I tried to book an erotic massage with a guy who advertised that as one of his offerings and he freaked when I asked for it, afraid that I was undercover. He canceled the appointment I had and blocked me on the site. There was nothing in the way I asked to scare him and there was nothing I asked for that he did not advertise. His private pictures clearly suggested he was up for that kind of service. Is there a special way to ask for an erotic massage that I don’t understand? Is it better to wait until the appointment to make the request? Special codewords or handshakes, perhaps? Anyone else have similar experiences?