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Thank you! I was genuinely trying to have a discussion about this and not in any way defending or condoning any sexual predators. The idea that because I don't consider a rebuffed pass made at me as "sexual assault" I am therefore"disturbed" is one I would hope is not shared by many?

Please understand, what I am saying is my own experience-am not remotely condoning or excusing sexually predatory behaviour. It is more that it seemed part of growing up to me to learn that people can act inappropriately and so my method of dealing with lewd gropes, drunken passes or suggestive comments was to rebuff them, and fortunately I was never forced to go further against my will. I guess the point I was trying to make is that at least to my mind there are things which are unpleasant experiences, and things that traumatise one for life. I find your suggestion that my finding a pass made at me which I rebuffed as a "disturbed" view on sexual assault to be a bit extreme, but realise we all have our own views of what constitutes assault

actually as a kid at public baths, older men tried to, successfully and unsuccessfuly, as they did with other boys, even younger than 18, I found it unpleasant, but no it did not "traumatise" me

LOL, I texted him-so far no response......

Oh maybe. looks similar! I pvt messaged the guy who said he was there but never received a response. This one I wouldn't refuse, but prefer Dmitry!

Agreed. Without condoning anything serious he may have done, surely being groped is something that happens to a lot of people, and an 18 year old may find it unpleasant, but is it really something that "traumatises" you for 30 years etc>>> My worry is if we react to this with such horror, doesn't it diminish serious sexual assaults which go beyond drunken passes or gropes or suggestive comments or flashing? I feel there is a lack of perspective in all of this. Had he been groped by someone who was not a celebrity would this really be a story?

He looks adorable, wish he was back in NYC

Havent tried any of the other 4 and curious about most of them, but endorse Ryan West who has been my go-to for years and NEVER disappoints

Thanks for the link!

the ad is no longer there?

So sorry you had to go through this, but thanks for alerting us all here-this is why this Forum can be invaluable!

This got pretty much ignored, and was actual rape, as real sex occurred-but not much fuss about it....wondering why? http://www.nytimes.com/2008/01/04/nyregion/04actor.html

my point was not to question the veracity of the other accusations, but more a question of whether or not this incident with Rapp really counts as pedophilia if nothing sexual occurred? I think Grissom has a point

Interesting article: http://www.slate.com/blogs/outward/2017/11/01/how_calling_kevin_spacey_a_pedophile_hurts_the_gay_community.html?wpsrc=sh_all_dt_tw_bot Also a quote from author James Grissom Gay pundits’ overblown protests of disgust at Spacey support the very structure of pedophile sex panic—the hyperventilating reduction of queerness to child abuse—that they are trying to fend off. To be clear, under no clinical diagnostic I know of does a drunken, aggressive, and deeply stupid pass at a teenager qualify as pedophilia.

I imagine he means the illegal practice of paying for sex?

The guy in the photo is porn star Killian James

Would love to know as I love his pics

That I can't attest to, not sure if he meant partner as in massage partner, or life partner but my guess from chatting is that he is

Parker London (whose real name is very easy to find online) and who seems to have sadly disappeared after many fabulous and memorable encounters with him

I don't know his name, he just sent me a photo and he looked hot

Maybe, but to be fair, $150 for a "sensual" massage with extras is not unreasonable, so that in itself wouldn't bother me. It's when they say sensual and price is over $160, and THEN they start adding more $$ Also, I know it annoys some, but it doesn;t bother me if they ask for a pic, in that he is not an escort, so I don;t want a guy feeling obliged to give me extras if he thinks I am gross or so not his type that he is not enjoying it.

chatted to him online and he seems nice, and does 4 handers with his hot partner, am tempted to give him a try as I have a table at home....

Mount every climber

he is beyond stunning in this photo..... (making up for the dearth of David Picard photos, you did a great job LoveNDino, but everything must come to an end I suppose....)

A troubled soul.....