I would not mention anything sexual in the first text massage, in case you have the wrong number. You can mention that you are Okay with telephone calls.
Example:
You (1st message): "Hello. I'm John. I saw your ad in XXX City. Are you available for a 1 hour session this Friday evening? I can travel or host in XXX neighborhood. If available, what is the rate you charge? I am willing to discuss more by phone call if you prefer"
Him: "Yes, I am available on Friday. I charge XXX for outcalls. Etc..."
You (2nd message): "Great! That rate works for me. How's 8pm? I see you are into kissing and water sports, which is what I'm looking for. Your ad says "Ask Me" about safe sex; so are you okay if I use a condom when I top? Feel free to call if you prefer to discuss in person"
In summary, keep it short and sweet. Don't specifically mention paying for a sex act when hiring in the United States. Mention dates and city in the first message (in case he's traveling), but be careful about any more information in case you have the wrong number. Try to ask your important questions in the 2nd text messages, and keep them simple so he can respond with "Yes, I'm fine with those activities" . Don't waste his time with open ended questions such as "What do you enjoy to do in bed?" that require too much of his time to answer and may not answer what you really wanted to know.
Happy hiring!
Which means: he is 41, not 31. his hair is brown as our his eyes. he's maybe 5'8". and maybe weighs 155#. and it's not 9". kinda scrawny. he always wore lifts or 2" inch heels. to appear taller. and always looked kinda surprised. as I dd. we both knew he looked nothing like his pictures. they are outdated. but we became buds and ended up cooking some great dinners together.
