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    + Alabastrine got a reaction from + azdr0710 in *Escorting in 2026: Is it too much trouble?   
    Saint Marks Hotel in the EV also had rooms by the hour, not sure if they still do... But not that I would know anything about that 😇😈
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    + Alabastrine got a reaction from + azdr0710 in Austin TX Recommendations   
    I second student_brad, he's also great for overnights, I have trouble walking the next day but it's sooo worth it. 
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    + Alabastrine got a reaction from Huxley in 411 on JT_xxx   
    Looking for any information on JT_XXX
    Does anyone have experiences they can share?
    JT_xxx - Pornstar Performer, Rentboy, Gay Massage in Dallas, TX | RentMen
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    + Alabastrine got a reaction from TMB in What's with all the beards?   
    I really hate beards, I prefer clean shaven, but I can be forgiving with a well-groomed, short  beard. I also realized some guys have very soft & pleasant beards as opposed to brillo growing on their face. Big difference, the soft, short beards can feel kinda nice. 
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    + Alabastrine reacted to SubNick in Anybody else fall for the men they hire?   
    We started off with a weekend together which was pretty great. We live in different cities, so we have spent one weekend every six weeks together ever since and we speak several times a day. The more I learned about him, the more I liked. He doesn't drink or do drugs, which makes me feel safe. He's extremely emotionally intelligent. He's smart and ambitious and finances were holding him back - he was doing sex work part-time as he was working.  He's super-kind and, most of all, honest and authentic. After 2 years, I've never heard him say something he didn't mean. It also made a difference when I learned about his past relationship history, and that his most serious relationships had been with older men - "daddy" is his type. Made me feel like our 20year age difference was okay. I've helped him financially to finish school and get closer to his dreams - always impressed by his hard work - after about nine months of seeing each other sporadically, we made a mutual decision that he didn't need to escort anymore. He also does an incredible job of taking care of me - he's very organized and he's helped me organize/manage many details of my life, as well as helping me take care of myself as I've gone through a tough divorce. I had a medical issue once, and he was absolutely incredible. He loves taking care of people, which I've never really experienced in a partner before. He's also very confident and talented sexually - I've always dreamed of having a Dom - and he loves playing that role for me. He's taught me so much about my own sexuality, and loves being my mentor in that regard. In other ways, he enjoys that I represent emotional and financial stability, emotional maturity, depth and  commitment.  We laugh about our "Pretty Woman" story but honestly I feel incredibly lucky, as does he. 
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    + Alabastrine reacted to SubNick in Anybody else fall for the men they hire?   
    We just celebrated our 2-year anniversary. He tells me he loves me every day, and I believe him!
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    + Alabastrine got a reaction from Nue2thegame in CLIENTS: Burner Phone vs Primary Cell vs Google Voice vs ???   
    client here. I don't have a lot of contacts in the hobby world, but I use a burner phone with Signal installed on it. The phone was acquired with cash, and every once in a while I buy a refill for phone or data as needed (also, cash only for a little more anonymity). I don't use the phone unless I need to communicate with a provider. You can also install Signal on your laptop and communicate with the same Signal account that you have on your phone. The signal app can also do a "signal call", I personally haven't tested that feature yet, but it allows me to communicate with the provider without having to use the burner phone. In the case you don't use Signal, I'd assume a real phone - burner or not - would be more reliable than a google voice account... The only downside to use Signal on a burner phone is that you piss though data pretty quick if they send you photos or if you exchange cute little voice messages back and forth between the app. I ran out of data on the burner phone plan once because of that- not a huge deal, but if you're gonna use a lot of data on a burner phone, have a few refill cards purchased in advance so you can active them and add em to your phone account- whether that's tracfone or whatever..
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    + Alabastrine got a reaction from Brock O in *Escorting in 2026: Is it too much trouble?   
    Yes those are all very real downsides of escorting, and for those reasons I try to be my provider's favorite client by being freshly showered & groomed, kind,  pay in cash and include a tip. 
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    + Alabastrine got a reaction from Brock O in *Escorting in 2026: Is it too much trouble?   
    Both serve different purposes, so in that respect I wouldn't say they're equal in terms of both being worse. 
    If people wanna hook up, cool, "you be you" and it's all good. 
    I do have the option to hook up, but in my case my free time is very rare and precious and don't feel like casting myself out to the multitude of time-wasters and "random dick" where chances are slim they would have any idea how to please me- in my experience most people suck in bed and who has "time fo dat?"?? That's a number's game that's not fulfilling or viable to me, I don't have time or tolerance for disappointment so hiring is the better solution for me. 
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    + Alabastrine got a reaction from Nue2thegame in *Escorting in 2026: Is it too much trouble?   
    Both serve different purposes, so in that respect I wouldn't say they're equal in terms of both being worse. 
    If people wanna hook up, cool, "you be you" and it's all good. 
    I do have the option to hook up, but in my case my free time is very rare and precious and don't feel like casting myself out to the multitude of time-wasters and "random dick" where chances are slim they would have any idea how to please me- in my experience most people suck in bed and who has "time fo dat?"?? That's a number's game that's not fulfilling or viable to me, I don't have time or tolerance for disappointment so hiring is the better solution for me. 
  11. Haha
    + Alabastrine got a reaction from Nue2thegame in *Escorting in 2026: Is it too much trouble?   
    Saint Marks Hotel in the EV also had rooms by the hour, not sure if they still do... But not that I would know anything about that 😇😈
  12. Haha
    + Alabastrine got a reaction from pubic_assistance in *Escorting in 2026: Is it too much trouble?   
    Saint Marks Hotel in the EV also had rooms by the hour, not sure if they still do... But not that I would know anything about that 😇😈
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    + Alabastrine got a reaction from pubic_assistance in *Escorting in 2026: Is it too much trouble?   
    Yes those are all very real downsides of escorting, and for those reasons I try to be my provider's favorite client by being freshly showered & groomed, kind,  pay in cash and include a tip. 
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    + Alabastrine got a reaction from pubic_assistance in *Escorting in 2026: Is it too much trouble?   
    Both serve different purposes, so in that respect I wouldn't say they're equal in terms of both being worse. 
    If people wanna hook up, cool, "you be you" and it's all good. 
    I do have the option to hook up, but in my case my free time is very rare and precious and don't feel like casting myself out to the multitude of time-wasters and "random dick" where chances are slim they would have any idea how to please me- in my experience most people suck in bed and who has "time fo dat?"?? That's a number's game that's not fulfilling or viable to me, I don't have time or tolerance for disappointment so hiring is the better solution for me. 
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    + Alabastrine got a reaction from pubic_assistance in *Escorting in 2026: Is it too much trouble?   
    I read it a bit differently: more like the apps enabling people with situational horniness and no other mutual requirement- just dime-a-dozen (I think that is what the "trashy" comment may have been aimed at) to meet up relieve each other. Most people can get laid anytime they want without paying for it, it just depends on what standards they have to filter consenting partners. I would understand a provider's frustration when that makes it more difficult to find clients. 
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    + Alabastrine got a reaction from + SidewaysDM in Anyone else not hiring specifically due to lack of interest?   
    The universe redeems itself once in a while in odd ways, maybe the whimsical meetings had a bit of luck 😊
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    + Alabastrine got a reaction from Luv2play in *Escorting in 2026: Is it too much trouble?   
    Saint Marks Hotel in the EV also had rooms by the hour, not sure if they still do... But not that I would know anything about that 😇😈
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    + Alabastrine got a reaction from Luv2play in *Escorting in 2026: Is it too much trouble?   
    Yes those are all very real downsides of escorting, and for those reasons I try to be my provider's favorite client by being freshly showered & groomed, kind,  pay in cash and include a tip. 
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    + Alabastrine got a reaction from Luv2play in *Escorting in 2026: Is it too much trouble?   
    Both serve different purposes, so in that respect I wouldn't say they're equal in terms of both being worse. 
    If people wanna hook up, cool, "you be you" and it's all good. 
    I do have the option to hook up, but in my case my free time is very rare and precious and don't feel like casting myself out to the multitude of time-wasters and "random dick" where chances are slim they would have any idea how to please me- in my experience most people suck in bed and who has "time fo dat?"?? That's a number's game that's not fulfilling or viable to me, I don't have time or tolerance for disappointment so hiring is the better solution for me. 
  20. Haha
    + Alabastrine got a reaction from + JamesB in *Escorting in 2026: Is it too much trouble?   
    Saint Marks Hotel in the EV also had rooms by the hour, not sure if they still do... But not that I would know anything about that 😇😈
  21. Agree
    + Alabastrine got a reaction from + Just Sayin in Anyone else not hiring specifically due to lack of interest?   
    The universe redeems itself once in a while in odd ways, maybe the whimsical meetings had a bit of luck 😊
  22. Haha
    + Alabastrine got a reaction from + SidewaysDM in *Escorting in 2026: Is it too much trouble?   
    Saint Marks Hotel in the EV also had rooms by the hour, not sure if they still do... But not that I would know anything about that 😇😈
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    + Alabastrine got a reaction from + sync in *Escorting in 2026: Is it too much trouble?   
    Saint Marks Hotel in the EV also had rooms by the hour, not sure if they still do... But not that I would know anything about that 😇😈
  24. Haha
    + Alabastrine reacted to Nue2thegame in Anyone else not hiring specifically due to lack of interest?   
    You must live near Lackawanna, NY then
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    + Alabastrine got a reaction from + claym in *Escorting in 2026: Is it too much trouble?   
    Saint Marks Hotel in the EV also had rooms by the hour, not sure if they still do... But not that I would know anything about that 😇😈
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