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I would say I'm more into qualities than types. A good top to me is someone who knows how to both respect and push the boundaries of the bottom. Someone willing to take the time to get the bottom nice and ready and then once they are, ready to really give it to them for their own pleasure as much as the bottoms.

I honestly have no idea where the Onlyfans demand comes from. It's saturated every semi-pro forum I've seen and I just can't figure out why people pay for this content, except in cases where it is someone your know.
Lately I've been casually perusing the Reddit 'personals/dating' discussions and 95% of the posts are of guys selling pics and videos. Who is buying all this content ?
That said, if I can kick-back on my sofa and do a live feed jerking off and make money, then that's a great gig. I just don't get it. Maybe I don't watch enough porn to appreciate the concept.

It's a concern I've raised previously. It's an issue much more so in the North American market than in Europe. We're seeing a lot of good looking under 25 guys who would traditionally have been escorts turn to onlyfans instead as a source of income. In some cases they're able to do fantastically well and can afford the lifestyle of someone in biglaw or investment banking. What this means for guys like myself who are almost exclusively into max 25 yrs twink to twunk types is that more and more we have to go to either Europe or South America to find those types of escorts. On of my main considerations when booking a holiday now is the quality of that destination's escort market because I can't get what I want at home.

Well gentlemen I appreciate you explaining that to me. I was unaware of that.. So I'll be the AceOfSpadesBoss until my business is up and running and then I'm not going to do this service as much ? only for my people I have already established a connection with. Now with that being said that's going to be a little while before I can financially do that. I applaud you guys for taking the time out to write them educational posts for me as any suggestions are greatly appreciated and respected. I used to be a store manager for Walmart so I do understand brand building (I live by Sam Waltons views when it comes to business) I just had no idea that could affect it but I am super thankful that I have yall here to educate me. I am a leader in my normal career and a good leader knows that they can learn something from everyone. I try to learn from each person I encounter. Anything yall think can help me please dont hesitate to let me know, yall can text or call me as well and I'll greatly appreciate the time you took to help me succeed.. All of my money is going to hotels and my business idea but it's not enough so I need to really push it to make this happen for myself and my associates that are following my dream with me. I have a lot of respect and appreciation for all of you!!

The quote I said was meant to frame your point of view, not my opinion in terms of words.Absense/confirmation of opposites actually only works when both states are ....finite for lack of better wording . For example Dark/light. There lies a problem though, when its dark/bright. Dark still represents the absence/opposite of light, but bright no longer singularly represents the absence/opposite of dark. The opposite of bright can be dim, small inadequate amount of light, not dark. It still can represent dark however, but that then relies on how a small amount of light is interpreted, becoming a glass half empty/full problem. As long as something is up for interpretation (as sexuality so often is by at least someone) it becomes potentially erroneous to say not macho=fem. Or at the very least different from opinion to opinion, but unlike the glass half full/empty problem, the glass in this situation ( escort/ person being commented on) has its own opinion on what they are as well.

Like you I enjoyed it as well. I thought the first ep seemed a bit rushed, but understand that this series will not be 21 episodes like TNG, and there was a need to set up the rest of the series pretty quickly.
 
Was also glad to hear the Guinan will be in the second season. Saw lots of moans and groans from some of the fans that do not like Whoopie. If they can bring Hugh back what is the problem with having Guinan.

"Star Trek: Picard" premiered last night on CBS All Access. I watched it, liked it very much, but I admit I'd be happy watching Patrick Steward read a phone book. Good story so far, and they don't seem to be rushing things. I don't know how many episodes are planned, but it's already been renewed for a second season.

I really wish they would come up with a better sound track! I mean ALL the "Trek" shows since TNG have had downright boring music with their opening credits. Honestly; they can do better - give me something that will raise some excitement; not something that will put me to sleep!!
 

Agreed, @peterhung85 is the definition of BFE

Sad!!! I would sincerely suggest you to meet @peterhung85 for remedy ! You will blossom again! There is strong reason that many are seeing him for years together! He gives undivided attention and unparalleled experience , makes you comfortable, doesn’t discriminates anyone unless someone is badaazzz! Experience with him have always enhanced! I have said repeatedly many came and went but he is there with strong position!

For me as well it is Peter Hung....I think the first time I saw him was maybe 12 years ago (maybe longer) and I've seen him several times since...soon to see him later this month and I can't wait. The first time was such an amazing experience and made a lasting impression on me but he has only gotten better with time. He became the gold standard for me and few others that I have hired have reached that level.

For me as well it is Peter Hung....I think the first time I saw him was maybe 12 years ago (maybe longer) and I've seen him several times since...soon to see him later this month and I can't wait. The first time was such an amazing experience and made a lasting impression on me but he has only gotten better with time. He became the gold standard for me and few others that I have hired have reached that level.

Peter hung and fortunate to see him again and again!

I've been retired for about 12 years now, retiring relatively young. One of the reasons was that I decided to be the primary caregiver for my remaining elderly parent. That turned out to be more than a full time job for a number of years. After they passed I transitioned to a true retirement focusing on myself for a good year....doing things I enjoyed and exploring various activities and hobbies. Some stuck while others were interesting but just not me.
 
I've settled into a good life for me...up very early every day, getting out of the house in the early morning to walk in the parks or hike the trails near me, when the weather permits I golf and I take a few trips a year (part of the fun for me is planning those trips). I've considered, and may do, some volunteer work but at the moment I consider myself too busy to have the time for that. Having a dog is great for retirement for me as it gives me something else to take care of. It was useful to create that "bucket list" and start to get some of those things done....taking time so not to get it all done in a year, and to keep adding to it as new things are discovered. This year I ran a 10k and jumped out of an airplane. In addition to focusing on keeping physically active, one has to keep mentally active as well. I love technology so am always trying to learn new things and getting new things for the house. Eventually I may even start taking some courses.
 
My best advice is to keep moving forward...doing those things that bring you joy and searching for new things to try. One day we may not have the energy, physical ability or mental state to be able to do them so carpe diem and enjoy every sandwich!!!!

I've been retired for about 12 years now, retiring relatively young. One of the reasons was that I decided to be the primary caregiver for my remaining elderly parent. That turned out to be more than a full time job for a number of years. After they passed I transitioned to a true retirement focusing on myself for a good year....doing things I enjoyed and exploring various activities and hobbies. Some stuck while others were interesting but just not me.
 
I've settled into a good life for me...up very early every day, getting out of the house in the early morning to walk in the parks or hike the trails near me, when the weather permits I golf and I take a few trips a year (part of the fun for me is planning those trips). I've considered, and may do, some volunteer work but at the moment I consider myself too busy to have the time for that. Having a dog is great for retirement for me as it gives me something else to take care of. It was useful to create that "bucket list" and start to get some of those things done....taking time so not to get it all done in a year, and to keep adding to it as new things are discovered. This year I ran a 10k and jumped out of an airplane. In addition to focusing on keeping physically active, one has to keep mentally active as well. I love technology so am always trying to learn new things and getting new things for the house. Eventually I may even start taking some courses.
 
My best advice is to keep moving forward...doing those things that bring you joy and searching for new things to try. One day we may not have the energy, physical ability or mental state to be able to do them so carpe diem and enjoy every sandwich!!!!

I've been retired for about 12 years now, retiring relatively young. One of the reasons was that I decided to be the primary caregiver for my remaining elderly parent. That turned out to be more than a full time job for a number of years. After they passed I transitioned to a true retirement focusing on myself for a good year....doing things I enjoyed and exploring various activities and hobbies. Some stuck while others were interesting but just not me.
 
I've settled into a good life for me...up very early every day, getting out of the house in the early morning to walk in the parks or hike the trails near me, when the weather permits I golf and I take a few trips a year (part of the fun for me is planning those trips). I've considered, and may do, some volunteer work but at the moment I consider myself too busy to have the time for that. Having a dog is great for retirement for me as it gives me something else to take care of. It was useful to create that "bucket list" and start to get some of those things done....taking time so not to get it all done in a year, and to keep adding to it as new things are discovered. This year I ran a 10k and jumped out of an airplane. In addition to focusing on keeping physically active, one has to keep mentally active as well. I love technology so am always trying to learn new things and getting new things for the house. Eventually I may even start taking some courses.
 
My best advice is to keep moving forward...doing those things that bring you joy and searching for new things to try. One day we may not have the energy, physical ability or mental state to be able to do them so carpe diem and enjoy every sandwich!!!!

I've been retired for about 12 years now, retiring relatively young. One of the reasons was that I decided to be the primary caregiver for my remaining elderly parent. That turned out to be more than a full time job for a number of years. After they passed I transitioned to a true retirement focusing on myself for a good year....doing things I enjoyed and exploring various activities and hobbies. Some stuck while others were interesting but just not me.
 
I've settled into a good life for me...up very early every day, getting out of the house in the early morning to walk in the parks or hike the trails near me, when the weather permits I golf and I take a few trips a year (part of the fun for me is planning those trips). I've considered, and may do, some volunteer work but at the moment I consider myself too busy to have the time for that. Having a dog is great for retirement for me as it gives me something else to take care of. It was useful to create that "bucket list" and start to get some of those things done....taking time so not to get it all done in a year, and to keep adding to it as new things are discovered. This year I ran a 10k and jumped out of an airplane. In addition to focusing on keeping physically active, one has to keep mentally active as well. I love technology so am always trying to learn new things and getting new things for the house. Eventually I may even start taking some courses.
 
My best advice is to keep moving forward...doing those things that bring you joy and searching for new things to try. One day we may not have the energy, physical ability or mental state to be able to do them so carpe diem and enjoy every sandwich!!!!

I've been retired for about 12 years now, retiring relatively young. One of the reasons was that I decided to be the primary caregiver for my remaining elderly parent. That turned out to be more than a full time job for a number of years. After they passed I transitioned to a true retirement focusing on myself for a good year....doing things I enjoyed and exploring various activities and hobbies. Some stuck while others were interesting but just not me.
 
I've settled into a good life for me...up very early every day, getting out of the house in the early morning to walk in the parks or hike the trails near me, when the weather permits I golf and I take a few trips a year (part of the fun for me is planning those trips). I've considered, and may do, some volunteer work but at the moment I consider myself too busy to have the time for that. Having a dog is great for retirement for me as it gives me something else to take care of. It was useful to create that "bucket list" and start to get some of those things done....taking time so not to get it all done in a year, and to keep adding to it as new things are discovered. This year I ran a 10k and jumped out of an airplane. In addition to focusing on keeping physically active, one has to keep mentally active as well. I love technology so am always trying to learn new things and getting new things for the house. Eventually I may even start taking some courses.
 
My best advice is to keep moving forward...doing those things that bring you joy and searching for new things to try. One day we may not have the energy, physical ability or mental state to be able to do them so carpe diem and enjoy every sandwich!!!!

Really interesting question and one I've never really considered before, with regards to what the escort might prefer. For longer appointments I've always suggested that we have dinner first. In all the many years of hiring not one has suggested sex first.
 
For myself, part of the whole experience is the anticipation of what is to come and I really enjoy the build up of anticipation from initial greeting through dinner until back in the room. And quite frankly, I am usually spent after the sex so it works out great for me not having to go out for a dinner.

I think that I answered very reasonably, I think if you have something interesting to add about government and chemical warfare on the gay community, that this community of many gay men would be interested to hear about it. Taking it to PM is not really the way to go on a matter like this, where knowledge could benefit the community at large.
 
I don’t feel like I’m being passive aggressive, I haven’t attacked you but you’ve made a claim that I would like to read more about if it is indeed true.
 

Well, I think that’s a bit generous of you, thinking that I’m looking at thousands of posts, and definitely a bit paranoid thinking that I only call you out for (imo) questionable opinions
 
I look at the Lounge, Deli, and “Ask” - subforums. I think I’ve (in your mind) “trolled” you on two threads. Both of your opinions there were, in my opinion, a bit outlandish.
 
I think people are allowed to question others here, otherwise we wouldn’t have a reply function /ability to quote. I don’t think I’ve been unnecessarily catty or anything on the regular, sometimes I’m sarcastic / pedantic, but so are a lot of the regular posters here
 
I’ve never heard about the government inserting drugs into the gay community to kill it. Maybe you’ve read an article or watched a documentary, and if so, I’d love to know.
 
 

Thanks you so much, @Karl-G , for posting this. As i watched I found myself doing the math. So many in their twenties and thirties, some in their forties, just a few in their fifties. A couple who didn't even reach 20. So young. As the tears started to flow, I found myself feeling the inner father/grandfather I never got to be, wanting to reach out to them, to share something good with them, to thank them for the joy they brought me and so many others, to pray for them.

Never said you were confused...someone (specifically Former Lurker) asked who was 53 so I was just trying to point it out to him and others who may have not caught the posting that Dane Scott was referenced and he was 53

Your posts are confusing. Tristan and Peter, both in their early 30s, are old enough to be your "father", while men your "own age" talk about blood tests and prostate cancer screening, typically not issues for men in their 30s, and more likely to crop up late 60s or so. Some young men are fresh with ideas, often those ideas are hypothetical and transitory because they're not based on education or experience but on rough impressions. You're also less likely to find a safe bet for a multi-day experience if you look at younger guys exclusively as they don't have the same track record to rely upon. But it's your dime.
 
You might be a bit less caustic and dismissive about guys like Tristan and Peter who have proven themselves again and again to be good guys and a great time. Think what you want, but you don't need to share every shallow view with the rest of us. You're less likely to receive thoughtful responses if you demonstrate a poor/snide personality in your posts.

Without any previous encounters, two that come to mind that I would find very comfortable hiring for a weekend would be Benjamin Nicholas or Peter Hung. That would be based on my own personal preference of type and their stellar reputations and ratings.