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Holy crap; I haven’t lived….

I was in Kenya a number of years ago and hit on by at least 3 local guides, and it wasn’t subtle lol. So not sure Kenya is an issue. Off topic but planning a safari in spring. Recommendations on tour operators?

I’m with you if it’s Kraft Deluxe (only the best for me)

Yes, that’s what I read; he exited the train, sat on a platform bench, and watched.

Agree; many service providers require deposits and/or cancellation fees; why should escorts be different? If you’re against it because of the paper trail, I get it. But otherwise I don’t think it should be a big deal. Of course, it’s not a smart business model if requiring cuts into your bookings.

If folks here are that sensitive, best watch what you post on this forum; it’s evidence, too. And prosecutors won’t have a difficult time connecting it up.

I don’t see why paying a reasonable deposit is controversial. Scammers can be avoided by doing some basic vetting. I’ve paid reasonable deposits, and I’ve paid providers fees for no-shows commensurate with the amount of notice. Just seems courteous. I want to feel good about my experiences, which starts with treating others and their time respectfully.

As a client, I always require a deposit 😜

Excellent film.

Just finished Black Doves; thoroughly enjoyed it.

And as my dermatologist often reminds me: “It’s better than the alternative.”

I respectfully disagree. As a client, I don’t perceive it as a provider’s responsibility to regulate my emotions, only to set his boundaries (for him, not me). I’m responsible for me. Of course, there are extreme situations but I don’t believe that’s what @ICTJOCKwas describing.

Mid-50s here. Didn’t even start seeing men until 2 yrs ago. Have seen many providers and random hookups of all ages and not one bad experience. With providers age has never been an issue (at least to my knowledge). True that on the apps many I’m attracted to have age limits, so I don’t contact them. But also true that many either don’t care or are attracted to age. One hookup was 36 years younger and I put a smile on his face for sure. And I have a good FWB 26 yrs my junior. And honestly I’m just average. I do see someone else in the mirror these days, but that’s a good thing; means I still feel young. Just go for it; nothing to lose.