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It's exactly as @Simon Suraci said; outcalls take away too much time out of your day. At the very least you have to allocate an additional hour for travel and setup and have a safely net if there's traffic on your return trip before your next session. There's also parking to consider 😖

Sadly stuff like this happens a lot in Mexico and very much in PV. Also (mostly in PV) a lot of guys will try to sell you drugs. I don't do anything, but a friend of mine fell for accepting a free sample. The police stopped him on the next block, threatened to drug test him then escorted him to an atm. The guy who gave him the sample followed just behind for his cut.

Just out of curiosity, how much do you typically expect to pay a provider?

It doesn't sound like this is the case, but I've found some providers require pics before quoting prices

So ... what happened the other three times? 👀😅

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This sounds WAY too much like trafficking. 😣

I've had almost this exact situation. Young athletic guy with two toddler kids and a woman (presumably his wife, who I didn't encounter but could hear) at home. It was a nude massage in an office and the door was unlocked the entire time. I could hear the kids moving through the hallway and later playing outside. The dynamics wouldn't impact my life at all, but I had to wonder how the kids would react if they opened the door to show their dad a rock they found and saw him getting teabagged. ... I can only guess it's a regular occurrence

Thanks for letting us know for it turned out. I think it was definitely an intriguing prospect with both high risk and high potential

Yes, but that's a very manageable/negligible risk

Please please please have some rapport with a provider before making special requests. If you've never met, you're not even real. You're a potential scam in the making.

You can also have multiple numbers on a single phone. I use the free Google Voice number for all business conversations. I wouldn't call it secure, but it also works for WhatsApp. There are apps that can give you additional numbers too.

More accurately, I'd say they focus on situations that may involve human trafficking

Did you get your deposit back? ... 😶

I don't advertise on RentMen, only RentMasseur. I give a hella intimate massage, but most clients on RentMen want to be kissed, topped or to top ... I don't top or bottom for clients and nothing touches my lips except maybe a forehead. Still that leaves a LOT of ... might fall into the escort category, that I think I'd be justified advertising on RentMen. ... "massage only" of course 😇,

@Callas While you're in Palm Springs be sure to check out the providers there. There's a good pool of talent and many providers make it a regular travel destination 🥳🙌🏾

It could be the trip set him back financially, which can be embarrassing for him and make him distant. Especially if you covered most of the cost for it.

I got a massage while in PV. The massage was absolutely horrendous. But the extras ... the extras more than justified the 100% tip I gave 😹

Providers aren't making a ton of money being FinDoms. But they might get a nice belt out of it. From the cases I've seen, generally, the idea is to punish bad behaviors and habits, with the end goal of the Sub becoming sober of that habit. The Dom is given financial reins to inflict punishment for engaging in bad habit, in the form of (perceived) money loss on something frivolous. You can also liken it to having a strict physical trainer, where a punishment may be inflicted for not living up to an expectation. Rewards may be given as well and are nonsexual. Photos a date or general praise. I'll point out, that many people interested in this situation typically want constant and active engagement with their provider or Dom. They want to be able to talk about their highs and lows, failures and shortcomings and receive feedback. It can become a very involved relationship, though usually primarily over text. The interesting thing about this fetish is that the people who are most terrified about it benefit the most.

I don't knock on anyone's fetishes. It's not my cup of tea either, but if you're a regular bottom and want to feel like a virgin again it might be something to consider. 😅 Also a lot of guys want to take bigger and bigger. If a provider doesn't have the tool to satisfy that, they may at least provide other options 🤷🏾‍♂️

I require a telephone number for all bookings and save all contact numbers. Any person who is a no-show is listed as a "Now Show" and to book another session they have to first pay for the session that was missed. This is possible because I use Square and can take online payments or send a payment link. Obviously, this isn't a solution that eliminates the problem but it does give some small amount of vindication. Many of the offenders have tried to hit me up months or years later to try to book again and I send them the payment link. Most try ghosting for a few more months until I block them but two actually ended up forking it over for the session they missed. Oddly the two both ended up being younger, like college age and one payed over installments ... 50% more for the first session and 25% for the following two.

While I offer nude massage, I will NEVER send nudes to clients. Nude sessions are an exciting extra, but if someone's reason for hiring me hinges on that, it's thoroughly misdirected. Recent face/body pics are hella important though ... 🤷🏾‍♂️

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Was at B-Mine last night as well! That security guard is "chef's kiss" 😍