Jay_lucas

Unfortunately, I have got stiffed a few times, including a guy that flew me out to Texas for a three day weekend and never paid me. An Overnight situation like that I think it’s fair to ask for  50% upfront ( because of issues like this). Then the rest when I’m there. I tend to not want to ask for the payment upfront when I meet a client because I don’t want them to feel uncomfortable, but I always tell them if they feel like getting out of the way just leave it on the nightstand. 
but at the end of the day, I want my clients to feel comfortable, enjoy themselves, and also not have to worry about anything. Rentmen.com  Onlyfans.com Twitter

34 minutes ago, Trick said:

If the attitude shown on this forum is any indication of how some escorts market themselves, it’s easy to see why clients decide not to hire after initial contact.

I think I market  myself pretty well. There’s always gonna be flakes no matter what . 
 

On 3/14/2024 at 5:09 AM, Guest said:

Welcome, @Jay_lucas! As a client I pay deposits for travel, typically only the cost of the flight because I prefer hosting. Otherwise, I’m never asked and I don’t pay them. I endeavor to be respectful of a provider and his time, but admit I’ve cancelled a few times. In those instances, I’ve been able to give several day’s notice, which hopefully mitigated the inconvenience. 

Sorry for the delay. I missed your message.  I agree with that. Unfortunately I had an issue in 2021 where a client flew me out to TX for a three night weekend and never paid me anything. I do take responsibility for that, because it does go back to my question should I get ask for a deposit so I don’t get messed up financially. I’m fine with clients not giving me one if I know they are serious and not going to just waste our time. 
 

a lot of people forget  it’s not just mine time , it’s OUR time together and I want both parties to be respectful of it. It sucks haha 

On 3/25/2024 at 9:39 AM, mike carey said:

I agree with the comment you quoted, and I'm sure others have taken more notice after the 30s comment!

Thank you. I don’t give people the time or day if they’re rude. I appreciate the love. 
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On 3/22/2024 at 4:16 AM, APPLE1 said:

@Jay_lucasTake at least some mollification from the 'above 30' line. Reading that was the motivator for me to look at your profile and see if you were close! And I am sure I am not the only one who took more interest after reading that.

Thank you, babe . Yeah I don’t pay attention to people who are rude. They will have their opinions.  I know my worth

5 hours ago, mike carey said:

I agree with the comment you quoted, and I'm sure others have taken more notice after the 30s comment!

I’m confused Which comment, babe?,

On 3/22/2024 at 4:16 AM, APPLE1 said:

@Jay_lucasTake at least some mollification from the 'above 30' line. Reading that was the motivator for me to look at your profile and see if you were close! And I am sure I am not the only one who took more interest after reading that.

I appreciate it Rentmen

16 minutes ago, nycman said:

Gentlemen, take note.

This is how a man responds to someone who’s being a cun-t

Bravo, Little bro.

Thanks, babe I appreciate it. 
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On 3/14/2024 at 8:06 PM, MCR said:

I don't suppose that people flaking might be that your pics look like you're older than 30?

 

Personally, I don't like deposits. Have had people not show up after giving one. 

Well, you’re entitled to your opinion but please be respectful. I am 30 and I’m a furry man and guys my page tend to not be hairy.  A lot of my clients say u look better than my pictures in person. 

On 3/14/2024 at 7:53 PM, azdr0710 said:

by the way, welcome to the forum @Jay_lucas  

it's not always this way!.......sometimes we talk about air fryers, thread count on bed sheets, and mutual funds........

I hope you'll stick around....... 

thank you, babe ❤️

8 minutes ago, Jarrod_Uncut said:

 
By all means, if you choose to…just know your decision to post this was well appreciated. Understanding both the escort and client sides and mending the divide between paying and not paying deposits, is something that is going to be a factor in the future of advertising and something I hope can be more widely accepted. 

I do agree with some things you said in is. It will be interesting to watch how rentmen is in a few years. I strongly do believe they need a feature that pays the provider if Clients cancel or flake . 

1 minute ago, Trick said:

 
There’s no fighting here, just expressing opinions. 

What  I’m seeing is everyone going back-and-forth in insulting one another and I don’t want that. As I said please keep it civil . 

Someone please help me how to close this topic , please. I don’t want anyone to fight if you don’t agree with a deposit because of a lot of cancellations that’s fine do you have your opinion and everyone else has their opinion I don’t want anyone fighting on here 

41 minutes ago, Trick said:

Let’s see who needs this more, Jarrod or Trick

Jarrod:  Has been insisting on requiring deposits for sessions for years, but still always complains about flakes and time wasters.  Deposits haven’t solved his problem with flakes.  Always unhappy with his escorting experience.

 

Trick:  Has NEVER sent a deposit for years; has met the likes of Tristan Baldwin, Mike Gaite, Cade Maddox, and lots of other well-reviewed providers who don’t require deposits. Very happy with his hiring experience.

 

Who needs it more?

Hey, can you please just keep it civil I appreciate everyone’s feedback, but please don’t fight on this. Thank you 🙏 ❤️http://Rentmen.com/JAY_LUCAS

55 minutes ago, Trick said:

I will never put down a deposit for a session.  There are a lot of good, well-reviewed providers who don’t require them.  I’ll stick to hiring them.

I never said I was looking for a deposit. I was just asking for advice. 

3 minutes ago, pubic_assistance said:

Welcome and you've now heard from our single member who is pro deposit @Jarrod_Uncut 

I'm sure you'll hear (a LOT) more on the subject from him if you keep following this (endless) conversation.

 

I appreciate it . Of course I have my own opinion and I do believe we should ask for a deposit when traveling because it does cover the cost of our trip/hotel if we get a deposit but I just wanted to get feedback from other providers and Clients .

17 minutes ago, Trick said:

How new?  Your profile on RentMen says you joined in 2018.

https://rentmen.eu/JAY_LUCAS

 

New to the platform …  not RM

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44 minutes ago, LA90046 said:

Appears to have already been deleted.

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1 hour ago, BenjaminNicholas said:

Welcome.

Your opener is a question that's been asked multiple times weekly with a plethora of searchable threads at your disposal.

Might I also recommend using a clickable link when posting your socials.

Posting when upset, especially here, is not in your best interests.  Take a breath.

Thanks for the advice. I’m new so thanks for the advice 

6 minutes ago, pubic_assistance said:

Welcome and please use the search feature on the site. You will find a huge amount of information about deposits.

99% against and one member here who insists that its reasonable.

Thank you so much , babe. I’m just a little upset right now.😭

Hey everybody, my name is Jay. You can find my profile at rentmen.com/jay_lucas 

I just wanted to come on here and say, I found out out this site and thought I would introduce myself, but also talk about a topic. A lot of my regular clients. I don’t require a deposit because we have an understanding of when we’re going to meet. But a lot of New Clients lately I haven’t asked for a deposit upon meeting and  a lot of clients that I don’t ask for a deposit, they end up flaking on me. I’m in Columbus Ohio right now and I had a client scheduled at 12  pm for 3 hours and didn’t show up then blocked me after agreeing to meet with me for weeks. That’s not only is going to affect me financially it’s gonna affect my day. I just wanted to know what your thoughts were on deposits and do you think it’s fair for providers to get one 

also, I would recommend people to avoid the guy who flaked on me : rentmen.com/Hornyfortop

Thank you guys please give me a warm welcome