrictions, but makes my “be patient” point.