Cliff, I would be wary! I was initially interested, but when he was last in my city he sent me unsolicited messages asking me to hire him. I was getting over a stomach flu, and replied thanks, but am not able to hire this week. (Didn't feel it necessary to disclose my reasons) He then sent me an aggressively rude text telling me to go wasting my time on grindr -totally unwarranted and crazy.