I agree with everything the providers have said here, with the exception that we don't advertise here - every post here is an advertisement and a work of PR. Intentionally or not.
I started this moniker after long time reading posts and thinking - what if I contribute and said out loud what we are thinking without the restrictions of worrying how it will affect my brand? And so many questions on threads are asked, where to me the answer seems so obvious. I wanted to participate and not be burdened by having to PR manage myself.
For eg. One thread asked 'Would providers would prefer a nice time with a booking, or a tip'. Well, we like both, but if we had to pick one, I replied we would prefer a tip. What followed was someone admonishing me 'instead of wanting a tip why don't you just raise your price' I replied - "well, because that wasn't an option in the question that was posed." He replied "you didn't answer my question and you are not a moderator so BUZZ OFF'.
How lovely.
So this ignited another curiosity - what would be the result if I spit the same venom back at the people who post it here so regularly? Would it make people sit back and think 'oh this is how i sound?' Would I get pleasure ticking them off? (how many times, in ANY industry, have we wished we could tell a customer or collegue how silly we think they are. There is not one person in the world who hasn't wished they could tell their boss to go suck it.)
The experiment was doomed to fail because we are all our own hero in our own story and it often went straight over their heads. I never posted a mean comment unless it was in reply, yet the vitriol comes at me in spades. One time I even copy/pasted a comment they themselves had previously made and the person still never realized this but were of course- incredibly offended. There has also definitely been an element of 'you don't even go here!'. 'A real provider would NEVER think this!' 'My paid friends told me so, so you must be lying!' I have received some private messages of encouragement though so I guess it balances out in the end?
Anyway - I am not surprised more providers haven't participated. You just need to read the threads and see the way providers are spoken about to see why. I can't say it better than people who are providers already have.
SIDE NOTE-
My real life experiences with clients are for the most part, incredibly lovely. 99% of the people I actually meet are fantastic. I have had some really special and intimate moments, helped people through hard and personal times in their lives in a way that only a provider can. I have had some incredible sex with clients and even with actual porn stars, travelled to cities I otherwise would not been able to. I have clients that have become good friends. Sometimes in my head I say "man i am so lucky, I would do this for free!" I work hard and I look after myself but I am blessed that I am also attractive enough to be in the industry. I don't ever forget that, and that I am lucky and am grateful. I am not arrogant about the fact that I get to do this. I don't walk around thinking 'i deserve this'.
The experience of real life compared to this forum is like night and day.
There IS a reason more of us don't post. If people want that to change, some people here should really think about how they contribute to that.... or even dare I say it: why some of us only post anonymously?
Twinks and jocks
18 to 28 years old .. most desired age 20 to 24
smooth toned bodies..six packs are awesome…firm biceps
great at Deep kissing
love mutual oral
good at giving massages
likes a hot facial .. likes to get cum in the mouth as well (not a problem if they don’t but it is hot)
good at conversation
blonde or brown hair preferable
Twinks and jocks
18 to 28 years old .. most desired age 20 to 24
smooth toned bodies..six packs are awesome…firm biceps
great at Deep kissing
love mutual oral
good at giving massages
likes a hot facial .. likes to get cum in the mouth as well (not a problem if they don’t but it is hot)
good at conversation
blonde or brown hair preferable
Twinks and jocks
18 to 28 years old .. most desired age 20 to 24
smooth toned bodies..six packs are awesome…firm biceps
great at Deep kissing
love mutual oral
good at giving massages
likes a hot facial .. likes to get cum in the mouth as well (not a problem if they don’t but it is hot)
good at conversation
blonde or brown hair preferable
Twinks and jocks
18 to 28 years old .. most desired age 20 to 24
smooth toned bodies..six packs are awesome…firm biceps
great at Deep kissing
love mutual oral
good at giving massages
likes a hot facial .. likes to get cum in the mouth as well (not a problem if they don’t but it is hot)
good at conversation
blonde or brown hair preferable
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