Km411

Of course it’s on the client to make that decision; that was the OP’s question. I respect your view and would’ve subscribed to it in a more genteel era. But, in the current climate, many people on both sides of the political spectrum view the other side as an existential threat. For them, a decision not to patronize could very well be based on principle. Indeed, there are many businesses that deliver quality products and services in a professional manner yet their perceived politics lead to nationwide boycotts. It’s for many a statement of principle. In my view, to generalize that such decisions are fear- or prejudice-based demeans them and their principles.

I respectfully disagree. Political differences can override professionalism and skill if you believe they conflict with strongly held values or threaten your way of life. In this case, I don’t believe the decision is fear-based or grounded in prejudice but in fact based on principle.

I don’t screen for political beliefs and never initiate political dialogue, but if I learned of a provider’s political beliefs and they conflicted with my values I would not hire. Interestingly, I see this more and more on the apps—don’t message me if you’re this or that. I make exceptions. I was meeting up with someone regularly. One evening over dinner we got to talking about an upcoming election. Our views were polar opposites. We argued about it for a hour. He was really hot and it was a total turn on, so….

I don’t keep any records of the past (on anything (except taxes)); don’t see the point. I’ve already internalized lessons from important experiences and am not prone to repeat mistakes. Too much baggage (positive and negative) for me. I try to stay focused on the present and short term future. It’s liberating.

For me it’s all about relaxation and lube.

Very much agree with this. But have no regrets about earlier life choices.

I’ve only been asked for a pic once, and it was for a possible overnight. I had no problem providing it given the circumstances (and never thought of FaceTime as an alternative). I also provide pics on apps, including face pics, but only use pics already on the internet (there are plenty of them). I like the idea of it; it makes that first meeting easier.

Just returned from San Francisco; same there—waymos everywhere.

🤔 While I don’t always agree with @pubic_assistanceI’ve always appreciated his honesty, directness, and conviction. So rare. In fact, I was going to include a discussion of this on another thread about favorite posters this morning. Dodged a bullet 😂

Mid-50s here and only been at this for 2 years but find I like attractive men of all ages. Attraction for me goes well beyond physical looks; it’s more about connection and intensity. And I get my share of younger and older men for “free” (though is it ever really free 😆); has little to do with decision to hire.

He’s a crazy fool. If I were in NYC…. You’re super hot.

My response time for most situations is 24-48 hours; this especially includes when I’m the responder.

Damn these are awesome. Remind me to stay on your good side 😊

To be clear I absolutely agree you should disclose beforehand.

This might be off topic, but I figure Sniffies confessions might be appropriate here. I recently met up with a guy on Sniffies. He was very complimentary of me and we had a hot session. Afterward, he asked if I’d see him again (even suggested becoming a regular). But the thing is he didn’t finish. Was it me or him? Well, on my drive home from his place, he messages me on the app with his photo. I couldn’t tell if he knew he was messaging me, so I ask if he’s looking, to which he responds “yes.” Now he knows my profile pics well enough and he just saw me in person, but has no idea I’m the guy with whom he just spent an hour. So, it was me lol. Delete.

I agree; go for it!

I use the site. The negatives mentioned above are real, but I’ve made some positive connections, too. And who doesn’t need a periodic dose of “hot ass, man” or “I love your pics” from complete strangers. And no one is looking for a relationship, which I prefer. There’s one scam I can’t figure out. Two different guys, two different cities reply: “I’m a single father with daughters, is that ok?” I know it’s a scam because the question was posed with exactly the same spacing between letters and punctuation, etc. What’s that about?

I fall for providers one hour at a time 😉

Well said and whole-heartedly agree. And traveling with @BenjaminNicholas is at the top of my bucket list!