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I'm not sure what "different from the norm" means. I met him and he is strikingly handsome.

The name is a contraction of hot and Brazilian.

I've met him twice now, for extended sessions. Exceptional guy, smart, intuitive, caring and tremendous at the play time stuff. Really knows how to read you and provide what you enjoy and provide it in just the right way.

honest eexpression should not be dismissed. Daddy could be an asss. but he did good and deserves to be celebratd.

Thank your for sharing this information. It is heartening to know he had lifelong friends who cared about him and about whom he cared.

I've met him. There's an overlong thread on here about him. Most of the posts are from people dissing him over his pricing structure, but a group of the posters met him. All of us who did felt he was well worth it. I don't know what he means by needing a discount. Perhaps he's just inviting you to make an offer. He is handsome, well built, well hung, and very sensual. He's great in bed. If I had infinite resources, I"d take him off the market.

I'm guessing that some guys hire based on the fake profile then either go through the session because they are horny, the guy is hot enough, or they don't want conflict.

So you're comment that he's boring is based on what you've heard from someone else?

Despite all the warnings and reasons for avoiding, I'd hop on him in a NY second if the chance arose. He's just that kind of sexy. If his brother is even hotter, whoa, those genes must be something else.

That's a great bit to share. Thank you.

It's too soon to start talking about the future of the site, at least for me. I prefer to focus on the loss of the man, and the ways in which Cooper managed to get him care. The outpouring of respect and love are profound. He made a mark.

I've looked at his ad over and again. He's perfect if you speak his language. My reluctance is that I don't hire huge hung guys for a quickie because I need time to adjust and I'm leery of hiring someone for longer sessions if we can't really speak to each other except through a translator. In his case, I might either try to do a three way or learn how to communicate.

You do him proud. Bless you. I'd rather be amazed by an unexpected recovery, but I am at least comforted to know you made sure he was cared for as best as possible. Nothing erases this sort of loss, but having done your utmost to ensure his care should be reassuring. He is and will be missed. You have done great things for him.

I'm moved. When you lose someone you actually know, it's mixed emotionally. The loss stings more, but you also have deeper memories. I imagine you added a lot to his life.

He did good with this site, brought people together and made a community. Not all of it was his doing, of course, because HooBoy started this and so many of you have been constructive participants. Still, Daddy kept a light shining for all this time. Reading the message center and the reviews over the years we've had hints at Daddy's medical struggles. This is a drastic, sharp end. I mourn him. I also laud Cooper who did everything imaginable to both get Daddy medical attention and to keep us informed. This is a loss.

Cooper, thank you for your ongoing efforts to check on Daddy's status and to keep us apprised. The dialysis news is concerning, but not surprising. My father required dialysis the last few years of his life and I learned that the kidneys and lungs are the two organs that do most of the cleansing of toxins so if one is compromised, the other often falters from strain. At least dialysis, though debilitating, is an effective means of cleansing toxins. Ultimately, though, the lungs need to do their part. I also know, as my mom was diabetic, that diabetes can compromise the kidneys. So Daddy has at least two factors contributing to kidney failure. Most concerning to me is his enduring lack of responsiveness. It does sound, though, that he is getting every opportunity to rebound. That leaves room for hope. Based on my experience with my father, I know that sedatives can depress the function of one's organs, so ceasing the sedation is a means to give Daddy a better/purer chance of having his body do the most it's capable of doing. While depressing, this news at least, for me, suggests his doctors are not writing him off and are doing all sorts of sensible things to give him the best chance of pulling through. Again, thank you for all you have done.

I'm not sure what you're saying. Fem =s bottom? What basis for saying one is more fem? Which one? I'm asking mostly because I don't want to jump to the conclusion that you're stereotyping and imposing your own limited views on the two guys.

I may be wrong, but isn't this the guy who lashed out at daddy, claimed to know where he lived, etc? Seemed unstable to me. As I say, maybe I'm incorrect in tying him to that. But if I'm remembering and interpreting correctly, this guy is trouble.

Didn't meet him, but inquired. It seemed like timing wasn't going to work, so I texted/chatted "perhaps another time" which apparently set him off. He told me to lose his number and blocked me. Never happened to me before. Perhaps I was too terse in my chat messages, or he was having an off night. I don't know whether he'd be worth hiring, but I won't be trying again.

Not Ben, but I'll say no, you're not. I suspect you intended to be provocative and not fact based.

link?

Palliative care, most often, is an end of life treatment to ease pain. It's a broad category, but it's most frequently employed when pain management rather than recovery is the focus. I hope Daddy pulls through this, but the news is not hopeful. He has my best wishes and prayers. And Cooper has my gratitude for being a positive force for Daddy when he needed one.

um, no.

i've seen him. He's pricey, but imo worth every penny. He's based in midtown Manhattan. If I had trust fund money, I'd spoil him. He's remarkable. At least that was my experience.

This is a tricky issue. I see an hour as an hour, not a set of acts. Others have complained that, despite spending the time agreed upon, the provider ended the session or alerted the client 5 minutes before and it ruined the mood. Still others are of the view that whether the escort shows up and spends the time, he couldn't stay hard and they thing they shouldn't have to pay. We all have an ideal of hot guy, on time, ready and able, and unconcerned about the clock. I tend to hire for multiple hours to both give me and the provider the time to get into and fully enjoy the action. Other clients are more focused on getting the value they expect for the hourly rate. This is an activity that involves two (or more) people and isn't reducible to a formula. The best we can do is to find out what we can before hand, be clear about our expectations, and accept that there may be some variations along the way. Some of the variations are no big deal. Other variations may warrant cutting off the session. In any case, be clear about what you want. A lot of providers assume once you've come, you'd rather not have him hang around.