What was his former handle? I remember seeing him before the pandemic in a rather odd living situation in Highland Park near the Gold Line. A large rambling house - seemed like he rented out a room. I don't recall the massage being anything special.
Did you have to sign the waivers when you booked him? And it's odd his erotic stories on the website, leads you to think the massage is going to be a lot more ...
With partnered sex frottage is what gets me off the best, perhaps because I love the sensation of prone masturbation so much. Also, the position allows deep kissing which is essential to push me over the edge when I am with someone.
You can try sites like Weedmaps.com to see if your particular dispensary has a strain you want, and use Eaze to get home delivery (if you are in Southern California).
COVID isolation might have helped me - along with Kegels and a daily dose of Pygeum that the doc ordered. Finally met with someone and had three cums in 2 hours. Granted that I had not jerked off for a week (was saving it up cause afraid of disappointment). The first one literally went over my head - I felt 21 again. Don't know if a two year hiatus in connection might really be the cause, but hope it's here to stay for awhile.