LuckyLechon

Requiring a picture wasn’t what bothered me. I can understand wanting to know what the person looks like that you would possibly have relations with. It was everything else. edit: Also, for some people on this forum sending pictures is a no go, so it is why I mentioned it.

He does have an ad on rentmasseur however he is definitely open to more than just massage when I was chatting with him. I reached out to book him a month or so ago but decided not to because he doesn’t have a place to host (dealbreaker for me personally). Also, he had a weird affect via text which is a turn off for me - like dodging quarstions about rates and wanting pictures from me (I don’t mind sending pictures but coupled with the other things, it was too much).

I get what you mean. Sometimes things feel a little more human than expected.

Right, I guess I’ve not been with a provider who’s done that before - at least to that extent.

I never really lost sight of the fact that I was paying for a service. I was paying to have a good time, like I’ve done several times in the past. I don’t think I ever alluded to it being a charity. Maybe it doesn’t come across well enough in my original post but I was surprised that I got a fantasy I never discussed or expected. That’s why it is a bit of a shock. It was nice and it was a deeper connection than I intended.

I always ask because sometimes the information posted is not accurate nor does it encompass all options available. Isnt it better for everyone to be on the same page rather than surprises or miscommunication happening later?

Frankly, this.

Something that’s contributing to the lost feeling is the idea that I will look for that in future bookings. And it likely won’t be like that.

A little clickbaity and I know it has been discussed prior but it is my first time ever having met a provider where I felt "swept away" in a sense after meeting them. I have had meetings where I had a really good time etc and I am able to acknowledge that and move on - taking it for what it was. However, recently I felt a really nice connection and just feel a little bit lost afterward. Truthfully I am surprised I can still feel this way after meeting a guy (hired or not), first time butterflies and all that, so it also kind of excites me too. I am sure others have felt this way but how do you ya'll move on? It almost makes me no longer want to hire for fear or being this caught up again. Almost.

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I think I’ve learned from past experiences that I used to preemptively book longer time before getting to know a provider and it’s definitely backfired. Nothing is worse than have a meh (rarely actually bad) experience and then paying a premium for it. Now, I always go with 1 hour for the first booking and if it goes well I’ll book again for sure and usually for longer.

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I’ve heard good things about the pod hotel never been in one. Is it ok for hosting?

Yeah I imagine something similar happening and I want to avoid that convo cause it would beware for sure. The guy I’m not into as much is a nice guy and friends I’m just so much more sexually excited by the other. I guess if it’s an issue I should just find someone else, plenty of fish in the sea so to speak.

Heya, planning on hiring while I’m in town for a conference, I’ve never been before. I was wondering where’s a good place to stay that’s close to the action, so to speak?

Hello, New to hiring but was wondering the politics of providers who are partnered/married. I hired one and ended up not being as into him as I thought when I met him in person but was wanting to hire someone else only to find out he is partnered and living with the first provider. I wanna avoid awkward convos and people feeling bad so does that mean I should just not bothering hiring the second guy?

I’m not a daddy nor a bear, will this affect my time with him? I’ve always wanted to see him and my schedule will finally allow it haha. Just worried about my mileage varying.

Did you ever book him?

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Maybe but it’s the business he’s in. Of course the OP has the right to decline and the “masseur” has the right to not send photos (especially with the amount of time wasters he has to deal with), but it is interesting that he won’t send that stuff after having explicit conversations with the OP about services. I’ve not encountered this situation before personally. I may just cut my losses and move on to a different provider.

What’s YMMV? Forgive my ignorance.

Although this thread is old, I thought I would add my two cents. I had a great time. Massage was good but didn't last long - the massaging part that is. Once my dick was hard all bets were off. I will leave it at that, but know that the money was worth it lol. PM if you have any questions, I am happy to help.

Hello, relatively new to hiring providers. Have recently been more and more curious about doing four hands massage but I’ve heard from other people that it can be a bit scammy - is that true? I’m just not sure what to expect, at best I can see it being really hot but at worst I can see it being very overwhelming. Would love to know ya’lls experiences. Was also wondering if anyone knew of any good four hands masseurs in the DC area?

I think this is what I’m feeling too. It’s been a work in progress for sure. What does help is hearing other make the same compliments so I tend to chill out.