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    former lurker got a reaction from natmas02 in When escorts cancel at the last minute   
    Grow up. These are people. And they operate in a difficult environment, with legal and health risks. The strident nature of your comment suggests a severe lack of empathy, a sense of entitlement when "hiring", and a sense that because you're hiring, the escort is contracted to do your bidding regardless of his health or his concerns. Fairly ugly I'd say. But your other posts don't display this sort of disregard for the escorts, so I'll cut you some slack, while disagreeing strenuously with this one post.
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    former lurker got a reaction from KennF in The Ex BFE   
    Couldn't disagree more. The "pendulum", if there is one, on this site is all the way on the client side. Escorts get no slack for cancelling (because the client was "counting" on being serviced; escorts are judged on the authenticity of their photos and their "honesty"; there's a strict "I don't pay in advance of service" "rule"; if an escort states a preference for the type of client he prefers, he's excoriated for being racist or ageist or a body fascist.
     
    Let's face it: escorts are human beings, and they are in a business fraught with legal and health risks. They often have to spend a good deal of time dealing with potential but not eventual clients testing them out through texts, calls, skype, etc. All of this may seem reasonable from the perspective of us clients, but not so much from the other side. And, at least on this site, there seem to be rules set in stone that protect the client but not so much the escort.
     
    So, I'll conclude this post by restating, the people who escort are just as human as the people who hire.
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    former lurker reacted to LaffingBear in When escorts cancel at the last minute   
    What difference does his genuine reason, or the conveyed excuse, make?
     
    Clients cancel on escorts all the time.
     
    We live in times where people cancel for all sorts of reasons. New hires accept job offers then never show. Service providers and contractors dont appear as agreed.
     
    Im personally dealing with a situation - today -where an acquaintance agreed to attend an event requiring ticket purchase, then canceled day before due to work emergency. Except, a few hours later, sent an email confessing work emergency was fabricated, and just not in the mood, but didnt want to lie.
     
    Societal norms and expectations evolve. Commitment, or even the obligation to inform or reply, have changed.
     
    Just move on.
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    former lurker reacted to + nycman in When escorts cancel at the last minute   
    Take a deep breath.
     
    It’s not the end of the world.
     
    Find another hooker....or beat off and go to bed realizing you
    just gave your self a $300 hand job. Always makes me giggle
    and sleep tight.
     
    These tend to be the nights where I say “fuck it” and take one
    for the team and hire a relative (or totally) unknown that
    I wouldn’t normally take a risk on. I figure...what the fuck...
    I’m already disaapointened....it can’t get much worse.
     
    Often, I just end up hiring another loser....but every now and
    then I find that elusive diamond in the rough.....and end up
    having the time of my life.
     
    Lemons or lemonade....your choice!
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    former lurker got a reaction from MikeyGMin in The Ex BFE   
    Couldn't disagree more. The "pendulum", if there is one, on this site is all the way on the client side. Escorts get no slack for cancelling (because the client was "counting" on being serviced; escorts are judged on the authenticity of their photos and their "honesty"; there's a strict "I don't pay in advance of service" "rule"; if an escort states a preference for the type of client he prefers, he's excoriated for being racist or ageist or a body fascist.
     
    Let's face it: escorts are human beings, and they are in a business fraught with legal and health risks. They often have to spend a good deal of time dealing with potential but not eventual clients testing them out through texts, calls, skype, etc. All of this may seem reasonable from the perspective of us clients, but not so much from the other side. And, at least on this site, there seem to be rules set in stone that protect the client but not so much the escort.
     
    So, I'll conclude this post by restating, the people who escort are just as human as the people who hire.
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    former lurker reacted to LookingAround in The Ex BFE   
    Can I find that job description published somewhere other than your post?
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    former lurker reacted to + BenjaminNicholas in When escorts cancel at the last minute   
    Bitter, party of one... Your table is ready
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    former lurker got a reaction from + Axiom2001 in Subway hotties   
    Once saw a guy on the subway, holding onto an upper bar, pecs bulging, and biceps beyond belief. Handsome, great hair and great face. Spectactular.
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    former lurker reacted to jjkrkwood in Kisses   
    http://78.media.tumblr.com/63754575f86575ffe4bbcfa5b6f6cfc4/tumblr_ozloebxL011rfykqlo1_1280.jpg
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    former lurker got a reaction from + Gar1eth in Subway hotties   
    Once saw a guy on the subway, holding onto an upper bar, pecs bulging, and biceps beyond belief. Handsome, great hair and great face. Spectactular.
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    former lurker got a reaction from marylander1940 in Your daily dose of Max Emerson   
    Sex on a stick.
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    former lurker reacted to jeremywalker in Jeremy Walker   
    I’m around fellas. And no, I’m not in any legal trouble. I just needed a little personal time to sort some stuff out. I’m working on a blog that details my situation. When I finish said blog, I’ll be sure to post a link on the site here.
     
    I sincerely apologize for the down time. My contact info is still all the same and now I’ll actually respond. I promise.
     
     
    Thanks for understanding.
     
    Jeremy
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    former lurker reacted to + JEC in OliverSaxonXxX   
    I had an apppointment with Oliver a few weeks ago, I had to cancel. But he was communicative and responsive to my emails and seemed very willing to meet. Agree he is probably just trying to protect himself - who can blame him?
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    former lurker reacted to Epigonos in OliverSaxonXxX   
    Guys, give the kid a break. He's young and trying to stay clear of the law. If you are in his neighborhood and interested contact him and see how it goes.
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