Drew Collins

In these times social etiquette is a rare find anywhere.  Your sensitivity has given his terse rebuff more dignity than it merits.

ROFL. It means we met on seekingarrangement.com

Absolutely do not be embarrassed.  It's a natural response, and if the massage simply continued on....your masseur knows that and is at least somewhat used to it.

I always precum during my massage, nothing to be ashamed of it’s bound to happen when your body is being stimulated.. and I’d say if the provider wiped you he most likely enjoyed it 

Absolutely do not be embarrassed.  It's a natural response, and if the massage simply continued on....your masseur knows that and is at least somewhat used to it.

Absolutely do not be embarrassed.  It's a natural response, and if the massage simply continued on....your masseur knows that and is at least somewhat used to it.

Absolutely do not be embarrassed.  It's a natural response, and if the massage simply continued on....your masseur knows that and is at least somewhat used to it.

Absolutely do not be embarrassed.  It's a natural response, and if the massage simply continued on....your masseur knows that and is at least somewhat used to it.

I had the opposite situation happened at a spa recently, the masseur wiped his precum on my nipple. He was precumming even though he wouldn’t allow to be touched.

Absolutely do not be embarrassed.  It's a natural response, and if the massage simply continued on....your masseur knows that and is at least somewhat used to it.

If the masseur was cleaning it up with his tongue then it might be leading to more 😋

I tried a new provider yesterday for massage.
He offers therapeutic, sensual and erotic.
I asked for a blend of everything.
Price was $160.
Happy with the deep tissue work, happy with the relaxing sensual part and was pleasantly surprised with his instincts and efforts in the erotic finish. 🍆💦
So added $100 tip for giving-it-his-all on the erotic part.
He messaged later to thank me for the generous tip and said he was looking forward to serving me again.
This is how it should work.

Oh how I heart my friends here in the forum!  👏

Avoid! Avoid! Zero massage skills. Shorted me 30 minutes! Body not as toned as pictured .  Not very handsome either. Typical rub and tugger!

Asian Roulette now surpasses Russian Roulette!

there are other threads about tipping for various service types: wait staff, barbers, massage therapists, providers, etc
the American concept behind tipping was always to supplement someone who may not receive full benefit of payment - like a barber who does not own the shop, or a massage therapist who works in a spa owned by someone else.  
If someone receives full benefit of payment, then no tip required for services provided.  
no rules against whatever anyone wants to tip  - but in provider context it seems to set up a vague expectation ripe for disappointment or misinterpretation.  I’d much rather have a provider quote a rate that they are happy to receive without an expectation of additional tips. At $300-$400 an hour these days - that is a far cry from restaurant wait staff working at below minimum wage, dependent on tips to survive.
i see frequent tipping requests in pharmacies, convenience stores & fast food restaurants these days in US….its completely & totally out of control.
re; shorting on time or inability to perform - depends on context.  If the provider is stable & reasonable then negotiate.  if any signs of aggression or instability - pay in full & leave asap.

That is a dick move. If he has a thread here on the forum, please add the comment to his thread to make others aware. 

PNP

I have relied on the kindness of client-friends many times.  Without my closest client//friends I'd probably be homeless, or have had to resort to a real job (shudder!).  And yes, it could make me feel like a worthless whore to have to ask for help.  At the very least I feel a BIT disappointed in myself.  But Jesus Christ no matter how awkward I feel I continue to thank them, years later.  I'd never ghost someone who helped me just because I feel embarrassed.  Who would.   Someone who isn't doing well. Sucks dude, nice of you to help him.  VERY nice of you to still be concerned.

Exactly not all clients are desirable enough or in condition to be rimmed. Besides most of them click "rimming" because there's no "getting rimmed" choice.
 

I LOVE rimming. It’s among my best sexual talents, and one of my specialties. I enjoy doing this for my clients, and sometimes they book me just for a rimming session. It’s not infrequent I make men cum this way. Great if a client enjoys rimming me too, but I’m truly a giver. I wrote a guide. Linking below:
 

Been racking my brain again for what his actual last name was.  It was very French-Canadian sounding, as I recall.  Russell was a stage name of sorts.
I've been trying to find him again for more than a few years now.
This is him (below) for all you internet sleuths out there.  But the info is outdated by 10 years or more.  He could be back in Canada.
But OH MY GOD that cock and body and personality were fun!
https://www.yelp.com/biz/jesse-russell-private-yoga-los-angeles

Been racking my brain again for what his actual last name was.  It was very French-Canadian sounding, as I recall.  Russell was a stage name of sorts.
I've been trying to find him again for more than a few years now.
This is him (below) for all you internet sleuths out there.  But the info is outdated by 10 years or more.  He could be back in Canada.
But OH MY GOD that cock and body and personality were fun!
https://www.yelp.com/biz/jesse-russell-private-yoga-los-angeles

I remember him. He was super sexy and gave a great massage. He advertised “Canadian Massage”. I remember being shocked and excited when he took his clothes off and saw how hung and uncut he was. I saw him when he lived on Edinburgh, and then he bought a place on Harper.  He was a big surfer who spent alot of time in Venice Beach. He was also into Yoga. His name is Jesse Russell and has a website, but when I tried to contact him thru the site, I didn’t get a response so it may not be current?