sam.fitzpatrick

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Gman

Plus BB, OBP & SLG.
 
~ Boomer ~

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I just shot this one yesterday. In full disclosure, I don't think my ass is one of my better features, but others seem to enjoy it.

JD, just tell him you are happy no matter how his life works out but that you love him and don't need all the details of his life. Tell him he doesn't need to prove anything to you. He doesn't need to tell you how successful he had been because you like him whether he has been successful or not.

I stopped by Hush today and had a massage and nose waxing (yes, I've reached the age where grooming the nose has become necessary) with John. As for the massage, it was good. I had a huge knot in my neck and he took care of it.

I have often find that even without asking a masseur will encourage me to touch him by any of the following:
 
(1) when I'm face down on the table, position himself so that his cock is in my palm as he kneads my back,
(2) while standing above me, gently make sure his cock rubs my cheek,
(3) when massaging and stretching my arms, place an arms between his legs and say "it is ok."

I just wanted to point out that this thread, started by Jackhammer in August 2010, has now reached 100 pages. I can think of worse tributes.
 
Kevin Slater

This may be more about legit massage - where no advertising or discussion of "mutual touch"has been discussed - but I thought I'd add to the general direction of the conversation:
 
My standard MO is the be laying face down, have my hands on the side of the table, cupping around the edge. This just feels most natural for me - very gently gripping around the table's edge. Otherwise my hands feel almost unconformable open palms flat down, or palms flat up.
 
I must admit i do this for every massage pretty much, even at full on legit spa/hotel/resort places. And even if my hands are under a drape. You can kinda deduce where the masseur is most of the time, and I may ever so gently adjust my hands here and there if i feel it may position them a bit closer to the masseur's crotch. Then it's up to the masseur to drop some hints. Sometimes it's only 10 minutes in and I'm feeling a throbbing bulge directly on my hand. .OK.. .that's a VERY clear message. I've had massages where it never went any further than that. I feel his cock- through his pants, .,rub it, massage it... but he goes no further.. still i like that connection and intimacy (especially as part of a good massage in the first place - it's a small but very nice extra) I;d actually rather be rubbing his dick here and there while he gives a good massage, and have nothing else. than the sitaution where there is NO intimate touch for 55 minutes, then a very perfunctory hand job at the end. .that feels so disconnected and un-nurturing.
 
Often the crotch-brush-against-the-hand is the first signal form the masseur to hte client that "yes, we can a do a bit more " and most of the time it proceeds to at least a happy ending for me. If the masseur grabs my ass or dick, or whips his dick out, then I feel comfortable reciprocating, and of course backing off if he indicates it's off limits.
 
It's a bit of a dance. .especially at legit places.. he's kinda cautious about crossing a line, and I'm making sure I'm not being a hands perv of a client. But it's a dance I love and I admit, even someitmes contacting a guy on massagem4m or masseurfinder, I WONT have an explicit converstaion because I want to enjoy the testing of boundaries.
 
Every now and them a masseur will deftly take my hand and place it next to my body, AWAY from the edge of the table. I may gradually work my hand out to the side again, and if he puts it back next to my body a second time. I interpret that as OK.. message received. Nothing extra at all.. and that's OK
 
Again, this is for legit places. If a masseur ADVERTISES mutual touch, then i feel you should be comfortable gently and respectfully initiating contact and seeing if it's permitted (some mutual touch MUST be permitted) or if he terminates the contact.
 
I'd be interested in others' input here.

I have often find that even without asking a masseur will encourage me to touch him by any of the following:
 
(1) when I'm face down on the table, position himself so that his cock is in my palm as he kneads my back,
(2) while standing above me, gently make sure his cock rubs my cheek,
(3) when massaging and stretching my arms, place an arms between his legs and say "it is ok."

I have often find that even without asking a masseur will encourage me to touch him by any of the following:
 
(1) when I'm face down on the table, position himself so that his cock is in my palm as he kneads my back,
(2) while standing above me, gently make sure his cock rubs my cheek,
(3) when massaging and stretching my arms, place an arms between his legs and say "it is ok."

I have often find that even without asking a masseur will encourage me to touch him by any of the following:
 
(1) when I'm face down on the table, position himself so that his cock is in my palm as he kneads my back,
(2) while standing above me, gently make sure his cock rubs my cheek,
(3) when massaging and stretching my arms, place an arms between his legs and say "it is ok."

What's the difference between a circus and the Rockettes? One is a cunning array of stunts...
 
Kevin Slater

Overhead at the gym today:
 
"There must be something wrong with my DVR. I keep trying to record The Biggest Loser, but all I get are Kentucky basketball games."

Overhead at the gym today:
 
"There must be something wrong with my DVR. I keep trying to record The Biggest Loser, but all I get are Kentucky basketball games."

Overhead at the gym today:
 
"There must be something wrong with my DVR. I keep trying to record The Biggest Loser, but all I get are Kentucky basketball games."

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Kevin Slater

Overhead at the gym today:
 
"There must be something wrong with my DVR. I keep trying to record The Biggest Loser, but all I get are Kentucky basketball games."

...make a new year's resolution to spend more time in the gym.

TruHart1

Thinking of anyone in particular Lance? lol.
 
Yes, I was one of those clients Lance was speaking about who was fascinated by it and asked to try it with him. He was a complete pro at it. Lance and I have known each other for quite a few years so there is a level of great trust so that is required. But honestly, for me, it was neither positive or negative. My reaction was actually "meh". Interesting. I've done it. I wouldn't mind doing it again but I wouldn't go out of my way to do so. There was no pain (which I expected). It just sort of was. It was an experience. Cross that off the bucket list.
 
But it actually came in handy a couple of weeks later. The best friend personal trainer (who is straight) is a former sex toy distributor. And she (the friend) occasionally likes to shock Chris, my trainer. So one day, she sent him a text asking him if he knew what sounding was. Of course he had no idea. Then she sent a video. Freaked him out to no end. I just happened to be the next client in so Chris asked me if I knew what sounding was. When I told him I'd tried and thought it was boring I think he almost lost it completely.

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TruHart1

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Kevin Slater

TruHart1

Yes it has happened. From the small, dainty hints of poo to the full catastrophic Richter scale 10 events.
 
We are sticking our dicks in an ass, so we know the risks. If it happens, one tries as hard as one can to be light about it, and relaxed.
 
You contain the issue as best as possible. You clean yourself up, ask the bottom to clean himself. If it was only a tiny hint sometimes it is possible to continue playing after a little shower. If it is a full contingency, I recommend the bottom evacuates, showers thoroughly and then we continue doing other things.
 
If there is actual damage in the room I think it is wise to call it a day. There is no way to continue feeling sexy if walls, beds and furniture are smeared. (NO, this is not an exaggeration. People, learn to douche. It's a life saver!)
 

 
I would one hundred percent recommend against this. Never re-douche during a session. The ass has little corners where water hides and if you don't let water be absorbed for at least half an hour, the water WILL come out, now in a different color and texture if you stick anything in there.
 
The grossest accidents have ever happened when someone douches and jumps into playing. I can't warn you passionately enough.
 
Don't.