I really couldn't care less how they label themselves. Have had amazing experiences with "straight" guys and disappointing ones with gay guys. For me it is all about the personal chemistry and less about labels. I don't believe half of the labels anyway, and I feel many of them do it as a way of protecting themselves from activities they would rather engage on depending on the moment. The fact they may consider themselves 100 per cent gay doesnt mean you are going to have a better time with them. You only have to read Christopher Daniel's book (for want of a better word) to see what contempt and disdain he had for so many of his clients to realise that their sexuality is no guarantee of a better time. At least that's my experience.....can't and wouldn't wish to speak for others. Had wonderful times with Steve Hooper. Parker London, Jeremy Bilding, Chris Rockway to name 4 who don't label themselves gay. Also had a dreadful time with Landon Conrad, and they don't come any gayer than him!