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I tried to set an appointment with him a few weeks in advance of a business trip and there seemed to be constant confusion about when we were supposed to meet. He was nice, but I did not book because after the third time I didn't trust we would be on the same page. Not sure what the communication barrier was. I chose a different guy and had no issues or regrets with that meeting. Was one, if not the best encounter I have had in this hobby.

Here is his link: Relaxationbyjay on RentMasseur RENTMASSEUR.COM View my profile on RentMasseur.com

Not sure where you are in Jersey, but there is a guy.. his name is Jay and he is on rentmasseur. Located around Edison. If you aren't that far from Philly (within an hour), call on Jorge_M. He will travel and is a great time. Also on rentmasseur.

In Philly I have 3 regulars that I have a great time with, but that is all I would consider hiring for a city that size.

I always look for erotic + good reviews and have never been disappointed.

If you want someone in the Allentown area that is excellent, give this guy a try. Super nice and really hot. His pics don't do him justice. Dluvvv on RentMasseur RENTMASSEUR.COM View my profile on RentMasseur.com

I have only been at this about a year and on this forum a few months. I have been fortunate also. I always prepare for the worst with an appt.. never have wallet with me, fingerprint entry to phone and pay for hotel with a card that only has a 500 limit on it. I also pay cash on a first meeting (and never upfront) and I hide the cash somewhere in the room. Once I know someone, I loosen some things up. I also veer toward providers that are reviewed well and the reviews feel legit. I also check the other relevant things from their ads such as the quality of how their ad is written, picture quality, etc. Now that I am on this forum, I look up anyone I am considering. But for me, one of the most important is I stick to locals versus travelers. It took me months before I booked someone the first time, but I knew who was local to my area and luckily I have made solid relationships with 5 guys I do repeat business with, one that now comes to my house. Feeling comfortable going into a session versus worrying if you are going to get scammed makes things much more enjoyable.

Did you give him a try?

There is massage for sure, but a lot of body to body. I have seen Golden three times and the first time was very much massage oriented and the last 2 have been a mix of massage and play. My take is when he doesn't know you that well, he sticks with the massage (first time he had his shorts on through the session). If you encourage more play, he will go with the flow. There are days that is exactly what I am looking for and if not, I will book someone else. My take is he is being respectful of boundaries at first until he knows what they are. I really did not share what I was looking for as I like the session to be a little spontaneous. By now however, he knows what I like. A great guy by the way.. very easy to work with, has never been late or missed an appointment.

I recently had another session with Golden. He is great with his hands, but also his body. Really hot body, gonna see him again in a couple weeks.

He just traveled to the area where I live so I took the plunge. I'm surprised to see some of the reviews here because I had a great time with him. He was pleasant and engaging, provided a great session and was generous with his time. I will agree it is more of an escort vs massage experience, but it was still a great time. He is also a lot better looking in person than his pics. He's a pretty big guy and it looks like he's been lifting weights. He had a sleeveless on when I met him and the biceps look pretty nice. Also nothing wrong with the endowment! I'd definitely see him again.

Thanks for the feedback. I have an appt set for the 30th. So far I haven't experienced the nonsense you did, but I'm thinking I should just move on from him. My guess is he may pull the same stuff right before or on the appointment date.

Appreciate the advice. I'm usually pretty good with gut feelings, so I get it. At this time, nothing seems off to me (and I have had a few interactions in the past I walked away from after first contact). I don't normally meet in lobby, but now that you mention it, it's a good idea.

No, nothing like that. He was very professional and did not push any type of agenda. I spelled out what I was looking for, one of which was not an interest in going all the way at this time. His response was that I am here to bring you an enjoyable comfortable experience the way you want it to be. I am mainly sure he is new to the Philly as an escort as I have not seen his profile before, but he does have a Philly area code. When you say VERY safe, other than what I am thinking you mean, anything else? We are meeting on my turf (local hotel), just massage and play.

I connected with him yesterday and he seems like a nice guy. Answered all my questions, very polite, etc. We set up a meeting in two weeks. A little nervous since he looks to be brand new, but I guess someone has to be his first. He is outcall only and did not ask for anything upfront. Any words of wisdom for the first meeting are appreciated.

Sorry about the second thread. I reached out to him today, waiting to see if he responds.

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If you take the plunge, please let me know. He looks new to the area and really hot.

Can you give more detail? Feel free to DM me. Thanks!

I book exclusively with providers on Rent Masseur with a sampling of about 15 or so. I am 100% MT/HE with about another 25% or so taking it to the next level. I book providers that specifically advertise sensual/erotic. I'd say only 2 or 3 were less than great experiences, but no complaints with the others. I have 4 in my local area that I am a repeat customer and I find the sessions get even more intense as you get to know one another better.

I do almost all my hiring from Rent Masseur. Nearly every encounter I have hired has gone well past massage services. What is the take on tipping in that case? I usually add 20% especially when the hourly rates are what the market dictates to be reasonable.

Interesting take that I never thought about. I'm an average middle aged white guy, and every provider I have hired is either black or Latin and I can't say I had a bad experience with any, and actually most were pretty great. I think if the initial contact gives you good vibes, it will be good and if not move on. After a recent session I had some time to talk with the provider and we discussed this very thing. I think most want to provide a great time and if both sides are cordial and pleasant with one another, none of the other stuff matters.

Last time I was there I wanted to try these guys. AlexxOscar on RentMasseur RENTMASSEUR.COM View my profile on RentMasseur.com They are local but were out of town. I had an appointment with Casey Everett but go no-showed by him. I ended up meeting with this guy and had a great time. jLuis on RentMasseur RENTMASSEUR.COM View my profile on RentMasseur.com

Those kind of responses frustrate me to no end. When I first reach out to someone, I try to keep my initial questions to a max of 3. Rates, a date range to meet and whether they are incall only or will outcall. Two out of three of those could completely rule someone out and I hate to waste peoples time if that is the case. Many times I get a reply back like this one and no answers to my questions.