Km411

I respectfully disagree. As a client, I don’t perceive it as a provider’s responsibility to regulate my emotions, only to set his boundaries (for him, not me). I’m responsible for me. Of course, there are extreme situations but I don’t believe that’s what @ICTJOCKwas describing.

Mid-50s here. Didn’t even start seeing men until 2 yrs ago. Have seen many providers and random hookups of all ages and not one bad experience. With providers age has never been an issue (at least to my knowledge). True that on the apps many I’m attracted to have age limits, so I don’t contact them. But also true that many either don’t care or are attracted to age. One hookup was 36 years younger and I put a smile on his face for sure. And I have a good FWB 26 yrs my junior. And honestly I’m just average. I do see someone else in the mirror these days, but that’s a good thing; means I still feel young. Just go for it; nothing to lose.