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The "progress" Pride design is sadly obvious, using new colors in an arrow to divide the rainbow. I support equal rights for all, but PRIDE is for those of us who are same-sex attracted. White, black, and brown don't exist in a rainbow. Something beyond our skin color unites us. This month I will wear my old-fashioned Pride t-shirts and celebrate the gay men, lesbians, and bisexuals (some of whom cross-dressed) who fought for our rights.

I posted this in 411 on 27 Mens, but it bears repeating. If it's true (and I'll bet it is) that $20/hr is the high end rate at NYC mens spas, then $20 should be the baseline tip for a massage with zero extras. Any service beyond that should be generously acknowledged. You cheapskates out there are ruining it for everyone when you get great service and don't tip accordingly. If masseurs expect to get shitty tips, they are forced to negotiate. Lead the way, be a gentleman, and tip well. The next customer will reap the benefit and one day that customer might be you!

I tried to like it, but Hannah Einbinder ruins it for me. Not funny, not talented, not attractive. Triple threat.

Thank you Ben!! If it's true (and I'll bet it is) that $20/hr is the high end rate at NYC mens spas, then $20 should be the baseline tip for a massage with zero extras. Any service beyond that should be generously acknowledged. You cheapskates out there are ruining it for everyone when you get great service and don't tip accordingly. If masseurs expect to get shitty tips, they are forced to negotiate. Lead the way, be a gentleman, and tip well. The next customer will reap the benefit and one day that customer might be you!

Hi Ben. I appreciate the fact that you check this forum and that you are so responsive to its members. You could settle a question that is frequently discussed on CoM. If I book 60 minutes for $70, how much of that goes to the masseur at your spas?

New spas are always welcome, but as has been discussed in this thread - your partner seems to open locations that compete with each other. For your own sake, get away from midtown and your competitors.

Cherish Mens Spa in Hicksville has the wonderful Lucas a few times per week and a couple of new guys as well. i recommend giving it a try. Options are limited on LI, but this place satisfies.

In this documentary on Max, we hear from ten men who detail their experiences with Kevin Spacey. What a surprise, Mr. Spacey hit on each of them! He pursued, flirted, and made physical advances. The men all assumed that he was taking a professional interest in them, despite the fact that none of them had noticeable training or talent. Thinking he could help advance their careers, they all try to finesse the situation without totally rejecting him. Well, it turns out that Mr. Spacey just wanted to sleep with them! Shocking! It's sad to see the narcissism of actors play out in all directions. Acting is a profession of privilege and no one does it because they can't get another job. In the end, these guys all got what they wanted from Mr. Spacey - a starring role in a Max series.

It's unusual to see a series that depicts various kinds of assault as the horrendous events they are and yet includes ways in which the victim is complicit. All of these people want something and all are willing to go to extreme lengths to try to get it. It kept me interested.

Most people are naming celebrities or comedians, not actors. Maybe training and studying to be an actor helps remove some of these mannerisms? I agree with tassojunior. "Actors" (and writers) will only have themselves to blame when AI replaces them.

Has anyone experienced AsianLucasBaby? He has a few mentions in other forums, but nothing about his endowment or position.

There were a couple of well proportioned men at 27Men a while ago. Thai August was always a nice surprise, as was Chinese Chris. in a spa setting, I don't expect much more that a massage, but I have been treated to a big package at eye level or a stiff appendage brushing against my hand.

Had to check it out after the buzz at Sundance. It managed to be gross, pretentious, and disappointing. See it if you're curious, but I have no idea why this film was made. Any different opinions?

Located in NYC.

Also posted this in the Deli. Any recommendations for asian masseurs who are well endowed? Could be an independent provider or a spa employee who impressed you.

Has anyone met any asian providers in NYC area on RentMasseur (or RentMen) who are very well endowed?

Just saw them at City Center in NYC. I have always loved their work, but tonight was so boring that I left at the second intermission. Any other fans out there? Anyone seeing them while they are in NY?

Thanks for posting this, 28mens. Who is opening this new spa? With Chelsea Mens, W Men, New Yorker, and 27 Men within a couple of blocks I'm curious about the owners and staff.

He started out in daytime drama in 2000. He came out publicly in 2012, during the run of White Collar. I don't know anything about him as a person, but I never believe him in a romantic/sexual role.

Just watched the first episode. It promises to be a good series. The only problem is Matt Bomer. He has moved into a rather waxy Rob Lowe-ish appearance with too much lip gloss. Also - watching a gay man pretend to be a straight actor playing a gay character is always unsatisfying. Yes I know Bomer is out now, but years of pretending to be straight change you. He's not able to really connect to the role emotionally. A gay actor who is comfortable with his sexuality would bring a vulnerability to sex scenes. A straight actor will usually attack each scene because they know they are pretending and don't care. But Matt is stuck without a way to play a human being. It makes the sex scenes gross, because he's so busy "acting straight" that he can't really be in the scenes with his costar.

About 80% of mens spas in NYC are owned by the same person. He has different partners in each spa, but he owns a large piece of all of them.

I'd wager that JK Rowling has looked into whatever she's talking about. Which is more that most people do. The world needs more JK Rowlings who are able to survive cancellation. I may not agree with everything she says but I'm grateful that she tells the truth as she sees it. People should not be required to think the same things.

Another musical that is more about the audience getting to sing than getting to watch excellent performers. Sing-alongs shouldn't cost this much. Producers look for the cheapest possible productions and sadly audiences flock to see them. It's hard to get great theater on Broadway when people are willing to pay money for this garbage.

If you ever get a chance to see KIki & Herb, do it! It's a fascinating evening of theater. I am not one of their groupies, but I got the humor. I also found it very moving. Justin Vivian Bond also performs solo. They do a great cabaret act. They are also a great singer - although not a beautiful voice.

She gave a wonderful performance as did the entire cast. The film however, was in desperate need of a better director or editor. They should have cut 30 minutes and not let the camera stay so still for the courtroom scenes.