Yellowrod

A Lucas shoot without fake cum! 

A handsome college friend got spiked with Crystal Meth from a trick this way.  Apparently if you shoot up meth it excretes in large amounts in your piss, and it transmitted to my friend in his recturm and he got high and extremely horny.  My friend got addicted to the stuff and used "booty bumps" to get himself off.  I last saw him a couple years back and he looked emaciated.  A cautionary tale if you don't know whose piss you're letting in you. 

Love and marriage may go together like a horse and carriage, but sometimes the horse wants to be unharnessed and frolic with a mare that catches his eye. My partner and I were happily married, but I was nevertheless sexually attracted to a variety of men, though not interested in a romantic relationship with them. We agreed from the start that ours would be an "open" marriage, so both of us had occasional sex with other men when circumstances were suitable. Back then, the commercial open marketplace for gay sex didn't exist, except for street hustlers, who usually were not my type.
As we aged, opportunities for sex with attractive men became very limited. Then one day, I happened to be alone in NYC, and in the Advocate I saw an ad for a sex service. Curious, I went to the address, told the man at the desk what I was in the mood for at that moment, and he directed me to a room to which he would send someone. I waited in the room for about ten minutes, and in walked a guy whom I could never have picked up cruising on my own. We had great sex, then I dressed and went back to the desk out front, and paid. Soon I learned about finding freelance providers on the Internet (I had just bought my first desktop computer), and from then on my only sex outside marriage was with the professionals, because it was quick and easy, with no danger of becoming emotionally involved with someone just because we had sex.

Because the apps are trash. Bars are dead. Cruising the park has no appeal.
Hiring gets me exactly what I want, when I want, and with who I want. 

I don't pay for sex. I pay for them to leave.

1. Convenience- hiring allows me to select a guy who can host in a convenient location at a convenient time.  No endless back and forth or messaging dozens of guys with no responses.
2. Safety- a guy with reviews on here and RM is more vetted than a stranger on an app.
3. Sexual health- providers are more likely to get tested often (and be on prep etc) as their careers depend on it.  I also have less apprehension requiring condoms since I’m the one paying and thus calling the shots.
4. Activities- I can engage in whatever (consensual) activities I like without fear of judgement or worrying about pleasing my partner (though of course I still want him to have a good time).  And their sexual prowess and experience allows them to better work with my relative inexperience.
5. Attractiveness- I can select a guy with any “look” I’m in the mood for and who would not be likely to give me time of day on an app.

I hire because it's easy. The apps are a pain.
Also, I like younger, muscular guys and being in my 60s and out of shape, they aren't doing it for free.

You just joined here and are asking this loaded question. Why don’t you tell us what motivates you to hire, if you do? And how long have you been engaging in this hobby? And why? I think we deserve to know where you are coming from before responding.

Exactly!  When I think of all the time I used to waste on the apps to no avail, hiring is significantly more cost-effective.

You don't know what you've got till it's gone... (Joni Mitchell).
So true in this case.  Thank you. 

You don't know what you've got till it's gone... (Joni Mitchell).
So true in this case.  Thank you. 

You don't know what you've got till it's gone... (Joni Mitchell).
So true in this case.  Thank you. 

Greetings folks...
As you might have noticed, this site has been offline since around mid-day Tuesday.   Our prior hosting provider decided that they are unable to continue hosting our website and had ended service to us.  Unfortunately they did not provide any notification to me about this decision and I was forced to move the site to a new server without any sort of heads up.  This includes arranging for the new hosting company, configuring the new server to meet the technical requirements, getting a copy of our current data, restoring that data (over 300GB of files), recovering the database (over 18.5 million records in that database taking up 11GB of space for the DB alone), and reconfiguring the software itself to run in the new environment.  
While migrating there was also some technical issues that I ran into that required me to coordinate with Invision's technical support team.  So that back and forth added additional time to the mix as well.  
And to pile on further… all of this occurred while I'm traveling for my day job. So I've been doing this while in a hotel in between doing my day job on the road.  
There are most likely several other things that will need to be fixed still and I'm working through them.  For example, email may only be partially working.  I still need to setup things like SPF and DKIM for the new server so our emails don't flag as spam.  There are other settings that might need to be redone to work in the new server as well that I'm not thinking about yet.  (As you might have imagined, I've not had much sleep during this whole process.)
But anyway... you get the idea.  No... we're not going anywhere!  This was a minor setback but we'll continue to move forward.  Thank you all for your understanding and support!
Rob

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