LuckyLechon

Mere fetish and other subtle shady comments like these crack me up quite a bit. Many people hire (and pay a premium) for particular fetishes, desires and specific types of men. I don’t see the problem with seeking out specific things when hiring providers, MANY/ALL here do. Whether it is age, body type, etc. - people have an idea what they are looking for. To explain further, to me if a provider lies about size I wonder what else they would misrepresent, to me it isn’t just about a preference but it’s a bit of a litmus test of personality/vibe.

lol I’m vers, I still like a handle when I’m topping.

Ok actually to this point. I have a hard time trusting some reviewers because a lot do seem to”easily impressed” as you say. Some people who have given accolades to providers that I’ve gone to sample ended up being really disappointing lol

Literally hired a dude for a massage who has dick pics. I just hired him cause he was so attractive and had a great vibe when we chatted. I was pleasantly surprised when I met him. But I would say this is the exception, not the rule.

I’m new to hiring providers. I have been duped a couple times about size claims, naïveté on my part for sure. Any tips on getting an accurate telling of size? I am bit particular but I would just like to get what I’m expecting and paying for than to be left disappointed.

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Hey I know it’s been a while, but who did you end up booking in Boston? I’ll be there in March for a conference and was looking and it didn’t seem like there was as many provider options as I’m used to here in DC.

Hello all. I will be staying in Wilton Manors for the majority of my trip. I do want to have a couple beach days while I am there but was wondering what the best ones to head to are? I have mostly only stayed in Miami but found I enjoy FTL more, just don't have a ton of experience with it. Also do providers from Miami tend to mind coming to FTL? Should I prepare to need to go to them?

Not to commandeer this thread but genuinely how does one figure this out? I feel like I knew but things shift - am I just into a lot?

Great advice. It should be a bonus in your life, not the main part of it. Have a fulfilling life outside of hiring and if you don’t have one, work toward one. I don’t even mean a social life, I mean hobbies, goals/aspirations to work toward, the gym, anything you can be passionate about.

Forgive my ignorance but what is seeking?

If anyone wants details on booking him please feel free to message me.

anyone can send me a dm if interested in knowing more, booked him before

Requiring a picture wasn’t what bothered me. I can understand wanting to know what the person looks like that you would possibly have relations with. It was everything else. edit: Also, for some people on this forum sending pictures is a no go, so it is why I mentioned it.

He does have an ad on rentmasseur however he is definitely open to more than just massage when I was chatting with him. I reached out to book him a month or so ago but decided not to because he doesn’t have a place to host (dealbreaker for me personally). Also, he had a weird affect via text which is a turn off for me - like dodging quarstions about rates and wanting pictures from me (I don’t mind sending pictures but coupled with the other things, it was too much).

I get what you mean. Sometimes things feel a little more human than expected.

Right, I guess I’ve not been with a provider who’s done that before - at least to that extent.

I never really lost sight of the fact that I was paying for a service. I was paying to have a good time, like I’ve done several times in the past. I don’t think I ever alluded to it being a charity. Maybe it doesn’t come across well enough in my original post but I was surprised that I got a fantasy I never discussed or expected. That’s why it is a bit of a shock. It was nice and it was a deeper connection than I intended.

I always ask because sometimes the information posted is not accurate nor does it encompass all options available. Isnt it better for everyone to be on the same page rather than surprises or miscommunication happening later?

Frankly, this.

Something that’s contributing to the lost feeling is the idea that I will look for that in future bookings. And it likely won’t be like that.

A little clickbaity and I know it has been discussed prior but it is my first time ever having met a provider where I felt "swept away" in a sense after meeting them. I have had meetings where I had a really good time etc and I am able to acknowledge that and move on - taking it for what it was. However, recently I felt a really nice connection and just feel a little bit lost afterward. Truthfully I am surprised I can still feel this way after meeting a guy (hired or not), first time butterflies and all that, so it also kind of excites me too. I am sure others have felt this way but how do you ya'll move on? It almost makes me no longer want to hire for fear or being this caught up again. Almost.

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I think I’ve learned from past experiences that I used to preemptively book longer time before getting to know a provider and it’s definitely backfired. Nothing is worse than have a meh (rarely actually bad) experience and then paying a premium for it. Now, I always go with 1 hour for the first booking and if it goes well I’ll book again for sure and usually for longer.

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