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I always arrive early for meets with a provider cos I leave extra time for traffic delays etc & I hate to be late.
I sit in my car & wait until the appointed time before knocking at the door or go for a short walk.
My thinking is that I have agreed a time & out of respect for the provider I do not expect him to change his plans for me as he may be eating, showering or dressing etc. The meet then proceeds without any hassle with an unspoilt atmosphere.
I have occasionally waited for a few minutes if he is running late (life happens), notably when the guy had just showered & answered the door wearing just a towel with his hair still wet-so sexy!

My take (I realize with the benefit of reading about what happened).
 
You should have just stuck to 4:30p and not sent that additional text.
He should have handled the communication much better.
You should NOT have publicly called him out on this. It's not like he did something terrible like rip you off or hurt you.
 
I might think twice as a hypothetical client about hiring an escort if I knew he communicated like this. But I definitely would not want you as a client if I was a hypothetical escort after the shameful behavior you have demonstrated taking this minor disagreement public.

I sent the equivalent of two session fees to my massage therapist and my escort. Both called to say, Thank you! You don’t know how much this means to me.

Send them $$$

That April 7th date will move to April 21 before April 5th turns the calendar page.

Send them $$$

I have a friend in the food chain industry. They’re having record sales now, can’t keep the inventory they could sell to stores. But they’re also planning for a downturn when everyone asks “why did I buy all this shit.”

That April 7th date will move to April 21 before April 5th turns the calendar page.

i am not excusing the behavior, but you can freeze milk

Similar. I see a young man on a regular basis and he contacted me to let me know that he's cancelling all appointments until this lifts. I appreciated his letting me know and think it's a wise decision. I'm going to continue to make my usual payments to help him out until we can resume our regular visits.

...and a slew of other things.

 
 
i understand everyone deals with crisis differently but not everyone has to join the worms-for-brains contingency either. “Guys” doesn’t have to be you.

I worry about Romani's eyesight.... every photo posted is out-of-focus, is that really the way he sees himself?

Wow! You changed the appointed time twice and didn't think you'd upset the apple cart?
You seem oblivious to the effect your changes caused to someone else. That’s what’s not normal....
 
The only thing you were correct about was your offensive behavior, changing the appointment twice in the space of 40 minutes.

I did the same. The one who objected, I said, “Consider it a prepaid appointment.” Of course, he’s getting his regular fee and if he protests, I’m calling it an lEaster bonus!” If we see eah othe before July.

nor carpet cleaning bills nor deodorizer expenses.

Exactly what I have said beforehand too.
Perhaps it was an off day.
@vasudev if you are still enamored with him and are able to meet perhaps wait a few days and message something like "hey not completely sure what went wrong the other day, perhaps it was an off day for us both. Would love to still meet you, let me know if this could work"

I did the same. The one who objected, I said, “Consider it a prepaid appointment.” Of course, he’s getting his regular fee and if he protests, I’m calling it an lEaster bonus!” If we see eah othe before July.

$5/minute = $300/hr. Escort rates!

Wow! You changed the appointed time twice and didn't think you'd upset the apple cart?
You seem oblivious to the effect your changes caused to someone else. That’s what’s not normal....
 
The only thing you were correct about was your offensive behavior, changing the appointment twice in the space of 40 minutes.

I did the same. The one who objected, I said, “Consider it a prepaid appointment.” Of course, he’s getting his regular fee and if he protests, I’m calling it an lEaster bonus!” If we see eah othe before July.

Wow! You changed the appointed time twice and didn't think you'd upset the apple cart?
You seem oblivious to the effect your changes caused to someone else. That’s what’s not normal....
 
The only thing you were correct about was your offensive behavior, changing the appointment twice in the space of 40 minutes.

I find the more the time changes, especially to an earlier appt, the more complicated things become. I usually schedule my appointments for weekends, as i don‘t have to rush home from work or worry about scarfing down food before an escort comes over. The more rushed I am, the less pleasure or enjoyment I derive from the appointment as I feel i am trying to force myself to accomodate the escort‘s time.

I just want to know if you went biz casual up top, but remained pants-free below

My concern is for those who are HIV+ and undiagnosed.
 
Corona will beat the shit out of their already-compromised immune systems.
 
Now, more than ever, we need to make sure people know their status.

I'm just happy it's not a damn tat!