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I don't knock on anyone's fetishes. It's not my cup of tea either, but if you're a regular bottom and want to feel like a virgin again it might be something to consider. 😅 Also a lot of guys want to take bigger and bigger. If a provider doesn't have the tool to satisfy that, they may at least provide other options 🤷🏾‍♂️

I require a telephone number for all bookings and save all contact numbers. Any person who is a no-show is listed as a "Now Show" and to book another session they have to first pay for the session that was missed. This is possible because I use Square and can take online payments or send a payment link. Obviously, this isn't a solution that eliminates the problem but it does give some small amount of vindication. Many of the offenders have tried to hit me up months or years later to try to book again and I send them the payment link. Most try ghosting for a few more months until I block them but two actually ended up forking it over for the session they missed. Oddly the two both ended up being younger, like college age and one payed over installments ... 50% more for the first session and 25% for the following two.

While I offer nude massage, I will NEVER send nudes to clients. Nude sessions are an exciting extra, but if someone's reason for hiring me hinges on that, it's thoroughly misdirected. Recent face/body pics are hella important though ... 🤷🏾‍♂️

We need more golden stories like this! 😂

Was at B-Mine last night as well! That security guard is "chef's kiss" 😍

If you ever show up to a masseur's place and he doesn't look as you expect he should you can turn around. Before the session started he could have said, "This isn't going to work for me." and either left or renegotiated the price. The masseur should have given notification of the cut and bandaid before arrival. That said, at any time during the session OP should have said "I'm not enjoying this. This isn't the mutual touch I wanted" or whatever, halted it and payed him partial price. You can't do that after the session has ended. A masseur upcharging for a service either not requested or provided is scamming. Therefore, a client choosing not to pay for a service provided, whether or not it lives up to their expectations or standards is also scamming.

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I understand choosing not to go to him again, but paying him less after the session is over because you feel cheated out for not being able to jerk him off seems bizarre to me. He really may have cut himself OR that's simply not a part of his erotic session and you've been overstepping this entire time. He doesn't style his face or penis for you and I get it if the massage didn't live up to your erotic standards, but you weren't cheated out of anything. He was obviously naked, gave you a "good" massage with happy ending and you could've touched him in any other location. Sounds like you both dodged bullets

Too many people requested to top him 😂

I take everything ... except Zelle. 😅 Primarily because Zelle goes to my personal account and it's easier to have earnings go to my business account

Thanksgiving is here and the holidays are already in full swing! For clients hoping for a short reprieve from the family angst or if you're traveling and are interested in providers in the area please consider contacting about availability and booking early. Everyone generally understands that plans fall through a lot at this time and that's okay. But managing inquiries and cancellations can be a hassle so early notifications of situations or scheduling conflicts is a godsend. This is the season of last minute bookings, but if you can, be the man with a plan. 🎵 Also be flexible 😅 and let's make the holidays the absolute best! I hope you all have a wonderful, loving and incredibly happy end- ... I mean .. Thanksgiving! (insert ~30k emojis 💕)

I want say get a scheduling portal. But I have one and I still get regular availability inquiries 🤷🏾‍♂️

I've never thought to, but sounds like a good idea honestly

I think if he messages you first saying someone like "You give amazing head! I would love to experience that mouth again." You could consider that maybe he doesn't get as great head from his other clients and that he'd be open to charging you less. If he's never sent you that message or something similar, I'd recommend not reaching towards any conclusions.

But I can fix him ... 😐 😅

They did something to the search feature that makes it just not work well 😮‍💨

Nothing at all has changed. You can find a platonic relationship online, but it's is highly unlikely unless you're doing so under a shared interest and provided your plans to meet (at shared interest event) don't require the other for a satisfactory outcome. This lowers sexual/intimacy expectations and gives a general focus for conversation. I.e If you enjoy hiking and want a platonic friend who does as well, meet at a hiking trail. You can have conversation and get to know each other and if your personalities conflict, you can take a break and tell him to keep walking. You can both still enjoy the experience even if you don't jive so well the first time with or without the other. For this main reason someone who also likes hiking will be more willing to take you up on it. This applies to a lot of leisurely activities, exercise, board games, NOT drinking 😂. One thing to keep in mind though is do not pick something that either of you are new to. The situation will lose the vital liberty aspect and often the focus along with it.

It seems lots of masseurs are providing 30 min options. This seems great for those who want to swing by during during the lunch hour or don't have the time to dedicate a full session. But what does a 30 min session look like? A rigorous sports massage, a midday power nap, a 20 minute massage and 10 minutes of erotic activity? Have you had or do you give a 30 min massage? Why do you choose it? What is it like, and would you do it again?

Maybe. How does your therapeutic differ from your erotic and what do you charge for each?

I'd like to bump this question and would love elaboration. What is fair pricing for each of the RM categories Therapeutic, Sensual and Erotic? Should erotic and sensual be therapeutic as well? Should sensual massage be nude? Is full service an outside category? Yes, no and why. Feel free to elaborate on what your expectations are or which conditions you believe should be met to satisfy a category change. Should this be a separate thread? 😅

Objectively, it sounds like this was a perceived sugar daddy/son situation. When you said you didn't have a vehicle it changed his perception of the situation 🫤🫥

On the topic of Red flags .. 😮‍💨

What are the exotic and erotic elements of your massage?

"Available Now" is a status indicator that can be set for up to 6 hours. Not a single person in the world is waiting for that period of time with no other occupation for someone to request a session. Especially considering that client inquiry may not happen. Someone might post as available now, but after 30 minutes decide to go to the gym, go shopping or take their dog for a walk. They can be available shortly but they obviously will not be available in the next 10 minutes for the entire time. Therefore, please consider it to mean they can accommodate a session within the next few hours. Or that they have available spots that day.