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This happens the other way around too. I ran into a client at a naked beach in Mykonos. He was with his husband. He saw me walking along at the edge of the sea. Told me he recognised my cock first 😂. 

Yeah, don't make it weird, it doesn't need to be. San Francisco, my hometown, is a small place, and over the years my regular masseurs and I inevitably bump into each other. Give a nod of recognition, or say hi and move on, as you would with any other acquaintance. Neither you nor he have exclusive rights to the gym. You don't embarrass him, he doesn't embarrass you. Easy. Don't overthink it. 

Careful.
Could be a Nutcracker.

Lol you were correct!
So I reached out by text to confirm that the set up on his ad was real and he said it was.
Made an appointment for today.
I showed up and he said he would come get me. "I like to see who it is before I bring people to my apartment."
I think the warning should have been the other way. Clearly it was the guy in the pics, but a little rounder. No way he has that nice square jaw line.
Apartment had a narrow corridor that was very crowded and kind of messy, though it opened up to a big double height space.
But it was not the space in the picture, obviously, and there was no massage table in sight.
"The table is in the spa in Florida."
Dipshit!
So I said, "I am looking for a massage on a table. You understand, right? We talked about it." He affirmed that it was true and to his credit apologized.
I turned around to leave and saw that the wash room was off the corridor.
"I just want to wash my hands."
I decided to take a piss, and when I lifted the toilet lid, he (or someone?) had clearly recently taken a dump and forgotten to flush. Bathroom was filthy on top of it all.
This was a gross experience and I cannot unrecommend this provider enough.
PS one of the reviewers on rentmasseur wrote that "all services were on offer" for his session. I hope he remembered to wipe.
 

I had a guy block me once. We both use iPhones and had iMessage. When I tried to message him after he blocked me, the messages were green (as though he no longer had an iPhone). I did some research and found this is what happens when you get blocked when both of you have iPhones and iMessage. 

Yes. I told him he had to charge more. $150 for therapeutic I can see. But I told him he should go to $180 for erotic. I gave him $200. 

I contacted Alex at the last minute because I had a meeting canceled. He was prompt in responding to me, and we were able to connect.

In short, he was terrific. His apartment was very nice and clean. He was clean-shaven and blonder than his photos, which made him far more attractive. Alex was very welcoming and easy to speak with him. We had a nice chat before and at the start of the massage. Then, he asked if I wanted some quiet time, and we did.

He uses medium pressure, which is perfect for relaxing. The extras were wonderful, and I'll be seeing him again.

He is. There were stretching and breathing exercises incorporated into the massage.

I have seen Alex twice in the last couple of months. His positive reviews are well earned. Great guy as well as someone who provides a physically satisfying experience.

Often you don't know for certain. However if both of you are iPhone users, your text to him will no longer be in blue (iMessage). It will be in green, as if you were texting to an Android device, or the user had his phone turned off

I contacted a provider in Phoenix (!) who quoted me $375/hr. No way. I stopped responding (which is a response) to his texts and deleted them. I noticed he no longer advertises but his OF is still updating. While I'm all for these guys making a living, I'm also aware that as a client I have control of the process and can step away if I don't like the rates or attitude of the provider. 

I been seeing a lot of guys that have these new profile and you ask for their rates. They tell you to subscribe to there Onlyfans. Like this guy 
Edwardvicx - Pornstar Performer, Rentboy, Gay Massage in Miami, FL | RentMen
RENTMEN.EU Pornstar Performer & Rentboy in Miami, FL - Edwardvicx: Brazilian boy Am very tired of seeing this. Rm needs to delete these profile 

Met Paolo last night. Standard erotic massage was all he offered for first time, maybe that means a 2nd or 3rd session more will be available? I hope so. Charged $225
Pics are accurate, massage was nice, very sensual. Left happy, very nice body and thick tool. Very nice guy, will repeat.

Bur shirtless he'd earn a wolf whistle!

he doesn't look like a wolf or like a daddy.

Tried Kai yesterday after browsing RM and checking here. Great midtown location, clean studio, attractive guy.   $300 for 90 minutes on the upper end of what I'm willing to pay. But took the plunge nonetheless. Massage was quite good, no complaints. However, once he asked me to turn over the upselling commenced.  Total buzzkill for me. Will not be repeating.

His profiles on both RMs appear to be gone. 

My father was in the hotel biz for 25+ years, many of those in management. He once told me that as long as your actions do not disturb the other guests, and as long as your conduct and appearance are acceptable, then hotel personnel will leave you alone. In hotels with key-activated elevators, you go meet your provider in the lobby. These guys are pros (or should be) and they know how to conduct themselves without drawing attention or attracting scrutiny. “Discretion” is the key word here. Also, a number of my hires have shown up at hotels in a sport coat or blazer; dressed like that you won’t register suspicion. Even when carrying a massage table. (Tip the bellman twenty bucks and chances are he will walk your provider to your room AND carry the table.) Veteran hotel employees have seen it all; they know who’s who and what’s what. 

Had an appointment with Travis.  Very nice guy, ok massage, no extras.  Has a beard now, looks much older than the photos on masseurfinder. Has three dogs which were barking sometimes. Would not repeat

I  had a fun time as well. Definetly like what everyone said handsome, tone and very passionate. 

I don't mind when providers contact me, especially if they are traveling and letting me know their schedule. It's helpful to me and good marketing for them.
 

You should definitely start more topics. One of the nicest gestures a provider can make, in my opinion, is sending a short message after our meeting. Just a quick note thanking me for our time together, saying they enjoyed the meeting, and letting me know I’m welcome to reach out again if I’d like.
For me, that’s perfect. It’s polite and professional without feeling pushy, and it leaves the ball in my court. It acknowledges the connection without pressure or marketing vibes. It shows thoughtfulness without overstepping and makes me feel comfortable reaching out too.

One of the nicest things a provider can do (and a few have) is send a message a few hours after our meeting, thanking me for our time together, saying how much they enjoyed meeting me, and letting me know that if I ever wanted to see them again, I shouldn’t hesitate to reach out. It says everything and leaves the ball in my court.

Exactly. It doesn't taste THAT good. 

If money is tight, I do without and I console myself with that saying, "What doesn't kill you makes you stronger."