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Does anybody have POV massage videos? From the masseur's POV. I find that so intimate.
Truthfully I fantasize more about being the masseur than the massaged haha

Does anybody have POV massage videos? From the masseur's POV. I find that so intimate.
Truthfully I fantasize more about being the masseur than the massaged haha

Thank you for this info. Yes - I fully expected to tip more for "going the extra mile", as I know what I'm asking for is beyond the scope of "just a massage". Like I said, I'm not trying to be cheap and get escort service for massage prices.
Thanks for giving some insight and tips about how to approach this - I really appreciate it.

Hey all
I am obsessed with rimming (giving, not receiving), and have no interest in penetration whatsoever.
Since I don't want "full sex", I was thinking about finding a masseur instead of escort for erotic service (that would involve me rimming the provider). I have heard some masseurs do this, but wanted to hear about any experiences/recommendations.
I am in LA/OC btw

Fetishizing people for sexual gratification has absolutely nothing to do with thinking someone is “hot”. 
Slavemasters and overseers in America who were raping female and male slaves, sexually torturing them by castrating them, didn’t think they were “hot”. These slaves were just sources of sexual perversions. 
No different than the “Hottentot Venus”, who was toured around like a circus freak around France because of her big voluptuous figure. The French thought that she was so much of an “African Freak of Nature”, that after she died of multiple diseases (from sexual abuse and exploitation), France kept her body for “scientific experimentation”. 
Now we are in 2024, and people think it’s cool or “funny”, to hire a “ghetto” black guy, on a holiday that’s specific to slavery, and believe that this is harmless. Well it’s not. 
1.) Would these same black guys be taken out on a proper dinner date? NO.
2.) Would these same black guys be introduced to your intimate group of friends? NO.
3.) Would these same black guys be considered for a relationship or even marriage? Would they be introduced to your family as your partner? NO.
So NO, these guys do NOT think black guys are hot, they’re nothing more than big black cocks and phatt butts and orifices of sick Mandingo and “thug” fantasies. 
There’s absolutely nothing flattering about this type of “acknowledgement” or “recognition”. 
 
 
 
 

 
 

It makes you a bigoted, elitist, sexually exploitative A.H., who has casually made a mockery of another ethnic group’s holiday. 
Your posting isn’t witty, ironic, or funny. It shows your lack of character. 

It makes you a shamelessly disgusting person. 
 
 

Come to London. It’s part of my massage if you want that. 

Yes this is it. There’s considerable overlap between what masseurs will include and what escorts will include. It’s a blurred line.
If I, who advertises as a masseur, suddenly find a client’s cock in my mouth an alarm doesn’t go off and the escort police burst in to redefine the session and me as an escort or insist that I haven’t done sufficient effleurage on his back to be called a masseur. 
Everyone is free to define themselves and their service how they want to because the work isn’t regulated or codified. Clients should check with their escort or masseur if they have specific requirements. I’ve had all sorts of requests! Some are ‘yes of course’ and some are ‘that’s not my thing sorry’. I’m glad to be asked. No judgement. 
 

I don't believe in putting limits on another person's abilities. 😆
I don't believe any government agency limits masseurs to handjobs and massage of genitalia either. 😉
My first rim job was from a massuer during our massage; but, he has long since retired.  My first time eating ass was also during a massage session.  The massuer positioned himself with his hole in my face as he massage my torso or upper legs or something.  This was years ago from a Craig's List massage hire.
 

This is the best answer right here. As a provider who is on both massage and escort websites, the boundaries of what I offer are different. This is because the services and rates vary depending on what is being sought out. However, a client who reaches me for escort services and is looking for a full massage+, I will happily meet. When vetting which provider you'd like to book with, I would suggest asking about their massage practice, to make sure it meets your expectations. Do they have a professional table? Do they have a preferred technique? If the session were an hour, how much of that would be dedicated to receiving the massage service you're looking for, before moving into the fantasy/scenario you have laid out? 
Hope that helps!

Hey all
I am obsessed with rimming (giving, not receiving), and have no interest in penetration whatsoever.
Since I don't want "full sex", I was thinking about finding a masseur instead of escort for erotic service (that would involve me rimming the provider). I have heard some masseurs do this, but wanted to hear about any experiences/recommendations.
I am in LA/OC btw

Thanks for the advice. I think my best bet is finding someone who advertises as both an escort and a masseur, then running it by them to see what their pricing would be.

Thanks for the advice. I think my best bet is finding someone who advertises as both an escort and a masseur, then running it by them to see what their pricing would be.

Hey all
I am obsessed with rimming (giving, not receiving), and have no interest in penetration whatsoever.
Since I don't want "full sex", I was thinking about finding a masseur instead of escort for erotic service (that would involve me rimming the provider). I have heard some masseurs do this, but wanted to hear about any experiences/recommendations.
I am in LA/OC btw

Thanks for the advice. I think my best bet is finding someone who advertises as both an escort and a masseur, then running it by them to see what their pricing would be.

That sounds like mutual play, which is sex, or sexual foreplay. Regardless if no penetration is involved. Those are the services of an escort. I don’t normally hire erotic masseurs, but it’s my understanding they are limited to giving a handjob happy ending, and the masseur is naked for the massage, with lots of body contact, and massage of private areas. Anything more including oral sex giving or receiving is escort services, and escort pricing.

You can increase your chances if you look at masseurs who are also in escort websites. I you are interested in the massage portion too, first identify the masseur that is also in the escort website, not escorts who have "erotic massage" added to their profile (9 times out of 10, that's self-marketing nonsense).
That said, I've had three masseurs who seem willing to get rimmed (I neither confirm nor deny having rimmed the hell out of all three), so they seem to be around. It might be a matter of inquiring and also the way you inquire.